Re: Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray - Media Thread - Fan Forum - Discussion Thread #4

[Justafan2]

My opinion is this, it takes two to make a relationship , this is what I hate about a break up of these bachelor couples, it's always the blame game. No one is perfect we are all flawed, 99% of these couples don't make it. Andi is not the evil witch and Josh is not a saint they are just two people who couldn't make their relationship work out of the bachelor bubble.

luvlady I always tend to agree with your perspective. I do think this couple tried and I don't think it was a business deal. I am sorry but I am not living with a business deal for 8 months. But living with someone shows you a lot about a person and its hard. Heck, I have been married for 2 years and lived with my husband before and he still gets on my nerves. Some people can make it work in a relationship and some can't. My hope for these 2 is only that they will keep this very cordial as they will see each other often in Atlanta and it would be great if they could be friends. I don't expect them to hang out regularly but it would be nice if things were not tense when run ins occurred. I think both of them are great people that at the end of the day just weren't meant to be.

[nannymargie]

My opinion is this, it takes two to make a relationship , this is what I hate about a break up of these bachelor couples, it's always the blame game. No one is perfect we are all flawed, 99% of these couples don't make it. Andi is not the evil witch and Josh is not a saint they are just two people who couldn't make their relationship work out of the bachelor bubble.

I think we all know this and don't see anyone blaming either one of them.

[Alanna]

I wonder if Josh is going to stay in atl. He did move there before he knew Andi so it's not like she was the reason but it'll be interesting to see what he does.

I'm also very curious to see what Andi decides to do now that she's unemployed, doesn't have an apt, and has to start her life from scratch almost. I'm also wondering if she'll stay in atl or possibly move somewhere else. Maybe it'll be along the lines of JK Rowling but not at dramatic: "rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I built my life."

[aviej]

My opinion is this, it takes two to make a relationship , this is what I hate about a break up of these bachelor couples, it's always the blame game. No one is perfect we are all flawed, 99% of these couples don't make it. Andi is not the evil witch and Josh is not a saint they are just two people who couldn't make their relationship work out of the bachelor bubble.

luvlady I always tend to agree with your perspective. I do think this couple tried and I don't think it was a business deal. I am sorry but I am not living with a business deal for 8 months. But living with someone shows you a lot about a person and its hard. Heck, I have been married for 2 years and lived with my husband before and he still gets on my nerves. Some people can make it work in a relationship and some can't. My hope for these 2 is only that they will keep this very cordial as they will see each other often in Atlanta and it would be great if they could be friends. I don't expect them to hang out regularly but it would be nice if things were not tense when run ins occurred. I think both of them are great people that at the end of the day just weren't meant to be.

You see the bolded part there is what I have trouble believing - I believed and still believe that it was meant to be, sigh. So many "stars" were aligned in their favor and plus Andi even looked like a Murray, sigh.

[sara11]

I wonder if Josh is going to stay in atl. He did move there before he knew Andi so it's not like she was the reason but it'll be interesting to see what he does.

I'm also very curious to see what Andi decides to do now that she's unemployed, doesn't have an apt, and has to start her life from scratch almost. I'm also wondering if she'll stay in atl or possibly move somewhere else. Maybe it'll be along the lines of JK Rowling but not at dramatic: "rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I built my life."

I think Andi will stay in ATL coz her family is there and she will probably have to get a job again but may struggle to do this. Perhaps Josh would move to KC?

[aviej]

I wonder if Josh is going to stay in atl. He did move there before he knew Andi so it's not like she was the reason but it'll be interesting to see what he does.

I'm also very curious to see what Andi decides to do now that she's unemployed, doesn't have an apt, and has to start her life from scratch almost. I'm also wondering if she'll stay in atl or possibly move somewhere else. Maybe it'll be along the lines of JK Rowling but not at dramatic: "rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I built my life."

I'm sure her parents would set her up nicely with a job and an apartment. I believe Hy is CEO of his own company, so I wouldn't worry about her landing back on her feet at all, her heart is another thing.

[AnandaMarie]

My opinion is this, it takes two to make a relationship , this is what I hate about a break up of these bachelor couples, it's always the blame game. No one is perfect we are all flawed, 99% of these couples don't make it. Andi is not the evil witch and Josh is not a saint they are just two people who couldn't make their relationship work out of the bachelor bubble.

luvlady I always tend to agree with your perspective. I do think this couple tried and I don't think it was a business deal. I am sorry but I am not living with a business deal for 8 months. But living with someone shows you a lot about a person and its hard. Heck, I have been married for 2 years and lived with my husband before and he still gets on my nerves. Some people can make it work in a relationship and some can't. My hope for these 2 is only that they will keep this very cordial as they will see each other often in Atlanta and it would be great if they could be friends. I don't expect them to hang out regularly but it would be nice if things were not tense when run ins occurred. I think both of them are great people that at the end of the day just weren't meant to be.

I truly believe that they loved each other and that fame, publicity and traveling affected their relationship. I just wish that they would get back together and exclude all the fame and travelling because I think they would work if its just the two of them. They had great chemistry and love and they also had similar lifestyles before the show.

[aviej]

Yeah, in retrospect, I think what Andi and Josh should have done would have been to take a vacation to work on their relationship. Somewhere outside the US where they are not known so much, I think it would have served them well - that time alone.

[AnandaMarie]

My opinion is this, it takes two to make a relationship , this is what I hate about a break up of these bachelor couples, it's always the blame game. No one is perfect we are all flawed, 99% of these couples don't make it. Andi is not the evil witch and Josh is not a saint they are just two people who couldn't make their relationship work out of the bachelor bubble.

luvlady I always tend to agree with your perspective. I do think this couple tried and I don't think it was a business deal. I am sorry but I am not living with a business deal for 8 months. But living with someone shows you a lot about a person and its hard. Heck, I have been married for 2 years and lived with my husband before and he still gets on my nerves. Some people can make it work in a relationship and some can't. My hope for these 2 is only that they will keep this very cordial as they will see each other often in Atlanta and it would be great if they could be friends. I don't expect them to hang out regularly but it would be nice if things were not tense when run ins occurred. I think both of them are great people that at the end of the day just weren't meant to be.

You see the bolded part there is what I have trouble believing - I believed and still believe that it was meant to be, sigh. So many "stars" were aligned in their favor and plus Andi even looked like a Murray, sigh.

Yes I 100% believe that they were meant to be, the love and chemistry that the have is once in a lifetime. I think fame and travelling affected their relationship and I hope they can get back together witthout all the fame and travelling and make it work. They were meant to be together.

[AnandaMarie]

Yeah, in retrospect, I think what Andi and Josh should have done would have been to take a vacation to work on their relationship. Somewhere outside the US where they are not known so much, I think it would have served them well - that time alone.

Yes,I think they were meant to be but they made mistakes that affected their relationship. I hope they can fix those mistakes now though.

[Justafan2]

I think if they do get back together, it will be after quite some time apart. It will take both of them realizing they would rather do life together than life apart. Take it, this is without any knowledge of why they specifically ended things.

[sara11]

Yeah they obviously truly loved each other - that was evident. But their relationship progressed much quicker than any other bach rship (because they didn't have to relocate) and generally much quicker than any normal rship bc they started living together straightaway. I think they probably at the end of the day just realised they were not going to work in the long term, which explains Joshs deleted IG pic and brians tweet about deciding between what you want now and in the future. I don't think it's fair to put the blame on Andi, I do think she was in it for love and is ready to get married but I don't think she is ready to have kids - however I don't think that that was the main reason for their break up bc if you truly believe you are meant to be with someone, you would be willing to compromise.

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