Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

luvlady345 wrote:I guess I don't follow Andi closely enough but when did she complain about the lack of privacy?

Kashathediva wrote:I agree. If you don't want attention you go out of your way to do things that don't bring or seek attention. Sometimes chit happens anyway. That's life. 
No point in complaining about the side effect of something you bring on yourself. Suck it up.

stuckinsc wrote:

Eagle Eye wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:I haven't gone to her IG, but on twitter in a 30 day period she put multiple posts up most days and of 30 days she didn't post on 7.  So 75% of the time she is posting and sharing about her life and Josh.  Her twitter is public, since I am not on twitter and can look it up.  So yup, to me that is a lot.  She also posts a lot of selfies.  She is seeking attention.  It is okay, but if you do that then be willing to take the good with the bad.  It is just the way it is.  And yes, she chose to put herself on tv twice and keeps putting herself out there.  She is enjoying the benefits, so she will also have to deal with the less pleasant parts too.  Again, post less and don't go to as many public events then you won't get as much flack.  It really goes both ways.  I am a Nikki fan, but I also will say her attitude towards fan ticked me off too.  I feel this way for all these people.  I made fun of Des for posting she was at a Mariner's game and then when someone asked where said she was hiding.  If you want to hide, don't tell everyone where you are.  Simple.  

Obviously mileage varies as to what constitutes being "all over" social media. Since you're not on Twitter you may think that Andi posting 47 times in the last month is a lot. I would disagree. She posts BY FAR the least of any of the celebs I follow (aside from the Rosenbaums, who are obviously busy with other stuff at the moment). Just for comparison purposes, since we're compiling stats, in the last 30 days Des has tweeted 51 times, Sean 77 and Catherine 184. On Instagram in the last two months, Andi has posted 63 pictures. Sean has posted 63, Des 72 and Catherine 177. If by "selfies" you mean pictures in which she's included, yes, she posts a lot of selfies. As do all the rest of them. I don't follow Andi on social media because I want to see photos of what she's eating for dinner -- I like the pictures she shares of her and Josh. Andi's not doing anything that other recent Bachelor/ette alumni aren't doing, and in fact she's much more restrained than many. JPabs has 19.8K tweets, for crying out loud, if we want to talk about someone who's seeking attention.

And if any of those other people complained about the lack of privacy I would say that to them as well.  I believe that I pointed out making fun of Des when she tweeted saying she was at a game and then when asked where she responded hiding.  I am consistent.  If fans of any of the other couples complained about their lack of privacy, again, I would say the same thing.  I even defended Nikki's decision to deactivate twitter for a while.  

I am not the only person who feels this way, I listen to sports radio and it used to be ESPN, Mike Greenberg who idolizes Mark Schlereth, made fun of him for his twitter activity.  I agree with what he said.  I don't need to know that much about you.  When you put that much out there, then you will get negative feedback.  The couple, and I also believe I said I didn't remember Andi complaining, and their fans will need to be prepared for both positive and negative.  That is my opinion.

Oh and I am social media inept. Are selfies not pictures with of yourself that you post?  Or are they only those you supposedly take of yourself too?

Glow worm wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:I guess I don't follow Andi closely enough but when did she complain about the lack of privacy?

I have never seen or heard her complain about lack of privacy, and I follow her quite closely.

luvlady345 wrote:I guess I don't follow Andi closely enough but when did she complain about the lack of privacy?

umngirl wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Eagle Eye wrote:
Obviously mileage varies as to what constitutes being "all over" social media. Since you're not on Twitter you may think that Andi posting 47 times in the last month is a lot. I would disagree. She posts BY FAR the least of any of the celebs I follow (aside from the Rosenbaums, who are obviously busy with other stuff at the moment). Just for comparison purposes, since we're compiling stats, in the last 30 days Des has tweeted 51 times, Sean 77 and Catherine 184. On Instagram in the last two months, Andi has posted 63 pictures. Sean has posted 63, Des 72 and Catherine 177. If by "selfies" you mean pictures in which she's included, yes, she posts a lot of selfies. As do all the rest of them. I don't follow Andi on social media because I want to see photos of what she's eating for dinner -- I like the pictures she shares of her and Josh. Andi's not doing anything that other recent Bachelor/ette alumni aren't doing, and in fact she's much more restrained than many. JPabs has 19.8K tweets, for crying out loud, if we want to talk about someone who's seeking attention.

And if any of those other people complained about the lack of privacy I would say that to them as well.  I believe that I pointed out making fun of Des when she tweeted saying she was at a game and then when asked where she responded hiding.  I am consistent.  If fans of any of the other couples complained about their lack of privacy, again, I would say the same thing.  I even defended Nikki's decision to deactivate twitter for a while.  

I am not the only person who feels this way, I listen to sports radio and it used to be ESPN, Mike Greenberg who idolizes Mark Schlereth, made fun of him for his twitter activity.  I agree with what he said.  I don't need to know that much about you.  When you put that much out there, then you will get negative feedback.  The couple, and I also believe I said I didn't remember Andi complaining, and their fans will need to be prepared for both positive and negative.  That is my opinion.

Oh and I am social media inept. Are selfies not pictures with of yourself that you post?  Or are they only those you supposedly take of yourself too?

Selfies are pictures you take of yourself, not all pictures with you in them.

luvlady345 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:I agree. If you don't want attention you go out of your way to do things that don't bring or seek attention. Sometimes chit happens anyway. That's life. 
No point in complaining about the side effect of something you bring on yourself. Suck it up.

Oh I agree, but when did Andi complain about this?

stuckinsc wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:I guess I don't follow Andi closely enough but when did she complain about the lack of privacy?

In my posts I said that I didn't hear Andi complain about her privacy, but some of her fans.  And her one little post about ignoring the negative.

I actually think the lesson is just as important for fans.  I really liked Nick, I miss seeing stuff about him, but because he isn't out and getting photographed so much, there really isn't any negativity to deal with. Personally, I am okay with this.  He is living his life and being himself and doesn't feel the need to broadcast it. If you desperately want to keep up with your favorite, then negativity is to be expected with it.

stuckinsc wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:I guess I don't follow Andi closely enough but when did she complain about the lack of privacy?

In my posts I said that I didn't hear Andi complain about her privacy, but some of her fans.  And her one little post about ignoring the negative.

I actually think the lesson is just as important for fans.  I really liked Nick, I miss seeing stuff about him, but because he isn't out and getting photographed so much, there really isn't any negativity to deal with. Personally, I am okay with this.  He is living his life and being himself and doesn't feel the need to broadcast it. If you desperately want to keep up with your favorite, then negativity is to be expected with it.