Arie Luyendyk Jr - Lauren Burnham - Bachelor 22 - Discussion #3

sosleepy wrote:Personally, my opinion, emotionally cheating is worse. If my husband were to have a meaningless physical fling with someone, it would be devastating, no doubt, but I could see how I could get past it. A long, emotional affair, with intense feelings involved for someone else? That is devastating, and I think it would wreck my trust far worse than just something physical. JMO.

sosleepy wrote:Personally, my opinion, emotionally cheating is worse. If my husband were to have a meaningless physical fling with someone, it would be devastating, no doubt, but I could see how I could get past it. A long, emotional affair, with intense feelings involved for someone else? That is devastating, and I think it would wreck my trust far worse than just something physical. JMO.

kmick0890 wrote:

Sprite wrote:

kmick0890 wrote:

I just think if this story is true, why not just talk to Arie about it to try to come with a solution? It doesn't need to be broadcast for everyone to see. This seems like a personal thing.

Arie has apparently been fined repeatedly by the condo association for his parking. By the time this happens, talking time has passed. He knows what the problem is and apparently doesn't care about anything but his own needs. So what else is new? Also, since Arie has been broadcasting his business for all to see on national tv, in Iceland and then in Barcelona...and is now apparently pushing hard for a tv wedding....I really don't see what the big deal is about one of his neighbours talking about his business on another forum or sharing pictures. If Arie really wanted privacy, IMO he would be keeping his business to himself. IMO he can't be p*ssed off at other people sharing  his business, when he is busy doing the same thing.

The neighbor does have the right to share this with people if Arie is making bad choices, I guess I just don't see what the point is in doing so, other than just to make him look bad. If the neighbor really wants things to change, why not just address it with him again? That's my point.

Ladybug82 wrote:@grace8136 He has a different truck.  That looks like a Lightening, he currently has a raptor with wide tires now.  There's a picture somewhere pages back in the thread.

grace8136 wrote:

Ladybug82 wrote:@grace8136 He has a different truck.  That looks like a Lightening, he currently has a raptor with wide tires now.  There's a picture somewhere pages back in the thread.

thanks LB. I take it that kind of truck is bigger. They should move anyway. I don't why Lauren would want to live in that condo with all his history there, with or without the neighbors yelling out reminders to her.

Stone_Hedge wrote:

grace8136 wrote:

Ladybug82 wrote:@grace8136 He has a different truck.  That looks like a Lightening, he currently has a raptor with wide tires now.  There's a picture somewhere pages back in the thread.

thanks LB. I take it that kind of truck is bigger. They should move anyway. I don't why Lauren would want to live in that condo with all his history there, with or without the neighbors yelling out reminders to her.

Maybe she doesn’t believe in the history of that condo because it could be very different from Arie’s version of it.
Jmo

Minney wrote:

sosleepy wrote:The show (especially The Bachelor edition) has far, faaaaaaar more examples of couples imploding. Most of those couples moved in together right away and spent 24/7 together. I’m gonna go ahead and wait and see what happens here. 

In fact, for our only 2 Bachelor marriages... one couple did long distance for 10 months first, then got engaged. The other didn’t live together at all as they were waiting for marriage. They also didn’t have the benefit of spending 24/7 together because of DWTS during this timeframe. 

JMO


ETA: My guess is with this couple, if tv cameras aren’t involved, the desire for the marriage and the wedding drops significantly and we don’t have that huge fire rushing them to the alter anymore. Fleiss would love to have them stink up Becca’s AFR though, count on it. Just depends how low and tacky these two are willing to go. TBD. IMO

Speaking of DWTS... looks like that's not likely for Arie either.  While I'm not surprised by the backlash from fans of the show I am surprised by the media and other typical bach related opportunities that are shunning the couple and shunning harshly! IMO

Source

‘DWTS’ Bans Arie Luyendyk From Celebrity Stage: ‘No One Is Rooting For Him’

grace8136 wrote:Not sure I'd want to live there with the cleaned up version either. They should at least shill their way into a new mattress.

Ladybug82 wrote:

grace8136 wrote:Not sure I'd want to live there with the cleaned up version either. They should at least shill their way into a new mattress.

agreed and maybe any other fabric furniture/surfaces .  At least with the solid surfaces i wouldn't feel bad going extra crazy with Clorox, lysol, etc. to majorly clean and degerm

JMO

Ladybug82 wrote:

grace8136 wrote:Not sure I'd want to live there with the cleaned up version either. They should at least shill their way into a new mattress.

agreed and maybe any other fabric furniture/surfaces .  At least with the solid surfaces i wouldn't feel bad going extra crazy with Clorox, lysol, etc. to majorly clean and degerm

JMO