Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

Speculation is the heart of almost all the discussions thread. Just like the CT thread. Everyone is speculating what is going on with JPG and Nikki and what is happening with them. We are allowed to post any and all opinions of the couples in the discussion thread, including speculation. It is part of what we do here, has been since this place started.

Of course very few of us know this people in person. So all opinions positive and negative are speculation, everyone on here is guilty of it. Everyone.

Alanna wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Well, family can always post and clear everything up if they choose. :WAVEY:

Oh my gosh, I just got a hilarious flash forward of Lauren changing her own fb background to what Kacie has up as her background as of today- Kacie's whole family and Aaron, Denny and Lauren with no Andi or Josh in sight. Thinking that might clarify everything in a jiffy!  

OMG...Stappppp it!!!

MM posted on facebook about a UGA player but nothing about Josh and Andi.  Maybe she will later once she sees all the pictures.  Fingers crossed.

Maybe someone can send her some since we do not know if anything is wrong for sure.

GuardianAngel wrote:Exactly. I agree Ash and Laudergirl,  with your posts! Considering we have seen Josh discuss the importance of his family, many times, and how Andi was looking forward to being a part of the Murray family, the activity on SM doesn't make sense.

Hence, all the discussion and speculation on what's going on in a general thread.

Herein lies the issue with SM....anytime a person, family or couple actively use SM and then something changes it will start speculation. I agree that there may be absolutely nothing wrong and that maybe Josh is just living his life more independently than he was prior to Andi, which good for him if that makes him happy.

But given that his family was SOOOOOO SM friendly about Andi/Josh and vice versa (Josh so friendly about his family) on SM, and all of a sudden he has stopped following them, no mention about MM birthday or Aaron's proposal well to me there is definitely trouble in Murray paradise JMO.

Don't know if its because of Andi, Kacie, Josh, Aaron, MM or Nick's dog Murray but let this be a lesson on SM, that sometimes by oversharing your happiness you are inviting people to speculate on potential low points or issues in your life, once there are indications of such.

PS. I was kidding about the dog Murray, I don't think Nick has a dog.

nannymargie wrote:MM posted on facebook about a UGA player but nothing about Josh and Andi.  Maybe she will later once she sees all the pictures.  Fingers crossed.

Maybe someone can send her some since we do not know if anything is wrong for sure.

I'm sure Lauren knows where to look for pictures if she wants to post them. Let's just give the family space to work this out on their own.

nannymargie wrote:MM posted on facebook about a UGA player but nothing about Josh and Andi.  Maybe she will later once she sees all the pictures.  Fingers crossed.

Maybe someone can send her some since we do not know if anything is wrong for sure.

No offense, but if Josh and Andi want to share with her, shouldn't they be allowed to or not themselves. While I am all for speculation, what these people do is their choice.

Eagle Eye wrote:

nannymargie wrote:MM posted on facebook about a UGA player but nothing about Josh and Andi.  Maybe she will later once she sees all the pictures.  Fingers crossed.

Maybe someone can send her some since we do not know if anything is wrong for sure.

I'm sure Lauren knows where to look for pictures if she wants to post them. Let's just give the family space to work this out on their own.

You are so right, my heart just hurts for Josh knowing how family is important to him. Now that he has found someone he loves and loves him there seems to be family problems. Not saying for sure there is it's only our opinions.

stuckinsc wrote:

nannymargie wrote:MM posted on facebook about a UGA player but nothing about Josh and Andi.  Maybe she will later once she sees all the pictures.  Fingers crossed.

Maybe someone can send her some since we do not know if anything is wrong for sure.

No offense, but if Josh and Andi want to share with her, shouldn't they be allowed to or not themselves.  While I am all for speculation, what these people do is their choice.

You right just feel so bad for Josh.

nannymargie wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

nannymargie wrote:MM posted on facebook about a UGA player but nothing about Josh and Andi.  Maybe she will later once she sees all the pictures.  Fingers crossed.

Maybe someone can send her some since we do not know if anything is wrong for sure.

No offense, but if Josh and Andi want to share with her, shouldn't they be allowed to or not themselves.  While I am all for speculation, what these people do is their choice.

You right just feel so bad for Josh.

I feel bad for the whole Murray clan. But while I love to discuss this, they have to work it out for themselves. Josh is a grown man and he as others have pointed out he seems happy, and I don't know that he would appreciate anyone interfering. He and his family will come to their peace in time, hopefully.

I don't think Josh looks as happy as he did a while back, but he could just be tired from all the travelling all over the place.

mindless wrote:I don't think Josh looks as happy as he did a while back, but he could just be tired from all the travelling all over the place.

Well if there is trouble in the Murray family I can understand that it weighs on his heart and mind. This is suppose to be the happiest time in his life and there is a cloud over it. We can only pray for them that everything works out soon.

mindless wrote:I don't think Josh looks as happy as he did a while back, but he could just be tired from all the travelling all over the place.

Like I said, I love to speculate, but if Josh is not happy it is up to Andi and Josh to figure that out and work it out. I don't honestly see a lot of difference in his smile. And to me Andi very rarely has a smile that reaches her eyes like Josh's usually does. I have actually been told to smile more like Andi, it helps to avoid a double chin in photos.