Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

I see a difference between being at a public function and walking through an airport. At a party you should have the expectation that as a public figure pictures will be taken. To me, walking through an airport should afford some level of privacy. You don't know what might be going on with them at that time - some serious discussion or even a small disagreement. I believe any public figure should have the right to say no in those circumstances, even Andi and Josh.

Well I hope they didn't ignore the fan if their names were called, cause that's not exactly polite.

I don't like the my couple this vs your couple that stuff. They aren't all perfect and even 'sweetheart' Des had a fan complain on Twitter that she wouldn't take a pic with her a few weeks ago in LA. Des tweeted her back that she was sorry and running to a meeting, and it turned out the fan wanted Des to wait while she ran back to her work to grab her phone, so of course that's understandable. Happens to them all.

motheroffive wrote:I see a difference between being at a public function and walking through an airport. At a party you should have the expectation that as a public figure pictures will be taken. To me, walking through an airport should afford some level of privacy. You don't know what might be going on with them at that time - some serious discussion or even a small disagreement. I believe any public figure should have the right to say no in those circumstances, even Andi and Josh.

I agree with this. You know at some point you just have to say no. They have taken so many pictures with fans at so many places. They cannot even go out and have a nice dinner together without someone wanting a picture. Some fans have acknowledged that they have seen them but didn't want to interrupt them.

Glow worm wrote:If they keep in contact over the phone, they don't need to follow each other. I don't follow my closest family, even though they live far away. There is no need to, we keep in contact several times a week. We post MMS, SMS, snapchats and talk on the phone. Why would Josh first talk on the phone and then post messages online? To make the fans happy?
I think that they have other things to do than doing everything twice.

And IF there are some issues I think they are perfectly capable of sorting them out, without doing it publicly. I feel sorry for them if they would feel the need to express themselves publicly. IMO

I think that americans take sm much more seriously than we here in europe

This is an Andi & Josh discussion thread not a "my couple is more or less rude than yours" thread so please avoid this back and forth. Thanks. 

ReneeM wrote:Am I the only one who's super uncomfortable with this topic? and it has nothing to do with being a fan of Andi and Josh but I just think whatever issues they're having with their families are private, regardless of being a public figure or not. I only recently started coming to the forum after Andi's season so I don't know what kind of speculation other couples went through about their families but families are so complicated and personal and we'll probably never know what really went down, if something went down I think speculating and assigning blame is unfair.

WORD. I don't even like Andi and Josh, yet I still wouldn't feel comfortable making assumptions about their family matters based on some unfollows. I agree that it seems there's something off, but we really have no idea what, so what is the point of speculating? Going over every family member's mistakes and personality flaws in order to figure out who's to blame... It's just disrespectful IMHO. Far be it from me to tell others what to post, but if you call yourself a fan of these people, then shouldn't you be respectful of all their loved ones? At least until there's a concrete reason not to be. Innocent until proven guilty and so on. What's worse is that we know for a fact someone in the family reads these forums.

Irónic thing is that at least 1 of the people who claimed Andi was rude posted a picture with Andi smiling in it. Love how some just assume Andi was indeed rude, automatically believing some random person's word with no real knowledge of how things actually happened or if it happened at all. There's just as good a chance that maybe the person making the accusation was completely out of line and Andi's reaction was exactly the reaction any other person would have had under the same circumstances. Apparently fans are always kind and respectful !

Wow! All the fighting between members. Yikes. This place is becoming not good and not fun! Maybe time to close this thread! I want to comment but will refrain. Andi and josh are happy living life! All of the bachelor couples will be at their wedding supporting them and partying w them. THEY are all family! Think about that.

mindless wrote:

ReneeM wrote:Am I the only one who's super uncomfortable with this topic? and it has nothing to do with being a fan of Andi and Josh but I just think whatever issues they're having with their families are private, regardless of being a public figure or not. I only recently started coming to the forum after Andi's season so I don't know what kind of speculation other couples went through about their families but families are so complicated and personal and we'll probably never know what really went down, if something went down I think speculating and assigning blame is unfair.

WORD. I don't even like Andi and Josh, yet I still wouldn't feel comfortable making assumptions about their family matters based on some unfollows. I agree that it seems there's something off, but we really have no idea what, so what is the point of speculating? Going over every family member's mistakes and personality flaws in order to figure out who's to blame... It's just disrespectful IMHO. Far be it from me to tell others what to post, but if you call yourself a fan of these people, then shouldn't you be respectful of all their loved ones? At least until there's a concrete reason not to be. Innocent until proven guilty and so on. What's worse is that we know for a fact someone in the family reads these forums.

That's what the Fan threads are for. this is a discussion thread, and therefore discussions speculation positive or negative take place in this thread.

Regardless of who reads this board, opinions are always welcome as long as they are within the rules.

soccermom333 wrote:Wow!  All the fighting between members.  Yikes.  This place is becoming not good and not fun!   Maybe time to close this thread!   I want to comment but will refrain.  Andi and josh are happy living life!   All of the bachelor couples will be at their wedding supporting them and partying w them.  THEY are all family!   Think about that.  

The "discussions" get over heated when Fans have difficulty participating in General Discussion threads. We are not closing threads because fans don't like what's being said in a General Discussion thread of their favourite couple.

Fan threads were created just for the fans, I think IMO it was a great idea to have a place where all things are happy and positive especially for those who have difficulty reading anything negative about their favourites.

Everyone has their own opinions and are entitled to state them in General Discussion threads as long as they are within the rules.

I just checked MM timeline on face book. There is not one picture of Andi and Josh together. There are plenty of Aaron and Kacie and Stephanie and Chandler. She does have the video Josh did for Advocare.

I did find the pictures in an album she had.

nannymargie wrote:I just checked MM timeline on face book.  There is not one picture of Andi and Josh together.  There are plenty of Aaron and Kacie and Stephanie and Chandler.  She does have the video Josh did for Advocare.

I did find the pictures in an album she had.

That cannot be right, she's posted a lot of pics from their charity events and other adventures. I think mm is kind of stuck in the middle because she seems pretty neutral to me so far, other than genuinely being friends with Kacie and not knowing Andi as well. I wonder if she'll post pics of them from tonight, I guess if Josh didn't call her yesterday, she probably won't post anything.