Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

nannymargie wrote:Stuckinsc, can you please tell us all the times that people that said she was rude?  I have seen 2 that said that but I have seen a lot more saying other wise.

I think I would be bitchy myself if I was constantly being asked for pictures.  Sometime you just might be PMSing and just not in the best of moods.  Josh seems to handle that better than Andi but it doesn't mean that Andi is a B---h.

Plenty of contestants from this show are asked for pictures all the time. Josh and Andi aren't alone there. It's not hard to put on a smile and take two seconds for a picture.

umngirl wrote:

nannymargie wrote:Stuckinsc, can you please tell us all the times that people that said she was rude?  I have seen 2 that said that but I have seen a lot more saying other wise.

I think I would be bitchy myself if I was constantly being asked for pictures.  Sometime you just might be PMSing and just not in the best of moods.  Josh seems to handle that better than Andi but it doesn't mean that Andi is a B---h.

Plenty of contestants from this show are asked for pictures all the time. Josh and Andi aren't alone there. It's not hard to put on a smile and take two seconds for a picture.

And they do. Josh seems to go out of his way as well. Andi has been called rude twice. Both times were from girls and one of them was caught following Andi around snap chatting pictures of her all night to her friends. Josh and Andi seemed more than willing and happy to take over 50 pictures both times when they went to the UGA games. It's not like they're traveling all over to do random little events and then are paid to sit there and take photos with fans. It's happening while they're out and about with family and friends. 99% of the time, they genuinely seem happy to do it. I think if Andi got annoyed with someone who followed her around all night taking pictures of her, well, I think she's justified to be annoyed.

Just my 2 cents.. Right now Josh and Andi have alot of social and media commitments and are very busy, they have to strike while the iron's hot.. I'm sure the show producers also encourage this to keep their brand relevant. I think both the Dorfman's and Murray's understand this and are happy with any time they get to spend with the couple until Chris's season airs, then the focus will turn to him and JODI's lives will calm a bit.

Yes, Andi can be a diva, but knows that Josh's kind and affable personality is what she needs to help make her a better person.

I think the family drama definitely revolves around these 2 new women.. I wonder if it goes back to the Easter Sunday hometown date. Perhaps Kacie was not asked to be there and was upset she was not included.. (previous season BF/GF's have attended) To me, Kacie seems jealous and has pressured Aaron to make a commitment.. hence her move to KC, even though Aaron may not even be in KC after this season, and now the engagement. To me he is very young to be married, especially just out of college and trying to establish an NFL career.

umngirl wrote:
IMO, there is no good reason. You don't unfollow your own family, you just don't. Whatever issue(s) there are, there are ways to resolve them without being petty with social media activity.

Exactly. You don't throw away 30 yrs of a tight knit family because the new kids on the block don't like each other. The way to resolve it is to have a discussion with all parties involved. This behaviour is like high school teenagers. I blame them all for letting this happen. Yes, we don't know exactly what's happening, but obviously unfriending/unfollowing your own family tells a story of immaturity. Not congratulating your brother on his engagement on SM when the twitter timeline is full of well wishes, also tells a story. He could have congratulated them both and said he wished he was there to celebrate. He didn't, neither did Andi. Yes, they're busy, they are flying to NYC, but by not saying anything on SM is very telling.

umngirl wrote:
Plenty of contestants from this show are asked for pictures all the time. Josh and Andi aren't alone there. It's not hard to put on a smile and take two seconds for a picture.

Besides, they wouldn't be asking for pics and getting all the perks they do if it weren't for the fans. So when you're talking about being blessed, keep your fans in mind.

For goodness sake. Andi was described as rude twice ever on social media in regards to taking pictures with fans and now all of a sudden she and Josh don't want or like their fans?! I guess Andi isn't human I guess. She can't get annoyed at someone who followed her around all night taking snap chats of her?

Ash2214 wrote:

umngirl wrote:

nannymargie wrote:Stuckinsc, can you please tell us all the times that people that said she was rude?  I have seen 2 that said that but I have seen a lot more saying other wise.

I think I would be bitchy myself if I was constantly being asked for pictures.  Sometime you just might be PMSing and just not in the best of moods.  Josh seems to handle that better than Andi but it doesn't mean that Andi is a B---h.

Plenty of contestants from this show are asked for pictures all the time. Josh and Andi aren't alone there. It's not hard to put on a smile and take two seconds for a picture.

And they do. Josh seems to go out of his way as well. Andi has been called rude twice. Both times were from girls and one of them was caught following Andi around snap chatting pictures of her all night to her friends. Josh and Andi seemed more than willing and happy to take over 50 pictures both times when they went to the UGA games. It's not like they're traveling all over to do random little events and then are paid to sit there and take photos with fans. It's happening while they're out and about with family and friends. 99% of the time, they genuinely seem happy to do it. I think if Andi got annoyed with someone who followed her around all night taking pictures of her, well, I think she's justified to be annoyed.

Again, they aren't the first couple to have dealt with this. It comes with the territory. Other couples/contestants have been followed around too. It happens. You just ignore it. That's not difficult. And this is not just at "random little events" where they are paid to sit there and take photos with fans.

I for one am not surprised to see Andi called rude by friends. I expect it to continue. She just doesn't strike me as a warm, friendly person. I know I wouldn't approach her if I saw her because I think it's possible I would get attitude from her.

umngirl wrote:

nannymargie wrote:

umngirl wrote:It's all fine and dandy that Josh and Andi are trying to navigate their life together and balancing all their commitments plus spending time with each family. It won't always be a perfect process. But the unfollowing/unfriending on social media is totally petty and immature. IMO

I find the SM thing a little odd also but there may be a very good reason for it since Andi is still friends with MM and Aaron on face book.  So I think if there was a big problem Andi would not be friends with them either.

