Re: *No Spoilers* The Bachelor 18 Edit Discussions

by rosesrREd Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:16 am

Jeepers wrote:
Aunties_Love wrote:
Jeepers wrote:
Aunties_Love wrote:
rosesrREd wrote:
eversotrue wrote:Well like you said roses, we dont know Clare enough to make judgements therefore we have NO IDEA in what circumstances she has bolted and what lead to that. Like I said, im sure she can draw the line...especially if she realizes that a child is involved and she wants the love that Juan has for Camila for her own children.

Those were her words, not mine. She was about to "bolt" from Juan Pablo because she felt he needed to apologize, and be responsible for her emotional well being. I don't know what circumstances make her "bolt" from relationships, but the fact that she felt the need to express that shows her overwhelming desire for everything to be about her.
BUT she also said last epi that she doesn't want to do that with Juan.

She did sy it .. But what proof is there's that she won't bolt at some point
I'm sorry, but what proof is there that she will??

Her own admission of her past .. To some a red flag .. No proof that she won't bolt ..

Exactly! She said that she doesn't want to do that with Juan, but I am sure she didn't want to do that with any other boyfriend either, but did. It just seems to be who she is, and like Jeepers said by her own admission.

by Aunties_Love Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:16 am

JBF wrote:... and that could be ALL she says and Clare over reacted. Is that what many here think?

YES... that may be how it plays out.

Bottom line: stuff is missing that we have yet to see.

I agree so to assume that it is Clare that is causing the confrontation, kind of out of place.

by JBF Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:19 am

One curiosity I am still trying to figure out is why Nikki got so much screentime during the Victoria meltdown in episode #2. It could just be the coincidence of her time with Juan being interrupted by Victoria and she had a lot of PI material to give them. Yet something is still bugging me there and I can't figure it out. When the ladies say Victoria owes Juan an apology, the camera stays focused on her.

Again... maybe this is nothing, but it is still baffling me. Perhaps Nikki is F1. Perhaps she's the next Bachelorette. Who knows? We just have to see this play out.

by Jeepers Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:20 am

Assuming and discussing possibilities are two different things .. So absolutely not out of place

by Guest Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:22 am

Glad to Know This edit thread has become sort of a F1 thread that we usually do have. Maybe it Will be the first longest record breaking edit Thread that we ever have!!

by rosesrREd Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:26 am

Aunties_Love wrote:
JBF wrote:... and that could be ALL she says and Clare over reacted. Is that what many here think?

YES... that may be how it plays out.

Bottom line: stuff is missing that we have yet to see.[/quote
I agree so to assume that it is Clare that is causing the confrontation, kind of out of place.

There is just as many assuming Nikki started the argument downstairs. Nobody has the full story since this show(and the previews) are highly edited. My thoughts are just that, thoughts about how it went down. I could be wrong, but the way it will probably play out is that neither Clare, or Nikki were innocent in the confrontation.
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by Aunties_Love Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:32 am

rosesrREd wrote:
Aunties_Love wrote:
JBF wrote:... and that could be ALL she says and Clare over reacted. Is that what many here think?

YES... that may be how it plays out.

Bottom line: stuff is missing that we have yet to see.[/quote
I agree so to assume that it is Clare that is causing the confrontation, kind of out of place.

There is just as many assuming Nikki started the argument downstairs. Nobody has the full story since this show(and the previews) are highly edited. My thoughts are just that, thoughts about how it went down. I could be wrong, but the way it will probably play out is that neither Clare, or Nikki were innocent in the confrontation.
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BTW, I never said the stuff in bold.

by rosesrREd Mon Feb 17, 2014 1:45 am

Aunties_Love wrote:
rosesrREd wrote:
Aunties_Love wrote:
JBF wrote:... and that could be ALL she says and Clare over reacted. Is that what many here think?

YES... that may be how it plays out.

Bottom line: stuff is missing that we have yet to see.[/quote
I agree so to assume that it is Clare that is causing the confrontation, kind of out of place.

There is just as many assuming Nikki started the argument downstairs. Nobody has the full story since this show(and the previews) are highly edited. My thoughts are just that, thoughts about how it went down. I could be wrong, but the way it will probably play out is that neither Clare, or Nikki were innocent in the confrontation.
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BTW, I never said the stuff in bold.

Sorry that was my statement. I don't know how it got into your quote box.

by Aunties_Love Mon Feb 17, 2014 2:08 am

rosesrREd wrote:
Aunties_Love wrote:
rosesrREd wrote:
Aunties_Love wrote:
JBF wrote:... and that could be ALL she says and Clare over reacted. Is that what many here think?

YES... that may be how it plays out.

Bottom line: stuff is missing that we have yet to see.[/quote
I agree so to assume that it is Clare that is causing the confrontation, kind of out of place.

There is just as many assuming Nikki started the argument downstairs. Nobody has the full story since this show(and the previews) are highly edited. My thoughts are just that, thoughts about how it went down. I could be wrong, but the way it will probably play out is that neither Clare, or Nikki were innocent in the confrontation.
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BTW, I never said the stuff in bold.

Sorry that was my statement. I don't know how it got into your quote box.

ok, no worries. Hugesmile

by Guest Mon Feb 17, 2014 2:19 am

At this point, it's NOT discussing. You all are assuming....or better yet STATING that that's who Clare is.

But hey, once you see something one way...it's hard to shake it off. I get it. It's just hard to believe that so many people are so close minded and judgemental. I admit to being this way at times but usually my willingness to see with wide eyes brings me to a much clearer mindset and view on life. Im a very neutral person. I see most things as grey as opposed to black and white. Luckily, Ive had WONDERS in doing so. I recomend it. It truly does put things into perspective.

by albean99 Mon Feb 17, 2014 2:31 am

eversotrue wrote:At this point, it's NOT discussing. You all are assuming....or better yet STATING that that's who Clare is.

But hey, once you see something one way...it's hard to shake it off. I get it. It's just hard to believe that so many people are so close minded and judgemental. I admit to being this way at times but usually my willingness to see with wide eyes brings me to a much clearer mindset and view on life.

The thing is that it's okay to criticize those on reality shows but not fellow members. hmmm

My only interest in Clare is whether I think JP is really interested in her or if she's a chemistry girl. My opinion is the latter.

by Guest Mon Feb 17, 2014 2:38 am

JBF wrote:One curiosity I am still trying to figure out is why Nikki got so much screentime during the Victoria meltdown in episode #2. It could just be the coincidence of her time with Juan being interrupted by Victoria and she had a lot of PI material to give them. Yet something is still bugging me there and I can't figure it out. When the ladies say Victoria owes Juan an apology, the camera stays focused on her.

Again... maybe this is nothing, but it is still baffling me. Perhaps Nikki is F1. Perhaps she's the next Bachelorette. Who knows? We just have to see this play out.

I wonder about those segments as well, JBF..

made my inquiring mind goes hmm.......*flashing back to Brooks foreshadowing Bryden`s will to leave on epi.4*. Perhaps Nikki foreshadowing what will happen to her in the next episodes??....

Man!..i am so done and exhausted last season in going full force to :tinfoil