Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Bachelorette 10 - General Discussion

^ If I'm remembering this correctly, and I'm 95% sure I am, Andi never once said Juan Pablo had sex with Clare. Andi was upset because Juan Pablo mentioned to her in the FS that Clare already had her date, so therefore, Andi had the second FS date. Andi talked about how she knew already what the process was in regards to the FS and she didn't need to know that Juan Pablo already had over nights. She said she felt he had made her time with him feel cheap. IMO, those words don't have Andi outing Clare for having sex with Juan Pablo. More so upset that instead of taking time to talk about their relationship, he was telling her about other women. Andi didn't out Clare. Clare did that herself when she was rejected by him.

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If there is drama, I think the person who is thanking her lucky stars for this must be Andi. No more sitting glazed over at dinner, listening to endless Chiefs talk, no more getting dragged to games, no more sharing Josh, and really, no more worrying if Josh is second fiddle. She and Josh are the belles of the ball for the Dorfmans and everyone can just fawn over him just like she thinks they should do. Sounds good to me! She must be secretly thrilled

I have to respectfully disagree here, unless that's what Andi wants and unless this is said jokingly. My family is the most important thing to me. If I dated a guy who didn't get along with them, then he'd stay home while I attended family functions. There would be nothing for me to worry about, if he didn't like it, it wouldn't be a problem, because that would be the end of the relationship.

If my guy was close to his brothers and sisters, to me that is a reflection on how he would treat me. I would never be happy if I spent more time with my family than his. His parents would be just as important. I lost my father at 13 yrs old. He's been gone for more years than he was alive. God G*d willing there will be a time J/A have children and DIL/SIL's if there is an issue, this isn't a good example. Respect your parents, always.JMHO

luvlady345 wrote:Well if it was a concern for any mother, the best advise would be to tell your son to not go on a reality dating show.

Love this post, short and ...on point!

I am about 99% sure that Alanna was joking and being her snarky self....

luvlady345 wrote:I am about 99% sure that Alanna was joking and being her snarky self....

I agree. She's funny!

^ I agree GA, but I think Alanna was just messing around. Alanna is a jokester Andi herself did say in her Jezebel interview that the hometown date portrayed her as not wanting to be a part of a sports family, but she actually wants that. She mentioned how sports have always been a huge part of her life and more importantly, she said she was extremely happy to be gaining two younger siblings because she didn't have that growing up and she was looking forward to being a part of their lives. I know Andi can be tough sometimes, but I do think that since she clearly loves Josh, that she wants him happy.

I've been saying this so much, but we don't know them or what if anything is going on. If that's the case and something is, hopefully the brothers will work it out. Most families do.

vivi2 wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:I am about 99% sure that Alanna was joking and being her snarky self....

I agree.  She's funny!

Haha thanks! Of course I was just kidding All my multiple selves are snarky

Ash2214 wrote:^ I agree GA, but I think Alanna was just messing around. Alanna is a jokester Andi herself did say in her Jezebel interview that the hometown date portrayed her as not wanting to be a part of a sports family, but she actually wants that. She mentioned how sports have always been a huge part of her life and more importantly, she said she was extremely happy to be gaining two younger siblings because she didn't have that growing up and she was looking forward to being a part of their lives. I know Andi can be tough sometimes, but I do think that since she clearly loves Josh, that she wants him happy.

I've been saying this so much, but we don't know them or what if anything is going on. If that's the case and something is, hopefully the brothers will work it out. Most families do.

This is what I got out of it too! She loved that he was family oriented because that was important to her. She would not say that if she didn't want him to be involved and spend time with his family. I feel many are painting an incorrect picture of Andi to say otherwise!

Exactly. I agree Ash and Laudergirl,  with your posts! Considering we have seen Josh discuss the importance of his family, many times, and how Andi was looking forward to being a part of the Murray family, the activity on SM doesn't make sense.

Hence, all the discussion and speculation on what's going on in a general thread.

Well, family can always post and clear everything up if they choose. :WAVEY:

Alanna wrote:

Eagle Eye wrote:
Good question. And given that the whole reason Josh was on the show in the first place is that his mom "absolutely loved" Andi, I'm not sure Lauren would have much of a leg to stand on if she were suddenly to start expressing concerns about anything Andi said or did on JPG's season.

Yep, not to mention she posted all about Andi until the beginning of this month. So I don't think it has anything to do with the show.

She hasn't posted anything from last night which makes sense to me. If they don't publicly wish her a happy bday, I don't know why she should continue to publicly post pics of them. Obviously, no idea what's happening privately.

If there is drama, I think the person who is thanking her lucky stars for this must be Andi. No more sitting glazed over at dinner, listening to endless Chiefs talk, no more getting dragged to games, no more sharing Josh, and really, no more worrying if Josh is second fiddle. She and Josh are the belles of the ball for the Dorfmans and everyone can just fawn over him just like she thinks they should do. Sounds good to me! She must be secretly thrilled

Haha! Alanna, thank goodness you are here. You keep it real girl. :cutesmile!:

#keepingitrealandinperspective

Kashathediva wrote:Well, family can always post and clear everything up if they choose. :WAVEY:

Oh my gosh, I just got a hilarious flash forward of Lauren changing her own fb background to what Kacie has up as her background as of today- Kacie's whole family and Aaron, Denny and Lauren with no Andi or Josh in sight. Thinking that might clarify everything in a jiffy!