Re: The Bachelorette 10 - *Final 1-F2* - Speculation * Sleuthing - Spoilers Thread #2

[stuckinsc]

Regarding the idea that too much circumstantial evidence makes it all suspect, I don't think that's the way it works in a court of law.   

As far as the picture of Nick with girls in a bar goes, of course it doesn't prove anything, and yes, he's not kissing or fondling either one, but I really don't recall seeing photos of past F1s hanging out in bars much during the waiting period (unless they're hosting viewing parties).  Not that there's necessarily anything wrong with it, but if you're madly in love with someone who you're only allowed to see every two weeks, I would hope you would act more like JP, who spent 3 hours a night skyping with Ashley when he couldn't be with her. JMO.

Great point again Ironcat!    It is just not "typical" final 1 behavior.  Period.  You can argue the other side all day, but again not typical.  I remember when Brooks was spotted on the cruise, I knew it was not typical final 1 behavior.  Could he have still been final 1, of course, but just not probable.  

Soccermom, didn't we have multiple pics of Chris out and about in Seattle looking happy during the airing of Des's season? To me it made me happy because if she had broke his heart he was okay. Honestly, on social media last year Des and Chris were both out and about a lot and both looked really happy. Brooks was the one who looked kind of not good and uncomfortable.

And Emily's season both Arie and Jef, were everywhere that whole summer. Nikki and Cat were also both seen out during the airing of their seasons. Not sure what typical F1 behavior is anymore.

[ElonM]

Regarding the idea that too much circumstantial evidence makes it all suspect, I don't think that's the way it works in a court of law.   

As far as the picture of Nick with girls in a bar goes, of course it doesn't prove anything, and yes, he's not kissing or fondling either one, but I really don't recall seeing photos of past F1s hanging out in bars much during the waiting period (unless they're hosting viewing parties).  Not that there's necessarily anything wrong with it, but if you're madly in love with someone who you're only allowed to see every two weeks, I would hope you would act more like JP, who spent 3 hours a night skyping with Ashley when he couldn't be with her. JMO.

Great point again Ironcat!    It is just not "typical" final 1 behavior.  Period.  You can argue the other side all day, but again not typical.  I remember when Brooks was spotted on the cruise, I knew it was not typical final 1 behavior.  Could he have still been final 1, of course, but just not probable.  

Soccermom, didn't we have multiple pics of Chris out and about in Seattle looking happy during the airing of Des's season?  To me it made me happy because if she had broke his heart he was okay.  Honestly, on social media last year Des and Chris were both out and about a lot and both looked really happy.  Brooks was the one who looked kind of not good and uncomfortable.

And Emily's season both Arie and Jef, were everywhere that whole summer.  Nikki and Cat were also both seen out during the airing of their seasons.  Not sure what typical F1 behavior is anymore.  

I guess when your favourite is involved you see things differently. Wasn't potential F1 Josh spotted sitting at an Airport bar in Mexico?

[umngirl]

^He was spotted at Johnny Rockets which is a fast food type place that specializes in malts and burgers.

[ironcat]

"Out and about" is not the same as bar hopping (not saying that's what Nick's been doing). Of course the one exception to this was good old Ed. Nuff said.   

[soccermom333]

"Out and about" is not the same as bar hopping (not saying that's what Nick's been doing).  Of course the one exception to this was good old Ed.  Nuff said.   

Agree!!!  Or..... going on a cruise.  LOL

ed was the "exception!" haha

[Alanna]

Especially with a whiny Andi sitting at home? Nooooo.

[stuckinsc]

Especially with a whiny Andi sitting at home? Nooooo.

Alana, I love your posts and unwavering support of Andi, but they crack me up and make me realize more why I don't want any of these guys stuck with her. Whiny is never fun to come home to. My ex-in-laws would joke all the time they were going to invest in cheese stock to go with all of my ex-husbands whine. Maybe, that is why she irritates me so. I got to the point when he would pout I just wanted to laugh in his face and tell him to get the heck over it!

[soccermom333]

I think what Alanna is trying to say, (correct me if I am wrong Alanna) is no woman is going to be sitting at home allowing her fiance/boyfriend to "bar hop" whenever he pleases.  Des and Chris were skyping making dinner together.  Chris was out and about but never at a bar.  Mostly just seen golfing.

Josh and Andi I am sure are seeing more of each other because they live in the same city.  Very easy to do and not be caught.  The handlers are working overtime i am sure.  Lol

Andi is needy, I'll admit that, but probably not any more than a "normal" girfriend/fiance.  Well..... maybe just a little.    imo

[Eagle Eye]

Andi is needy, I'll admit that, but probably not any more than a "normal" girfriend/fiance.  Well..... maybe just a little.     imo

Andi is needy in the context of this stupid TV dating show. We have no idea what she's like in real life, when she's happy and secure in a settled relationship with a guy who adores her. Now that she's got the man and she knows he's not going anywhere, I imagine she's significantly dialed back the crazy.

[Cecilia]

I'm pretty sure if you trust your boyfriend, fiance, husband you can let them go to a bar with friends.

[Alanna]

Andi is needy, I'll admit that, but probably not any more than a "normal" girfriend/fiance.  Well..... maybe just a little.     imo

Andi is needy in the context of this stupid TV dating show. We have no idea what she's like in real life, when she's happy and secure in a settled relationship with a guy who adores her. Now that she's got the man and she knows he's not going anywhere, I imagine she's significantly dialed back the crazy.

Yes!! This!! She needs a man who will adore her and make her his priority, especially when the show is airing, not out bar hopping. Josh loves being there for her and I love watching! He is so warm and cuddly and I have no doubt all the insecurities are at peace because she's gotten what she needs and he understands her. All IMO only obviously!

[SueSt]

I'm pretty sure if you trust your boyfriend, fiance, husband you can let them go to a bar with friends.  

 

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