Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

Alanna wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:I posted this last night, but it's long gone now, but Aaron favorited a tweet from Josh's best friend. Chad posted a tweet that had both Josh and Aaron in the tweet along with two other friends and was joking about how many of the Dawgs are engaged. If there is an issue, I don't think it's something that can never be fixed.  

In regards to Lauren, all of her posts about Andi and Josh are still there. Lauren posts stuff about herkids when they attend events and what not. A lot has been happening with Aaron and Kacie, therefore, Lauren has posted a lot about them. I wouldn't be surprised to see Lauren post about Josh and Andi in NY this week if she gets some pictures.

Didn't he also favorite a tweet this weekend that the Murray boys have great taste in women or are very lucky or something along those lines? Those two bros and their lil sis were such cute BFFs, I hope they don't let anything get in the way.

I agree. I loved the relationship we saw from this family, which lets be honest they shared quite a bit of on SM. I also hope they don't let anything get in the way. Most people I know here really like Aaron and have no idea who Josh or Andi are. I can't find a local bachelor/bachelorette pal.

Steel2009 wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Steel2009 wrote:Whewww!!  Thank goodness the pics are still there.  I don't know what to make of all this "unfollowing" on SM. I hope all is ok with them.  

Is it possible Josh and Andi got back in town yesterday in time to see the whole gang?  Who knows,  they may have had a private family dinner together last night to celebrate MM's birthday.

Just to clarify the gang was in KC this weekend.  So Josh and Andi getting back to ATL would not get them near the Murrays.

Thanks Stuck!!  For some reason, I thought they were all at UGA game on Saturday in Georgia.  I'm just now realizing the game was in KC.

No problem, one of my bff's here is a huge UGA fan. So she actually texted me about Mizzou sucking it and getting it handed to them in Mizzou. If I had any confusion where the engagement took place, my friend totally helped clarify.

SEC football fans are pretty intense.

LOL, I am their fan and don't have a breakdown of how much they do SM posting..

luvlady345 wrote:LOL, I am their fan and don't have a breakdown of how much they do SM posting..

I went and looked it up when it was said it wasn't much, since there seem to be new pics by Andi or Kelly or Josh posted almost everyday. Before that I couldn't have told you.

Alanna wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:I posted this last night, but it's long gone now, but Aaron favorited a tweet from Josh's best friend. Chad posted a tweet that had both Josh and Aaron in the tweet along with two other friends and was joking about how many of the Dawgs are engaged. If there is an issue, I don't think it's something that can never be fixed.  

In regards to Lauren, all of her posts about Andi and Josh are still there. Lauren posts stuff about herkids when they attend events and what not. A lot has been happening with Aaron and Kacie, therefore, Lauren has posted a lot about them. I wouldn't be surprised to see Lauren post about Josh and Andi in NY this week if she gets some pictures.

Didn't he also favorite a tweet this weekend that the Murray boys have great taste in women or are very lucky or something along those lines? Those two bros and their lil sis were such cute BFFs, I hope they don't let anything get in the way.

I missed that one Alanna, but I just looked and it's there. Nice to see those tweets that he favorited. I would take them as a good thing

Oh you are a better woman then me I will not even venture to someone's twitter, FB or IG who I dislike not even for research. But it's all good..

luvlady345 wrote:Oh you are a better woman then me I will not even venture to someone's twitter, FB or IG who I dislike not even for research.  But it's all good..

Or a pettier woman. I do have my moments. I also love to be right and darn I am just wrong so much of the time...

luvlady345 wrote:LOL, it doesn't get overheated to me....  But for me it's like before you click on this thread you know who said what, so I mainly just skip over those and don't read it, but if I feel like engaging I will...  It goes both ways the non fans don't like the defending either so I guess you can say it gets overheated from both the fans and the non fans in the discussion to be fair.

Agree and well said. Thanks for this great advice! Let's all remember this is a stupid TV show!!

Glad to see things have calmed down a bit.

stuckinsc wrote:I haven't gone to her IG, but on twitter in a 30 day period she put multiple posts up most days and of 30 days she didn't post on 7.  So 75% of the time she is posting and sharing about her life and Josh.  Her twitter is public, since I am not on twitter and can look it up.  So yup, to me that is a lot.  She also posts a lot of selfies.  She is seeking attention.  It is okay, but if you do that then be willing to take the good with the bad.  It is just the way it is.  And yes, she chose to put herself on tv twice and keeps putting herself out there.  She is enjoying the benefits, so she will also have to deal with the less pleasant parts too.  Again, post less and don't go to as many public events then you won't get as much flack.  It really goes both ways.  I am a Nikki fan, but I also will say her attitude towards fan ticked me off too.  I feel this way for all these people.  I made fun of Des for posting she was at a Mariner's game and then when someone asked where said she was hiding.  If you want to hide, don't tell everyone where you are.  Simple.  

