Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

Her family was there as well. Her mother posted a story about the engagement on her facebook. They were at their church and Aaron proposed with both families present. At least that is what she said.

I for one, don't think there are any hard feelings. I don't follow all my close family on SM, we speak on the phone instead and I think they do the same. They are all having busy schedules, starting new chapters of their lives. They can't be all over the place all the time, they have to make priorities. JMHO.

GuardianAngel wrote:

Alanna wrote:

nannymargie wrote:I don't know if this is the right place to post  this.  But Kacie put a picture of her and MM on facebook.  She is holding a wedding planner which I assume MM gave her.

But she thanks her amazing future mother in law for spending her birthday weekend with her and Aaron.

Thanks for posting! Sounds like the only thing Kacie might have forgotten is hashtag: #iwon

I really am refraining from posting my opinion on this whole SM issue, because I don't care for Andi. You could say Andi could use the same hashtag. Just saying.

YMMV but I have never gotten the sense that Andi wants Josh to forget he has a family as long as their relationship is first. Actually, I think she verbatim said that at the htd. She was certainly supportive of visiting both Steph and Aaron's games post-show until whatever happened, happened, if something happened .

With that said, maybe Josh and Andi can both act like the fully grown humans they are and wish the poor mom a happy bday already? Seriously. It's embarrassing if 30 year old Josh cannot get it together in this situation that's straight out of junior high school.

Glow worm wrote: Her family was there as well. Her mother posted a story about the engagement on her facebook. They were at their church and Aaron proposed with both families present. At least that is what she said.

I for one, don't think there are any hard feelings. I don't follow all my close family on SM, we speak on the phone instead and I think they do the same. They are all having busy schedules, starting new chapters of their lives. They can't be all over the place all the time, they have to make priorities. JMHO.

I would completely and fully agree with you if Josh wasn't posting to Andi's family currently or to his family before the beginning of this month. It's one thing to not be active, it's another ballgame to abruptly stop communicating with them and actively unfollow them.

^^They met at the UGA game a few weeks back. His mother is posting "news" about all her children. Andi is following Aaron. They meet up with Stephanie who is living not to far away, from time to time.
Yes, Josh has been communicating with Andi's family, but I believe that's because Andi's mom and dad have posted pictures with them together the last couple of weeks. Before that they met without showing the world on SM. Her family made a statement to support JODI when there were so many lies floating around on twitter.
This weekend they had to make a priority, they couldn't be in two places at the same time. This is just my point of view.

IF there is a problem I am sure Andi and Josh will discuss it. They talk about everything. So IMO as much as Andi loves Josh if anything is wrong that Andi will bend to make sure Josh is happy.

I also feel that Josh and Andi have face timed MM for her birthday.

You can be happy and good to yourself and be loving to others at the same time. 
Because one set of adult children voice good, loving things towards their parents or family should not reflect negatively on any other family member. I know as a parent I would not think such with my own. 
During MEandI's HTD at Josh's the topic of cutting the cord came up and perhaps this is some of the cord cutting. They have pr obligations and private obligations to each other. 
It doesn't seem to me that anyone is the worse off, parents or children. All appear happy.

I just hope it is just us that is reading too much into something we really don't know anything about. I pray everything is fine with everyone.

I agree, Kashathediva! Kacie sending happy messages doesn't mean that she is competing for a "win" and that other family members should feel neglected or rejected.  I say as Andi quoted "Happy people are happy for other happy people".

Agree.... all appear happy and healthy. Who are we to say otherwise? ;)

I know it is fun to speculate but we are not privy to ANY private phone calls, facetime etc. Until Aaron, Josh, Andi, Kacie, MM, mama or papa Dorph, Stephanie, or Rachel say otherwise, all is fine in Jodi world. :cutesmile!:

soccermom333 wrote:Agree.... all appear happy and healthy.  Who are we to say otherwise?  ;)  

I know it is fun to speculate but we are not privy to ANY private phone calls, facetime etc.  Until Aaron, Josh, Andi, Kacie, MM, mama or papa Dorph, Stephanie, or Rachel say otherwise, all is fine in Jodi world.  :cutesmile!:

My sentiments exactly!

