Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - Discussion

cookielover12 wrote:Which friend is with Vanessa?

cookielover12 wrote:Which friend is with Vanessa?

Cila51290 wrote:I'm guessing the "needy, dramatic, etc" Vanessa doesn't care if Nick has his headphones on.

Cila51290 wrote:The caption is even more ridiculous. "Where's the love when cameras aren't rolling?" I'd love to see how these people act with their significant other when roaming around the streets in public.

happygolucky wrote:Cute? ... when she's perceived as cold (not in love), unhappy and on the verge of a break-up ... yeap, definitely faking it in public

ReneeM wrote:

Cila51290 wrote:I'm guessing the "needy, dramatic, etc" Vanessa doesn't care if Nick has his headphones on.

OR she's keeping it cute in public. We don't know if when they got home she pulled a 'i just think it's funny how ..'

Sprite wrote:

alwaystulips wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

A) they are adults.
B) it's like any other person, some won't care. others might. It is what it is and not meant in harm, but jest.
C) it was not posted by their teacher.
D) I would imagine most of her students as well as most people who have seen the photo have used that gesture before at some time.

Sure, Vanessa didn't post it but she acknowledged and "liked" it.  I just don't care for the message it leaves to students, yes adults, who look to her for inspiration.  But I get it.  Many people find it funny or no big deal.  I'm just not one of them.  

Let's be real. I work in the same field as Vanessa and just an FYI, I have been flipped off plenty of times by the people I support. They are no different than the rest of us. Some might not like it and others could care less or just might give you the finger for even suggesting that they should be so protected!

mprssdbyu wrote:

cookielover12 wrote:

Double Date

My SC from instagram

Now this is why I love Nick. He is one smart cookie! He's not there to get advice from Ben or Lauren for himself, IMO. The twins. A break from so much serious is just what the doctor ordered! And then there is Lauren, you know the girl who is engaged to the guy who said I love you to both women and meant it. I would love to have seen the grin on Nick's face watching Vanessa swallow that story. It's not an "I told you so" moment as much as letting new perspective seep in a little at a time. I do love the interview where the host ask V, "You had never seen an entire season" and Nick's response was telling. Nick repeated that news back to V... with "Oh God"... no ...."OH GODDDDDD".

When you stop to think about it. Nick and Vanessa have lived in 2 different countries for their entire real relationship. You can't touch or console with a personal touch that means so much in a relationship. No weeks to hide at parents, no secret get away to Mexico just V watching jealous women paint her emotions on SM with a planned effort down to the T. Add one very Italian French Canadian young lady. To even suggest they should be planning a wedding at this point is silly. I have been silly getting wrapped up in the bubble while the season unfolds. Remembering you have to ask for a phone number after an engagement puts in all back in perspective for me. She's here smiling from ear to ear because she loves Nick and because she's very aware Nick loves her, too. At this point, what more can you ask for?

mindless wrote:

Cila51290 wrote:The caption is even more ridiculous. "Where's the love when cameras aren't rolling?" I'd love to see how these people act with their significant other when roaming around the streets in public.

Indeed. I guess being engaged now means you have to be draped over each others' sweaty bodies even while walking down the street. They were talking and smiling in some of those pics for goodness sake.

As for the immigration issue, on RS podcast Sharleen seemed pretty confident that the production company behind the Bachelor could sort out a visa for Vanessa if needed. I'm not sure how exactly, unless they cast her for something, but Sharleen was acting like it's no big deal. I think she said they got her an O visa when she was on the show, but she can probably get one of those just for being an opera singer, so she has that advantage. I'm not sure why she needed one anyway, since it's not like going on the Bachelor is a job. I would really like to know what Kaitlyn's visa situation is.