Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #3

coolangel wrote:Nick and Vanessa are both silent on SC/IG stories today. In Vanessa's last IG story yesterday, looked like her brother was packing a bag. Maybe it's her brother giving them company at SHV this week instead of her friend.

All JMO.

Her brother is hilarious from the IG stories and videos I've seen, and he brings out Vanessa's fun side. I hope he'll be around to grill Nick for the HTD.

I can't wait for that HTD grilling!

The way I look at the whole situations, I think Nick is very positive about his feelings for Vanessa, but he wants to explore his feelings for the other girls as well. Nick's statements on asking Vanessa to be patient for him gives me the vibes that he wants her to stay on until he sorts things out. For Vanessa, this is really tough not having to spend time with Nick when she knows Nick has feelings for her--his attentions being elsewhere and yet she is holding unto his statements of being patient. This definitely is not an easy task.

Nick is attracted to Danielle L, but the attractions between them are obviously very physical. Raven, maybe, is a great choice since Nick probably thinks she would definitely fit into his family 100%. Rachel has great chemistry with Nick, but she is a little bit uptight, not loose enough to be more fun with as company. Vanessa is very patient and down-to-earth--this can be reflected from the nature of her work and the way she dresses. Vanessa is a very cheerful, goofy and funny person as based on her presence in the public eye as well as her IG pics. Vanessa is a teacher, she would be more careful with her actions mainly because she needs to show good examples to the younger people as well as her students. The school board in Canada has very strict guidelines to teachers in terms of social media, thus we do not see or hear a lot of info on Vanessa. Vanessa is honest and blunt though, thus she is not fake... Vanessa just knows how to handle things by being tactful, this is shown through the way she deals and communicates with Nick when undesirable things happen such as the situations with Liz and Corinne. I think both Vanessa and Nick are touchy feel people, thus they could express their emotions quite easily. I can understand why Nick would kiss the girls he likes--since that is the way he feels and expresses the love for/from them as life partners.

Going back to the time Nick was with Andi and Kaitlin, I could actually feel Nick's love and emotions for both of them, although I think his feelings was more intensive with Kaitlin, thus he was really crushed when Kaitlyn had rejected him. Some viewers had thought Nick to be really rude and heartless with his reactions towards Kaitlin at that moment in time, but I personally didn't feel that way. I get it...I get him..I don't know if all of these make sense at all.

By the way, on Danielle L's pic during the concert being taken down from Nick's IG, I had seen the video where her nipples got exposed quite a few times when they were dancing--my hunches were maybe there were some undesirable comments about the incidents from his fans or those who are not fans or it could also be Nick's personal choice to take it down in order to please Vanessa--pleading his love/faithfulness for/to her.

What Vanessa describes here is not "image conscious", it's recognizing that as a couple the actions of one reflects on the other.


"Glamour: What are your nonnegotiables in a relationship?

VG: I think the biggest hurdle in relationships is sometimes having to…like, I’m the kind of person that when I’m in a serious relationship, I adopt the mentality of: How is this going to affect us? Who I socialize with? Where I go? I always think about the other person I’m dating and how it’s going to affect them. I guess for me, I’m trying to find someone who has that same mentality and can adopt that same mind frame as well..."
http://www.glamour.com/story/the-bachelor-vanessa-grimaldi-nick-viall-interview

crunchycheeto wrote:

coolangel wrote:Nick and Vanessa are both silent on SC/IG stories today. In Vanessa's last IG story yesterday, looked like her brother was packing a bag. Maybe it's her brother giving them company at SHV this week instead of her friend.

All JMO.

Her brother is hilarious from the IG stories and videos I've seen, and he brings out Vanessa's fun side. I hope he'll be around to grill Nick for the HTD.

I thought IG video was hilarious. Her slippers and the song lyrics made me laugh.
JMO

@Skates

I wasn't sure where to put this... ( I have had several copyright issues with songs on youtube and after a third attempt, I moved on to vimeo for this particular one)
Youtube issues aside, this was one of the easier videos I've made, thanks to N&V's chemistry.

Nick & Vanessa - latch - The Bachelor 21 from agentcurls on Vimeo.

Beautiful video! Thank you!!

These videos really show how much Nick likes Vanessa. We've seen Nick with all of the F3 now and Nessa's date to me is still untouchable IMO. Nick is so relaxed with Vanessa. It's like they've been dating for MONTHS.

@agentcurls Great job! That forehead lean after they kiss on 2:34 kills me.

GuardianAngel wrote:I can't wait for that HTD grilling!

I can't wait to see more about Vanessa's family and see how Nick interacts with them. Maybe her cute little nephew will make an appearance too.

crunchycheeto wrote:@agentcurls Great job! That forehead lean after they kiss on 2:34 kills me.

OMG YES! Something about that kiss and the forehead lean is so passionate. It's like they became ONE in that exact moment.

crunchycheeto wrote:@agentcurls Great job! That forehead lean after they kiss on 2:34 kills me.

That's one of my faves too along with that little pull at Zero G when he's lying on his side on the floor and she was sitting. That was when he said something like he wouldn't have wanted anyone else in that date.