Alanna wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

Alanna wrote:
Thanks for posting! Sounds like the only thing Kacie might have forgotten is hashtag: #iwon

I really am refraining from posting my opinion on this whole SM issue, because I don't care for Andi. You could say Andi could use the same hashtag. Just saying.

YMMV but I have never gotten the sense that Andi wants Josh to forget he has a family as long as their relationship is first. Actually, I think she verbatim said that at the htd. She was certainly supportive of visiting both Steph and Aaron's games post-show until whatever happened, happened, if something happened .

With that said, maybe Josh and Andi can both act like the fully grown humans they are and wish the poor mom a happy bday already? Seriously. It's embarrassing if 30 year old Josh cannot get it together in this situation that's straight out of junior high school.

Glow worm wrote: Her family was there as well. Her mother posted a story about the engagement on her facebook. They were at their church and Aaron proposed with both families present. At least that is what she said.

I for one, don't think there are any hard feelings. I don't follow all my close family on SM, we speak on the phone instead and I think they do the same. They are all having busy schedules, starting new chapters of their lives. They can't be all over the place all the time, they have to make priorities. JMHO.

I would completely and fully agree with you if Josh wasn't posting to Andi's family currently or to his family before the beginning of this month. It's one thing to not be active, it's another ballgame to abruptly stop communicating with them and actively unfollow them.

I firmly believe that Josh face timed or called MM today to wish her a happy birthday. I would bet on it. He doesn't need to do it publicly on SM. That's all for show. Josh is not that superficial. He loves his mom and I'm sure he showed it to her privately today.

Radio silence from them on Aaron's proposal? Weren't they vocal about his draft when it happened? That combined with unfollowing half the family tells me that at the very least, they're having stupid sibling fights. I have a 25 yr old little sister and sometimes we have our tiffs like sisters do, she unfriends me on Facebook like twice a year It lasts about a few weeks and we're fine again.

Laudergirl wrote:

Alanna wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

I really am refraining from posting my opinion on this whole SM issue, because I don't care for Andi. You could say Andi could use the same hashtag. Just saying.

YMMV but I have never gotten the sense that Andi wants Josh to forget he has a family as long as their relationship is first. Actually, I think she verbatim said that at the htd. She was certainly supportive of visiting both Steph and Aaron's games post-show until whatever happened, happened, if something happened .

With that said, maybe Josh and Andi can both act like the fully grown humans they are and wish the poor mom a happy bday already? Seriously. It's embarrassing if 30 year old Josh cannot get it together in this situation that's straight out of junior high school.

Glow worm wrote: Her family was there as well. Her mother posted a story about the engagement on her facebook. They were at their church and Aaron proposed with both families present. At least that is what she said.

I for one, don't think there are any hard feelings. I don't follow all my close family on SM, we speak on the phone instead and I think they do the same. They are all having busy schedules, starting new chapters of their lives. They can't be all over the place all the time, they have to make priorities. JMHO.

I would completely and fully agree with you if Josh wasn't posting to Andi's family currently or to his family before the beginning of this month. It's one thing to not be active, it's another ballgame to abruptly stop communicating with them and actively unfollow them.

I firmly believe that Josh face timed or called MM today to wish her a happy birthday. I would bet on it. He doesn't need to do it publicly on SM. That's all for show. Josh is not that superficial. He loves his mom and I'm sure he showed it to her privately today.

I am sure that Josh has spoken with his mother today. This is different than how Josh has handled wishing her happy mother's day and such, so it does stand out a bit.

The Murray family will work it out. But it still makes me sad to see Josh spending so much time with the Dorfmans and them not spending as much time with the Murrays. I had hoped for more balance between the two. For as close as Stephanie is to them (45 minutes) I don't see them spending a lot of time with Stephanie, at least as posted on SM.