Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #3

Sprite wrote:@cmarci93 In that last picture, he may be saying he likes her a lot, but his eyes are saying a lot more. He still looks smitten and happy...particularly in that post by Vanessa.

yea i understand, its hard for him to say the right words that the show wants you to say plus you don't wanna say i love you yet till the home town dates.

every girl that said that they love you to nick has gone home already

I don't get why this bette announcement would affect Vanessa in any way at all, except maybe get a few trolls off her sm pages. She knows she won't be the next lead, I don't think she really cares who is tbh. I'm annoyed at the lack of Vanessa in these episodes, I'm thinking Vanessa is annoyed about that much more. This is her love story she signed up for, and it isn't shown at all. IMO

IMO there's a little drift in Nick's POV and Vanessa's POV. She's coming from 'real world' dating scenario, and Nick is speaking as a fourth time Bach veteran, speaking Bach language. IMO there's a huge disconnect between thr two, and as a Bach newbie, Vanessa doesn't speak Bach language, hence the frustration. JMO.

I wanna know where Vanessa was when her best friend Danielle said goodbye to everyone. Maybe she was in the room crying bc she left , idk. But yes she needs more air time, lauren and ben had their fair share of air time.

Vanessa posted a tweet saying congrats to rachel

I want something "easy".
I so get it, especially as a person whose mind feels "heavy" most of the time, wanting the relationship to be "the easy part" ... someone who eases the day.

From the moment she stepped out of the limo it was easy. He pegged her as "a keeper", their 1st 1 on 1 was easily the most "forward" 1st date, their chemistry and understanding was easily notable and then comes this 2nd date, many weeks later ... when feelings have blossomed and it isn't easy anymore?
Because she said "I'm falling in love" ... and he said "I like you" ... and they "aren't on the same page"?
What's new? ... Nick, can I ask you about the edit?

They are woking hard not letting us se their connection so definitely F1! We know there was lots of hot making out on that boat and we now about that bracelet and still they only let us see the hard conversations. If she wouldn't have been F1 they would have only focused on the making out sessions so… No doubt here...

Haha remember when i said i hoped by tuesday that last weeks awful episode wd be a distant memory. Seem to be right for all the wrong reasons!!!
Excited by Nick's post as I see it as him taking control of his truth. That plus V posting that awesome picture makes me hopeful that they hv both decided to screw tptb and do Team Nessa from today. I live in hope.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BQehRKIF2KD/
From her ig.

Also curious why she was MIA in so many of the clips last night. Strange.

If not for that yellow band - I would have lost all hope already and by now calling it quits until the next season. Still hanging on to the "...you have given me so many reassurances in many ways... - V" as the sign pointing to the hidden love story. I just know that the yellow band meant something to both of them during the filming and I don't think Nick knew then that some of us want to be in "NTK" about what the reassurance was in regards to the symbolism.

Is it just me or the picture V posted on her IG is actually a picture of a developed photo?!
Btw they look so cute and so happy together.

Jina wrote:Is it just me or the picture V posted on her IG is actually a picture of a developed photo?!
Btw they look so cute and so happy together.

I thought the same thing, actually. Not sure if it means anything and can't prove it, but the lighting looked weird and a little fuzzy. Kind of how it looks when I take a pic of a developed photo to post on SM. JMO.

^^ I wonder if one of the producers or Vanessa's handler took the picture and gave it to her (framed) as a token or present. You know how Elan used to post pictures of the winning couple as if to say, "this is when I knew." Oh well I'm hanging on to every thread of hope i guess.