The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - *NO SPOILERS* - FRC Ended - Now Contains Spoilers - Discussion

Ben H doesn't have a child, JJ does.

GuardianAngel wrote:Ben H doesn't have a child, JJ does.

Sorry I thought they both did. I must have been dazed and a little confused by his lovely eyes, gorgeous smile and great bod!

I can totally understand!

Katiebelle wrote:Oops - Just realised that JJ has already gone - he was never really on my radar. So Joe next then maybe Ben H? I just can't pick it until I see next week's episode and see their reactions to NaughtieswithNickgate.

"NaughtieswithNick" Best description I've heard.

Love following your thoughts Katie, so even though there's not many posters here, you're not alone. I've listened to Afterbuzz TV review on YT (this time they mentioned the spoiler but not the name, so it's safe) and from everything read, I actually feel it's very unfortunate that this is your first season of US Bette, because it feels like this time around the viewers got very little information about each guy. There's less focus on the dates and more on the cocktail parties, when something "tragic" keeps happening, which is different from the previous seasons, so the audience doesn't get the chance to actually know any of these guys better.

happygolucky wrote:Love following your thoughts Katie, so even though there's not many posters here, you're not alone. I've listened to Afterbuzz TV review on YT (this time they mentioned the spoiler but not the name, so it's safe) and from everything read, I actually feel it's very unfortunate that this is your first season of US Bette, because it feels like this time around the viewers got very little information about each guy. There's less focus on the dates and more on the cocktail parties, when something "tragic" keeps happening, which is different from the previous seasons, so the audience doesn't get the chance to actually know any of these guys better.

Yes! I have been very frustrated by the lack of quality time she is spending with each guy. There hasn't been that much one on one time to get to know each other and some drama always seems to take over. I haven't really got to know the guys that well so it's hard to pick who would be a good match for her.

This is my first bachelorette and it is so different from the BachelorNZ. It's too OTT for me to really enjoy it and I honesty don't believe there will be a successful love match at the end. Whoever she picks, I think they'll have a lot of work to do to have a long lasting and successful relationship.

Only 15 minutes into the latest episode but I have to say this

I Ben H!

He's absolutely lovely. And finally Kaitlyn's had a real down to earth proper date where she has actually talked about feelings and hopes and expectations.

I think he's such a nice guy and I'm in two minds wether I want him to win as I think he's way nicer than her.

I also don't like the fact that she's telling all these guys that she is falling in love with them. She's setting them up for heartache.

Btw - so not impressed with Shawn putting his boots up on that very nice coffee table at the hotel. Where are his manners? My mother would have given him a clip around the ear!

Ooooh.... I feel so bad for Joe. He says he's in love with her and she kicks him to the curb! He looked devastated.

This is exactly what I'm talking about. She lets the guys think they are her number one by telling them that she is falling in love with them and then they are genuinely surprised when she lets them go. It was the same for Ben Z and Chris.

Still loving Nick. He's coming across as mature and sweet but so far (I'm only about 40 mins in) I think Shawn is acting like a bit of a jerk. He calls Nick the "other guy" even though he knows Nick's name and he's been on the show for a while now. Nick is no longer a recent interloper and he's earned his place in the final four so let it go Shawn! You are just coming across as petty!

Ok ... So now I feel bad for Shawn! She just told him she slept with Nick and he looked absolutely shocked. Thought he handled it very well though. A lot of guys would have pitched a fit.

She is definitely leading these men on a merry dance.

Off to bed will watch the rest tomorrow.

Wow! What a great exit for Jared. What a nice man - when he offered her his jacket I had a little swoon. Originally I thought he would be her top 3 but when he said that he hadn't seen her in four days a realised the writing was on the wall for them. It's a shame as I thought they were well suited. It was pretty serious with them in the beginning and then sort of fizzled out.

As for Shawn - stop calling Nick "the other guy"! It's bl##dy rude and starting to piss me off!!

Mmmmmm.... Don't know what to think.

I'm definitely more TeamBen than TeamNick BUT ....Would pick Nick way before Shawn. I think Ben is too nice for her and they are not as well suited as her and Nick.

It seemed very easy and natural with her and Nick but since I haven't seen the other fantasy dates I just can't pick a F1 at this point.

I'm almost at the stage where I want her to choose Shawn so the other guys can be free but Ben and Nick seem to be really into her and I don't want to see them hurt. It's so hard when you have lost respect for the lead!

Whoever she chooses I hope they take the relationship one day at a time and really get to know each other before jumping in head first. Art and Matilda have done this from the NZ season and seem to have a very solid and successful relationship.

Looking forward to seeing the fantasy dates with Ben and Shawn. I think Ben's will be PG and Shawn's X rated as he'll feel like he has something to prove because he knows that she has already had sex with Nick. He comes across as very competitive and possessive (which is probably why I don't like him that much)

I love that you remain unspoiled, Kaitie, I like reading your posts too! I consider myself an honorary unspoiled person because I don't believe the spoilers. But I won't mention anything here! Just wanted you to know I enjoy reading you. ;)