Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #3

mprssdbyu wrote:@notarose And I can't say I've ever liked a male contestant more!!! All you have to do is listen to Nick's interviews and if you don't like that guy, your cup of tea obviously tastes a h3ll of a lot different than mine.

notarose wrote:Curious as to how someone rejected in week 7 has come to play such a large role. He found her sexy.  They danced on stage twice.  They had some conversations.  He didn't want to give her any more roses so he ended it.
Personally I like things about each of the girls that went to St. Thomas, and I'll add Alexis who didn't to my list as well, but this show is about Nick finding out if there is a woman who he can find mutual love with so for me I expect 29 women to exit because otherwise he will be alone again.

We know as fact, Nick chose to keep 6 women he wanted in order to get to know them better for another week. 4 of those women he preferred enough to want to meet their families. It's possible that he even fell in love with one of those women. That woman could be Vanessa. We are vicariously following, as Nick referred to it in an interview, the "documentary" of his experience.

 Nick, the guy almost none of his fellow cast liked on A's season.  Nick, who was the center of arguments with some guy the night Eric was let go, with Cody on a GD, with Josh-Chris-Brian-Marcus before hometown dates.  Gee, there's probably more but you get my drift.  Nick, who blasted Josh in the infamous leaked plane vid.  Moving along to the next season: Nick who had words in K's season with a different Josh, 2 tense convos with Shawn, and Nick who even told K during his FS that Shawn was a guy with a history of ...now what exactly was the term for 2 guys sharing a girl?
Using Nick himself as a measure for comparison, I find it a challenge to come up with a known indiscretion on Vanessa's part toward any of her fellow cast that could rival what Nick is known to have actually done in the past. No one can catch up to Nick  
JMO

OH, and to be clear, I've always been in Nick's corner because single acts do not override the totality of a man or woman.  We all have things we done that we are capable of owning.

emusha wrote:@notarose
I personally don't subscribe to the view that Nick's previous behavior gives permission for any kind of the women's behavior - Nick has owned up to mistakes and has admitted he had no ill will. I see no reason why that is being kept brought back up as if to suggest that Nick wants a woman who also does the same as things he's learned were mistakes. imo

happygolucky wrote:

emusha wrote:@notarose
I personally don't subscribe to the view that Nick's previous behavior gives permission for any kind of the women's behavior - Nick has owned up to mistakes and has admitted he had no ill will. I see no reason why that is being kept brought back up as if to suggest that Nick wants a woman who also does the same as things he's learned were mistakes. imo

I don't think NR suggested that. But when the actions are done by Nick and they are approved/understood and accepted ... then similar actions are done by the woman - Vanessa - and they are not. So, can I state that it feels the rules change according to who is the subject and whether they are liked or not more?

Cila51290 wrote:Why is it that everything regarding what Vanessa does now in days turns petty. It's like people want to find something negative about her so bad just to say "I told you so! Her edit is far from a villain. Aside from RS spoilers, imo there's nothing she has done to garner such hate. Oh right, she's the F1. Ding ding ding. Hang on tight Vanessa! I'm glad Nick the king of getting hate will be by her side. They can be the most hated couple and I'll still love them.    Jmo