IMO, there is no good reason. You don't unfollow your own family, you just don't. Whatever issue(s) there are, there are ways to resolve them without being petty with social media activity.

Just to clarify, Kacie was the first to unfollow Josh and Andi. Fairly early on after the finale aired in fact, like around Josh's birthday. Aaron then also unfollowed Andi, but continues to follow Josh. Andi never followed Kacie to begin with, and still follows Aaron, Stephanie and Momma Murray. I'm not sure when Josh unfollowed Aaron or his mom, but it appears to be more recent than the rest. Stephanie still follows everyone and vice versa!

Let's call the kettle black. Josh didn't initiate the unfollowing, Kacie did. Was he involved too, absolutely , as was Aaron. Is Josh the oldest and should he be the mature one? Yes, I agree with this. But we don't know what went down here. I do just wish Josh would have publicly congratulated his brother and Kacie and wished his mom a happy birthday. Not for the sake of his family because I believe he did it privately. But doing it would certainly have eliminated the scrutiny here about family drama.

Ironically, Andi hasn't unfollowed anyone.

In her defence, theere have been lots of fan pics that Andi has been in and lots of people have said good things about her.

bleuberry wrote:In her defence, theere have been lots of fan pics that Andi has been in and lots of people have said good things about her.

Yep. Very true. My favorite thing about her is that she's for real and doesn't fake anything. I don't care if it makes her b!tchy once in awhile, oh well.

Laudergirl wrote:

umngirl wrote:

nannymargie wrote:

I find the SM thing a little odd also but there may be a very good reason for it since Andi is still friends with MM and Aaron on face book.  So I think if there was a big problem Andi would not be friends with them either.

IMO, there is no good reason. You don't unfollow your own family, you just don't. Whatever issue(s) there are, there are ways to resolve them without being petty with social media activity.

Just to clarify, Kacie was the first to unfollow Josh and Andi. Fairly early on after the finale aired in fact, like around Josh's birthday. Aaron then also unfollowed Andi, but continues to follow Josh. Andi never followed Kacie to begin with, and still follows Aaron, Stephanie and Momma Murray. I'm not sure when Josh unfollowed Aaron or his mom, but it appears to be more recent than the rest. Stephanie still follows everyone and vice versa!

Let's call the kettle black. Josh didn't initiate the unfollowing, Kacie did. Was he involved too, absolutely , as was Aaron. Is Josh the oldest and should he be the mature one? Yes, I agree with this. But we don't know what went down here. I do just wish Josh would have publicly congratulated his brother and Kacie and wished his mom a happy birthday. Not for the sake of his family because I believe he did it privately.  But doing it would certainly have eliminated the scrutiny here about family drama.

Ironically, Andi hasn't unfollowed anyone.

Difference is, Kacie isn't family. Aaron didn't unfollow anyone from his family either. Josh is unfollowing his own family members and on multiple social media platforms. I would just tell Josh to grow up, suck it up, and make it right.

umngirl wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:

umngirl wrote:

Plenty of contestants from this show are asked for pictures all the time. Josh and Andi aren't alone there. It's not hard to put on a smile and take two seconds for a picture.

And they do. Josh seems to go out of his way as well. Andi has been called rude twice. Both times were from girls and one of them was caught following Andi around snap chatting pictures of her all night to her friends. Josh and Andi seemed more than willing and happy to take over 50 pictures both times when they went to the UGA games. It's not like they're traveling all over to do random little events and then are paid to sit there and take photos with fans. It's happening while they're out and about with family and friends. 99% of the time, they genuinely seem happy to do it. I think if Andi got annoyed with someone who followed her around all night taking pictures of her, well, I think she's justified to be annoyed.

Again, they aren't the first couple to have dealt with this. It comes with the territory. Other couples/contestants have been followed around too. It happens. You just ignore it. That's not difficult. And this is not just at "random little events" where they are paid to sit there and take photos with fans.

I for one am not surprised to see Andi called rude by friends. I expect it to continue. She just doesn't strike me as a warm, friendly person. I know I wouldn't approach her if I saw her because I think it's possible I would get attitude from her.

Again, out of all of the interactions and pictures from fans since she started doing this in May, she's been called rude twice and once was from an aggressive girl. That a six month time span. I take no issue with that.

Ash2214 wrote:

umngirl wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:

And they do. Josh seems to go out of his way as well. Andi has been called rude twice. Both times were from girls and one of them was caught following Andi around snap chatting pictures of her all night to her friends. Josh and Andi seemed more than willing and happy to take over 50 pictures both times when they went to the UGA games. It's not like they're traveling all over to do random little events and then are paid to sit there and take photos with fans. It's happening while they're out and about with family and friends. 99% of the time, they genuinely seem happy to do it. I think if Andi got annoyed with someone who followed her around all night taking pictures of her, well, I think she's justified to be annoyed.

Again, they aren't the first couple to have dealt with this. It comes with the territory. Other couples/contestants have been followed around too. It happens. You just ignore it. That's not difficult. And this is not just at "random little events" where they are paid to sit there and take photos with fans.

I for one am not surprised to see Andi called rude by friends. I expect it to continue. She just doesn't strike me as a warm, friendly person. I know I wouldn't approach her if I saw her because I think it's possible I would get attitude from her.

Again, out of all of the interactions and pictures from fans since she started doing this in May, she's been called rude twice and once was from an aggressive girl. That a six month time span. I take no issue with that.

That's all fine and dandy but I'd rather it be none. And for me, I'm glad my favorites have a number of zero and there are no comments about rude behavior.

Again, it's more about the vibe I get from Andi and if I was a fan I would think twice about asking for a picture because I might get rude Andi instead of nice Andi.