Andi Dorfman and Josh Murray Bachelorette 10 - Media - Twitter - General Discussion Thread #2

[GuardianAngel]

Continue here.

[MiaHawk]

To all of the Moderators: Thank you for all you do to make this a good place to be. I'm sorry that I contributed to your workload.

[stuckinsc]

To all of the Moderators: Thank you for all you do to make this a good place to be. I'm sorry that I contributed to your workload.  

I agree, thank you GA and mods!

[Relalou]

Ditto in my thanks to the mods. It is good to be back on neutral ground! So to start a positive conversation regarding Andi, Josh and media (i.e. this thread!) I think that they are doing a pretty nice job of balancing their lives and sharing enough but not too much. They seem to be able to "disappear" when they want to (probably because they live in the same place) and to post, make appearances, etc. when it suits. Good job!

[pander3575]

I like that part to. It reminds me of JP and Ash how they were able to go about their lives but let us in now and then. I'm sure it helps not having to plan on moves and getting together like other couples. I also like that they got a local pr firm.

[dw_a_mom]

Wow, sorry to see what followed after my last visit and post here.

I hope I can say the below tactfully and peacefully enough to answer a response to my post without anyone feeling a need to jump back into what needs to be an old and dead conversation.

In my opinion, a person can't have said the "perfect thing" if their comments aren't what the other person needed to hear, in this case addressing the largest lingering issue the other person has. Very often in this show, how a F2 will feel about the experience seems to come down to needing to understand the exact timing: WHEN did the lead KNOW it wasn't going to be them? What happened in the relationship that was after that decision, v. what happened before? Obviously we could go around in circles forever on who said what and who should have said what and if any of it could have ever made a difference, and there will never be a resolution to that. All I am doing here is clarifying why *I*, personally, FEEL Andi could have spoken more effectively at the ATFR, a 20/20 hindsight opinion based on what I think (don't know, just think) her F2 needed to hear. Heck, no doubt I would have totally messed things up if I had been in her shoes, so my comment was never meant to be a judgment, just an opinion, and it is an opinion no one can argue away from me because of the reason in my first sentence: the perfect thing to say IMO depends on what the listener needs to hear, not what you or I think should be the perfect thing to say.

None of which changes how I feel about Andi and Josh as a couple. They are great together. Josh seems to be really good for her, and I like her better around him. She picked the best guy for her, without a doubt. I hope they make it, and I love seeing the cute photos and other things they post.

[dw_a_mom]

Ditto in my thanks to the mods.  It is good to be back on neutral ground!  So to start a positive conversation regarding Andi, Josh and media (i.e. this thread!) I think that they are doing a pretty nice job of balancing their lives and sharing enough but not too much.  They seem to be able to "disappear" when they want to (probably because they live in the same place) and to post, make appearances, etc. when it suits.  Good job!

I agree. I like how much they are sharing, and it doesn't feel like too much or attention seeking. They are handling it very well.

[sdmom]

Did Josh quit his job or still works at the same place?

[Relalou]

Did Josh quit his job or still works at the same place?

In a recent interview he said he still works at Capstone Financial (if I remember correctly) and plans to continue to do so. (Probably to keep her in the manner to which she has become accustomed in the last 3 months - also joked about during interview).

[sdmom]

^ Thank! I think she made the right choice of picking Josh. I hope he continues to work in Atlanta.

[aviej]

I think too what also makes this transition of new found fame, relationship etc so easy and natural as well is that Josh is accustomed to being in the limelight. So the "glam of it all" is not an attraction for him. And he is able to guide her with how to handle all the new experiences that they are facing together. Also, having great examples in their parents in terms of long standing, stable marriages will go a long way for them in terms of the support they would get etc.

[isittrue]

Just a basic question, I read somewhere that Josh and Andi hired a PR firm to represent them - is this what all the franchise couples do? I basically don't follow couples post-show, so I am not sure how it all works between appearances and media etc. Just curious - thanks.

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