Bachelorette 10 - Andi Dorfman - Episode 4 - Mon June 2/14 *Spoilers & Sleuthing* - Discussion

chloep wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:It would be great if they all got together--the final 15 or so--and wore a pair of JJ's pants. It reminds me of Steve Martin and Dan Aykroyd , those wild and crazy guys! 

You never know what we may see in the bloopers at the MTA..  :cutesmile!: 

Piper61 wrote:

noobsleuth wrote:Keep in mind RS was living in a modest apartment and selling blankets (?) when he first started spoiling, but now I don't know. Loaded to him could me anything. I think Nick is established which is something I find incredibly attractive about him and would personally be drawn to. It seems like most who go on the show are in some sort of transitional point of their lives and are basically of the mindset, well you know I have this job that pays the bills, but going on TV could open up more doors (more money) so they happily leave their old job behind. Nick already has the good job, nice apartment, and established social circle in one of the biggest cities in the world. IMO that sets him apart most contestants. Josh and Chris seem to still be tied very much to their families for support and socializing. Nothing wrong with that, it's just a different lifestyle.

I'm not sure that you mean support as in financially, but certainly it seems that Josh is supporting himself fine in that regard, unless he's blown every cent he's earned.  I honestly don't know much about Chris' involvement with the family farm to comment, but having families that are supportive emotionally and seem connected and sociable together is a good thing in my mind.  Disconnected/dysfunctional families seem to be a problem in these days and times. I absolutely love the relationship that Josh seems to have with his family.  I think Nick probably also has that kind of support and socialization with his large family, but could certainly understand his breaking away for just a bit of space for himself having grown up in that large of a family.  They all seem like great guys, and that in part stems from good family foundations.

Sprite wrote:

tigertiz wrote:

TPTB sucks taking him on a date through the places he played with his brother he just lost.

If you are going to be on this show , it's imperative to lie on your application.  
If you are afraid of heights, tell them you are claustrophobic.  If you are afraid of swimming in deep water, tell them you are afraid of heights. I'm serious.  If you played at the ocean with your deceased sibling, tell them you went skiing in Vermont together for 20 years.   I've said this before and it really is good advice.  Future contestants: protect yourselves. Dont give them ammunition with which to hurt you or scare you.

My application would say I have a deadly fear of chocolate and diamonds.

nutty1 wrote:Nick reminds me of Jef also. Not looks, but personality. A bit quirky, genuine, well spoken. I know all won't agree….but that's OK!!   

sbolduc wrote:In terms of the Jef and Nick comparisons, outside of being from a big family and being unconventionally attractive I don't see the similarities. My reasons:

- Nick has a good job with a really good company, even a family friend posted that he does very well for himself. Even if Nick's family is well off, to do well in his field you have to be good at your job, Jef lives off his family's wealth, or so it seems
- Nick seems to be very grounded in Chicago with a core group of friends, Jef is bouncing off the walls traveling everywhere and anywhere
- Nick has had a serious relationship, Jef I don't think had a GF since he was 18

All the above aside, I think we will find out pretty quickly post-show, how each of these guys are in the real world...

Just my opinion   

SLA44 wrote:

sbolduc wrote:In terms of the Jef and Nick comparisons, outside of being from a big family and being unconventionally attractive I don't see the similarities. My reasons:

- Nick has a good job with a really good company, even a family friend posted that he does very well for himself. Even if Nick's family is well off, to do well in his field you have to be good at your job, Jef lives off his family's wealth, or so it seems
- Nick seems to be very grounded in Chicago with a core group of friends, Jef is bouncing off the walls traveling everywhere and anywhere
- Nick has had a serious relationship, Jef I don't think had a GF since he was 18

All the above aside, I think we will find out pretty quickly post-show, how each of these guys are in the real world...

Just my opinion   

Jef is still behaving like he is 18, I think he never grew up past that age.

Kashathediva wrote:

SLA44 wrote:

sbolduc wrote:In terms of the Jef and Nick comparisons, outside of being from a big family and being unconventionally attractive I don't see the similarities. My reasons:

- Nick has a good job with a really good company, even a family friend posted that he does very well for himself. Even if Nick's family is well off, to do well in his field you have to be good at your job, Jef lives off his family's wealth, or so it seems
- Nick seems to be very grounded in Chicago with a core group of friends, Jef is bouncing off the walls traveling everywhere and anywhere
- Nick has had a serious relationship, Jef I don't think had a GF since he was 18

All the above aside, I think we will find out pretty quickly post-show, how each of these guys are in the real world...

Just my opinion   

Jef is still behaving like he is 18, I think he never grew up past that age.

You are far too kind.  

SLA44 wrote:

sbolduc wrote:In terms of the Jef and Nick comparisons, outside of being from a big family and being unconventionally attractive I don't see the similarities. My reasons:

- Nick has a good job with a really good company, even a family friend posted that he does very well for himself. Even if Nick's family is well off, to do well in his field you have to be good at your job, Jef lives off his family's wealth, or so it seems
- Nick seems to be very grounded in Chicago with a core group of friends, Jef is bouncing off the walls traveling everywhere and anywhere
- Nick has had a serious relationship, Jef I don't think had a GF since he was 18

All the above aside, I think we will find out pretty quickly post-show, how each of these guys are in the real world...

Just my opinion   

Jef is still behaving like he is 18, I think he never grew up past that age.