Obviously mileage varies as to what constitutes being "all over" social media. Since you're not on Twitter you may think that Andi posting 47 times in the last month is a lot. I would disagree. She posts BY FAR the least of any of the celebs I follow (aside from the Rosenbaums, who are obviously busy with other stuff at the moment). Just for comparison purposes, since we're compiling stats, in the last 30 days Des has tweeted 51 times, Sean 77 and Catherine 184. On Instagram in the last two months, Andi has posted 63 pictures. Sean has posted 63, Des 72 and Catherine 177. If by "selfies" you mean pictures in which she's included, yes, she posts a lot of selfies. As do all the rest of them. I don't follow Andi on social media because I want to see photos of what she's eating for dinner -- I like the pictures she shares of her and Josh. Andi's not doing anything that other recent Bachelor/ette alumni aren't doing, and in fact she's much more restrained than many. JPabs has 19.8K tweets, for crying out loud, if we want to talk about someone who's seeking attention.

Eagle Eye wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:I haven't gone to her IG, but on twitter in a 30 day period she put multiple posts up most days and of 30 days she didn't post on 7.  So 75% of the time she is posting and sharing about her life and Josh.  Her twitter is public, since I am not on twitter and can look it up.  So yup, to me that is a lot.  She also posts a lot of selfies.  She is seeking attention.  It is okay, but if you do that then be willing to take the good with the bad.  It is just the way it is.  And yes, she chose to put herself on tv twice and keeps putting herself out there.  She is enjoying the benefits, so she will also have to deal with the less pleasant parts too.  Again, post less and don't go to as many public events then you won't get as much flack.  It really goes both ways.  I am a Nikki fan, but I also will say her attitude towards fan ticked me off too.  I feel this way for all these people.  I made fun of Des for posting she was at a Mariner's game and then when someone asked where said she was hiding.  If you want to hide, don't tell everyone where you are.  Simple.  

Obviously mileage varies as to what constitutes being "all over" social media. Since you're not on Twitter you may think that Andi posting 47 times in the last month is a lot. I would disagree. She posts BY FAR the least of any of the celebs I follow (aside from the Rosenbaums, who are obviously busy with other stuff at the moment). Just for comparison purposes, since we're compiling stats, in the last 30 days Des has tweeted 51 times, Sean 77 and Catherine 184. On Instagram in the last two months, Andi has posted 63 pictures. Sean has posted 63, Des 72 and Catherine 177. If by "selfies" you mean pictures in which she's included, yes, she posts a lot of selfies. As do all the rest of them. I don't follow Andi on social media because I want to see photos of what she's eating for dinner -- I like the pictures she shares of her and Josh. Andi's not doing anything that other recent Bachelor/ette alumni aren't doing, and in fact she's much more restrained than many. JPabs has 19.8K tweets, for crying out loud, if we want to talk about someone who's seeking attention.

And if any of those other people complained about the lack of privacy I would say that to them as well.  I believe that I pointed out making fun of Des when she tweeted saying she was at a game and then when asked where she responded hiding.  I am consistent.  If fans of any of the other couples complained about their lack of privacy, again, I would say the same thing.  I even defended Nikki's decision to deactivate twitter for a while.  

I am not the only person who feels this way, I listen to sports radio and it used to be ESPN, Mike Greenberg who idolizes Mark Schlereth, made fun of him for his twitter activity.  I agree with what he said.  I don't need to know that much about you.  When you put that much out there, then you will get negative feedback.  The couple, and I also believe I said I didn't remember Andi complaining, and their fans will need to be prepared for both positive and negative.  That is my opinion.

Oh and I am social media inept. Are selfies not pictures with of yourself that you post? Or are they only those you supposedly take of yourself too?

I guess I don't follow Andi closely enough but when did she complain about the lack of privacy?

I agree. If you don't want attention you go out of your way to do things that don't bring or seek attention. Sometimes chit happens anyway. That's life. 
No point in complaining about the side effect of something you bring on yourself. Suck it up.