Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Media Thread - Fan Forum - Discussion Thread #4

by edenpol Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:53 am

I don't know about this all Andi doesn't want to settle down thing. On Juan Pablo season she said Juan Pablo was looking for a girlfriend while all the other girls were looking for a husband, and she really did wanted to find the love of her life, and her husband! I just think that saying all of this is like saying she was phony this whole time, and I choose not to believe that.

by soccermom333 Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:56 am

Andi and Josh loved each other and it was not a "business deal". That much I know. I am sure more will be said from them in the near future. I wish them both the best. Smiley

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:01 pm

Exactly, I have never fallen for another couple either, so it's so strange that I could have been so wrong...I would love to be a fly on the wall. But my immediate thoughts as they go forward are that Josh would move out of that apartment (too many memories with Andi inside there), he'd put on his cap and shades disguise when he goes out in public and he'd chill in Tampa for a while. Andi would go back to her parent's house or they would rent something for her in ATL, she'd continue to go shopping, hanging out and vacationing with her friends. But I would really like to hear Chad and Kelly's take on the relationship. I mean they saw it first hand. Is there anyone on this forum who can give us some specific details as to what went wrong? We need it desperately!

by aviej Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:02 pm

edenpol wrote:I don't know about this all Andi doesn't want to settle down thing. On Juan Pablo season she said Juan Pablo was looking for a girlfriend while all the other girls were looking for a husband, and she really did wanted to find the love of her life, and her husband! I just think that saying all of this is like saying she was phony this whole time, and I choose not to believe that.

That may be true but at the same time when you are the lead, it's a whole new ballgame. But I don't believe for a second that it was just a business deal - no way! They come from close-knit families with values, no way Hy was going to stand for that.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:03 pm

edenpol wrote:
Laudergirl wrote:I'm trying to be realistic about this whole thing but it's so darn confusing. I just really want to know what is or was real and what wasn't. I tend to agree with Ga that what Josh said on the show, he did mean at the time. But circumstances do change.

Here is what gets me, some girl posted on twitter a text message saying that Andi said it was all a business deal and that they both got tired of pretending. This showed up in the twitter feed but now appears to be deleted. I don't know that it's legit, but it's upsetting nonetheless. I can deal with the idea that Andi and Josh were in love, and tried to make it work but couldn't. What I can't deal with is the idea that it was a business deal all along.

So am I really that gullible to have fallen for their love story? I've watched this show since Trista and Ryan, and I have never felt so strongly about a couple as this, so it's not just that I'm a hopeless romantic that way. These two really effected me and seemed genuinely in love.

I don't rush to believe all of it. But I agree, as much as I love them, and it pains me that they broke up, if this was all an act, I'll be so angry. But again, I don't rush to any of this, people say many different things. I believe that they really did love each other, a lot, and something must have happened.

I don't ever think that it was a business deal, on the show you could see the love and the happiness between both of them and I definitely think that they were not faking it. And I think that everything that they BOTH said and did at that time were real and they meant it,

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:05 pm

soccermom333 wrote:Andi and Josh loved each other and it was not a "business deal". That much I know. I am sure more will be said from them in the near future. I wish them both the best.

Completely agree, definitely not a business deal. I wish they would just get back together though.

by edenpol Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:05 pm

Just look at them. And it's not even in their IG. Never never never a business deal.
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by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:10 pm

aviej wrote:Exactly, I have never fallen for another couple either, so it's so strange that I could have been so wrong...I would love to be a fly on the wall. But my immediate thoughts as they go forward are that Josh would move out of that apartment (too many memories with Andi inside there), he'd put on his cap and shades disguise when he goes out in public and he'd chill in Tampa for a while. Andi would go back to her parent's house or they would rent something for her in ATL, she'd continue to go shopping, hanging out and vacationing with her friends. But I would really like to hear Chad and Kelly's take on the relationship. I mean they saw it first hand. Is there anyone on this forum who can give us some specific details as to what went wrong? We need it desperately!

Yes, I have never fallen for a couple this much either, I have never seen a couple with as much chemistry and love as Andi and Josh. I do think that he will spend some time in Tampa with his parents and she may spend some time with her parents as well.
I know what she said on Juan Pablo 's season and I think at that time she wanted marriage and kids. I also think that when she became the Bachelorette that's what she wanted and that's what Josh wanted. But now, with all the fame and publicity, I don't think that she want to get married and have kids right now, maybe in the future, but not now. She has a blog, designs clothes and that's seems to be her priority now but Josh still wants to get married now and have kids 'yesterday'. I think is just that Andi's priorities have changed. I just hope that she realizes that no blog, clothes, fame or money is worth losing somebody like Josh and i still pray that they will get back together.

by luvlady345 Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:12 pm

My opinion is this, it takes two to make a relationship , this is what I hate about a break up of these bachelor couples, it's always the blame game. No one is perfect we are all flawed, 99% of these couples don't make it. Andi is not the evil witch and Josh is not a saint they are just two people who couldn't make their relationship work out of the bachelor bubble.

by Trueloveforever Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:13 pm

luvlady345 wrote:My opinion is this, it takes two to make a relationship , this is what I hate about a break up of these bachelor couples, it's always the blame game. No one is perfect we are all flawed, 99% of these couples don't make it. Andi is not the evil witch and Josh is not a saint they are just two people who couldn't make their relationship work out of the bachelor bubble.

by moonpie Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:13 pm

The twitter regarding the "business deal" comes from Radar Online's article about the break-up.

“In the end it was more of a business partnership than a relationship,” a source close to the former couple told RadarOnline.com exclusively.

The couple, who got engaged and were planning a Spring wedding after appearing on the show last year, were just on the carpet together on Jan. 5 for the Season 19 premiere of The Bachelor.

“Producers were always forcing them to make appearances together and act a certain way and it got old,” the source said. “Going to the premiere together was the last straw. They couldn’t pretend anymore.”

http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2015/01/bachelorette-andi-dorfman-josh-murray-breakup-end-engagement/

I imagine we're going to hear a lot of tabloid versions of why the break up occurred. I wouldn't believe any of it unless Andi and Josh decide to directly address it.

by AnandaMarie Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:15 pm

moonpie wrote:The twitter regarding the "business deal" comes from Radar Online's article about the break-up.

“In the end it was more of a business partnership than a relationship,” a source close to the former couple told RadarOnline.com exclusively.

The couple, who got engaged and were planning a Spring wedding after appearing on the show last year, were just on the carpet together on Jan. 5 for the Season 19 premiere of The Bachelor.

“Producers were always forcing them to make appearances together and act a certain way and it got old,” the source said. “Going to the premiere together was the last straw. They couldn’t pretend anymore.”

http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2015/01/bachelorette-andi-dorfman-josh-murray-breakup-end-engagement/

I imagine we're going to hear a lot of tabloid versions of why the break up occurred. I wouldn't believe any of it unless Andi and Josh decide to directly address it.

I will never belive that it was a business deal.

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