Vanessa Grimaldi - Bachelor 21 - *Sleuthing Spoilers* #5

I live in WashDC. Everyday lately I want to move to Canada.

I don't think Nick should absolutely move. I just want to hear him explain himself and for it to sound like something he's given thought to and takes seriously.

Catdwoman50 wrote:I live in WashDC.  Everyday lately I want to move to Canada.

You and me both! I liked your post but felt it needed a reply to say - YES and SAME!

@sbolduc I think ALL decisions should be made by both partners. The decision for me to give up my ties to a place where I had none was a decision made together because of the long term reasons and knowing that we would be a family one day. It was thought out and with many factors involved outside of who has ties to where/whom.

I have yet to be informed of where Nick is living post-DWTS. Thus I am not able to make a call on whether Vanessa should move to LA when I have zero proof that Nick is planning to live there for the rest of his life or even for the rest of the year. I also don't know where Vanessa currently stands on this matter, for all I know she may want to move to LA and go into something else. I don't rule that out just because of her current job nor will I hold it against her if it is her choice to go into the entertainment industry or the like. It's her life she can do as she wants and I'll like her just the same.

That said, I do think Vanessa and Nick have discussed the long term vs the short term circumstances of them both, where they want to live, what they want to be doing in say 5-10 years. Those are the factors that are unknown to me but IMO will be the deciding factors for Vanessa and Nick for what they choose to decide and based on the long term factors which, atm, only they know, IMO, and thus only they can make a decision on and which will be the right decision for them.

allykat wrote:

Catdwoman50 wrote:I live in WashDC.  Everyday lately I want to move to Canada.

You and me both! I liked your post but felt it needed a reply to say - YES and SAME!

bleuberry wrote:What is tying Nick to LA or NYC when DWTS is over? I don't care who moves where but I'm interested in hearing from him why she should leave her family and career to live in a city where he has neither.

 

The only thing holding Nick in LA....is LA = Hollywood IMO.

Cila51290 wrote:Of course it was a video of them talking about real issues instead of the normal opening up dialogue. The moving issue is going to be ongoing it's the ILY of this season. Obviously Nick doing DWTS means he's not moving anywhere(for now) so I suspect this to be brought up a zillion times.

I'm also turned off by Nick saying because he's "American" he doesn't picture himself living in Canada. What does that even mean? It's not like he's uprooting to Japan or India. I don't think it's that drastic. Ugh! Nick you disappoint me. JMO

I am not taking it as something offensive when he says he is proud of being an American...Vanessa ultimately has also said she is proud to be a Canadian while smiling...but, one statement caught me the most when he has stated that...he is hoping location is not something non-negotiable in the relationship (where he will be forced to stay in Canada), but he will do it for love...thus Nick hasn't really set it in stone that he is against moving to Canada...  

“Is there anything that you would feel uncomfortable compromising on?” she asks him. “Is moving for you something that you don’t see yourself doing?”

“I’ve moved a lot,” Viall, 36, responds. “I’ve never imagined living in Canada. And I’ll be honest, that’s not easy for me to picture. I hope that’s not a non-negotiable, but I think I would do anything for the woman that I love.”

Just poking around instagram and noticed Nick followed Justin Trudeau aka current Prime Minister of Canada just 1 hour or so ago (according to IG). Just interesting

Catdwoman50 wrote:

allykat wrote:

Catdwoman50 wrote:I live in WashDC.  Everyday lately I want to move to Canada.

You and me both! I liked your post but felt it needed a reply to say - YES and SAME!

You both are welcome to come here my dears. You would love it. It is a melting pot, and something you would enjoy.

Anyone remember the old days when you knew who the F1 was just by the FS they received?  I think V got the best one.

reason wrote:

Catdwoman50 wrote:

allykat wrote:

You and me both! I liked your post but felt it needed a reply to say - YES and SAME!

You both are welcome to come here my dears. You would love it. It is a melting pot, and something you would enjoy.

@reason, packing my bags and will be knocking on your door soon. Live in Montreal by any chance? Love the city.

@MonicaJM2001 Whaaaaaaaaaaat!!???? #PrimeMinisterGate!!!!!

ETA: Did he always have 1m followers on IG??



(I won't hold that against him )