Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #3

I still don't understand till this day why being in whatever clique in that house matters. There's two sides to every story. I trust Nick's judgement since he's done this show twice. I think he chose the right woman for him regardless how liked or hated she was in that environment. JMO

@Cila51290 I agree. It does not matter. IMO

What's interesting to me is that we haven't seen Vanessa post any snarky comments regarding other contestants but we've seen it from Rachel and Raven.
In my opinion it's how they are after the show is closer to who they really are as a person.

That doesn't surprise me as Vanessa comes off as very image-conscious to me. IMO.

Lara wrote:That doesn't surprise me as Vanessa comes off as very image-conscious to me. IMO.

Or she simply does not care to snark and throw shade post show. JMO

It's so interesting to me how anyone can spin "snarky comments" into a positive or a negative depending on biases regarding a person. Just an observation.

ETA response to upthread V is image conscious :
^ but if Raven and Rachel are in the running for the next lead, don't you think they will be careful of what they post on sm? Didn't I read here Raven was tipsy in one of her IG live story? If V is image conscious, then she will be a perfect fit for Nick. Two special snow flakes, huh? Jmo. And kidding too.
I still don't understand what it's a big deal that V is not the most liked girl in the house. I will admit, I wasn't the most liked girl at school. Even now, I highly doubt I am the most liked parent in my son's svhool, or the most popular person in my social circles. But, hey, I am a nice person! I never caused troubles or problems on this board

Do people notice  that both Nick and Vanessa have been pretty quiet for the past 24 hours? Nick's last IG story looks like he's in the back of a car going somewhere....

We don't even know for sure they were talking about Vanessa in that post and if they were, they didn't call her out by name. Kristina liked those comments about CFA too, who seems to be okay with Vanessa, so who knows? This isn't anything close to what people like Ashley I or even nick did after BIP where they were really knocking cast members down, IMO. Regardless, I would rather someone be real instead of allegedly fighting with me and trash talking me, then following me and being nice for appearances sake. IMO.

And who knows, maybe Vanessa reached out to Daniella L and apologized and that's why D followed her later? I don't know and it's just my speculation on a Friday afternoon when I should really go do something else but cant tear myself away from a public forum talking about total strangers.......

crunchycheeto wrote:It's so interesting to me how anyone can spin "snarky comments" into a positive or a negative depending on biases regarding a person. Just an observation.

Seriously. And there are some, like me, who doesn't think any of these people's behavior on social media post show has been negative in any way. I actually like how seemingly supportive and sweet most of them have been with each other. And I don't think Vanessa has been fake and on in her social media because she posts a couple of goofy snaps. But that's just my opinion.

Nick and Vanessa are both silent on SC/IG stories today. In Vanessa's last IG story yesterday, looked like her brother was packing a bag. Maybe it's her brother giving them company at SHV this week instead of her friend.

All JMO.

I don't see Vanessa as image conscience at all.

I have seen her as a very honest, true to life person both on the show and on her SM since filming. She recently posted shots of herself watching the show while wearing pimple cream for goodness sake. IMO, that is not a person who cares what her image looks like to others. That is a woman who is confident in her own skin and living her life.