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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
atem! i can't believe you didn't watch. it was gutwrenching but also very touching too because you end up seeing how much brooks did care despite what he thought. are you going to watch the FRC part 2? you could wait until we know for sure how it ends and then watch them both back to back. that would be kinda cool so you don't have to suffer through the week of torture like the rest of us have after watching monday.atem wrote:I didn't watch Monday's episode and I sure won't watch until I have more confirmation of what happened.
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
latergator wrote:Aunties_Love wrote:Ouch, that wasn't nice..latergator wrote:
yup, have fun, hope it doesn't rain or that the mosquito's carry you off.
Aunties love, stick to the stuff you think you know. the comment was totally meant as it is read, I am hoping that nd has a great time and the mosquito's are few. not sure where you live, but where I do camping this time of year can be a harrowing experience.
tell you what, how about putting me on your foe list
Guys please chill out, this is a show about folks that we don't know or may never meet in our lives. I see no reason why everyone can't all get along despite differing opinons, thanks!!!!
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
Ariela wrote:Swissmiss wrote:Come Monday night when all this is over four people will have to move on with their life. I hope the press keeps it civil although I doubt it but I hope they can allow theses four to find a new normal.
A poster made a good point about Des wanting to make a better life for herself and it sounds as she had a difficult childhood while her parents struggled. She has worked hard to overcome some big obstacles. Nate can't be easy on her after his past performance last season and I think that might be what is tugging at my heart. I don't see happy ever after and I wish her the very best no matter who she picks or does not pick. I hope all will respect that she did what was best for her and for her future. Sounds stupid but that is what this show should be about. While rejection is part of the package it is usually down to f2 and eventually f1 and the Bach. A very few make it but most don't. I don't know Des but I think she is a survivor and will be fine man or no man. The pain is not pleasant to watch. I can't imagine having it played out in public like it has. My best to all. I have no idea how MF sleeps at night. I guess it is all about the $$$
Exactly. And that's what's sad about this situation. I do not care for wishy washy Brooks' behavior and I've been vocal about it.
I don't have a favorite. But head games are just pathetic. This show will put them through the wringer, and I despise how the bettes are humiliated on this how over and over.
Brooks played along until now to tell her that he wasn't feeling it. Then supposedly he comes back and proposes. This is just nuts. Is he trying to correct his behavior on TV(cuz viewers will crucify him), or does he really mean it? He lost a lot of time with her, so he doesn't know her enough to propose. The poor girl is so weak emotionally that if he throws her a bone, she'll take it....Gawh, how I hated when they were sitting on the bench while he broke it off, and she told him " I just want the simple things in life..." as if something is wrong with her. That wasn't even the topic.
I understand that many posters/fans want their fantasy ending and they want Bres together, but I find it sad when reality will come knocking Des will have more issues than when she started the show. She has a wound from him humiliating her on TV, and she took the Salt (Brooks) back.
Not to mention that he told Des straight out that when they are not together he doesn't think of her or miss her....how then could he dump her, leave, and then think about her enough to return ON HIS OWN having decided that he loves her????
Ariela, don't expect many here to agree with your (our) skepticism. They adore Brooks just like I adored Vinny on "Welcome Back Kotter" when I was a kid -- thought he was hot and could do no wrong -- but even in my teens I knew that he was just an actor and it was just a tv show!! Same with Lady Tom Brady!!
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
Well this does make it sound like the producers would of done anything to help Brooks out. But he had his mind set already. I don't think he comes back.
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
LLiza wrote:Ariela wrote:Swissmiss wrote:Come Monday night when all this is over four people will have to move on with their life. I hope the press keeps it civil although I doubt it but I hope they can allow theses four to find a new normal.
A poster made a good point about Des wanting to make a better life for herself and it sounds as she had a difficult childhood while her parents struggled. She has worked hard to overcome some big obstacles. Nate can't be easy on her after his past performance last season and I think that might be what is tugging at my heart. I don't see happy ever after and I wish her the very best no matter who she picks or does not pick. I hope all will respect that she did what was best for her and for her future. Sounds stupid but that is what this show should be about. While rejection is part of the package it is usually down to f2 and eventually f1 and the Bach. A very few make it but most don't. I don't know Des but I think she is a survivor and will be fine man or no man. The pain is not pleasant to watch. I can't imagine having it played out in public like it has. My best to all. I have no idea how MF sleeps at night. I guess it is all about the $$$
Exactly. And that's what's sad about this situation. I do not care for wishy washy Brooks' behavior and I've been vocal about it.
I don't have a favorite. But head games are just pathetic. This show will put them through the wringer, and I despise how the bettes are humiliated on this how over and over.
Brooks played along until now to tell her that he wasn't feeling it. Then supposedly he comes back and proposes. This is just nuts. Is he trying to correct his behavior on TV(cuz viewers will crucify him), or does he really mean it? He lost a lot of time with her, so he doesn't know her enough to propose. The poor girl is so weak emotionally that if he throws her a bone, she'll take it....Gawh, how I hated when they were sitting on the bench while he broke it off, and she told him " I just want the simple things in life..." as if something is wrong with her. That wasn't even the topic.
I understand that many posters/fans want their fantasy ending and they want Bres together, but I find it sad when reality will come knocking Des will have more issues than when she started the show. She has a wound from him humiliating her on TV, and she took the Salt (Brooks) back.
Not to mention that he told Des straight out that when they are not together he doesn't think of her or miss her....how then could he dump her, leave, and then think about her enough to return ON HIS OWN having decided that he loves her????
Ariela, don't expect many here to agree with your (our) skepticism. They adore Brooks just like I adored Vinny on "Welcome Back Kotter" when I was a kid -- thought he was hot and could do no wrong -- but even in my teens I knew that he was just an actor and it was just a tv show!! Same with Lady Tom Brady!!
I know. As long as they can get their hankies out during the faux proposal.
I've said in many posts that he really did a tune on her psyche. I'm sure she relived and got an earful watching the show last Monday. Her blog was not a happy one.
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
I saw how happy Brooks was on that HTD. I think it's strange that the show doesn't let the people say anything and we have to rely on Chris Harrison to spin what happened and have no way for Brooks to say anything.
Anything I post means it's Just My Opinion. Don't feel like posting it every time I post. So, I thought I'd get that out of the way.
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
It's not Brooks that I am upset with, it's Des if he comes back and she let's him and they get engaged after everything that was said! It was so obvious to me that she was way more into him than he her. He was honest in saying how he felt. Des doesn't love Drew or Chris like she does Brooks so it is fitting that she doesn't choose either of them that's honest. That being said why on earth would she believe a sudden reversal in heart? How could she ever believe it was real!? Desperate for that love, oh my disaster written all over that. Better she goes on her own.Please don't drink the
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
This is Desiree and Brooks life not mine..Their choices are their own and where their choices takes them only God knows. She states she loves Brooks, and I happen to believe he loves her in return. I also happen to think they are beautiful together. I will continue to cheer them on no matter where their lives lead them. I don't think life holds any guarantees for any of us..If she's happy with Brooks, that's a beautiful thing and If not it wasn't meant to be...and they will move on.. And I will continue cheer for them because that's the way I am . Must be the mom in me.......Swissmiss wrote:Judiful wrote:I hate this part of the show because people get hurt...it's inevitable. !! The last three guys are all awesome guys. But Desiree is in love with Brooks..she told him so. She said she didn't want him to steal her heart; she wanted to give it to him. She loves him.. I can sure feel the meddling from TPTB with all these troubles. This whole unfortunate scenario began with Brooks conversation with brother Dave at home in SLC with Dave asking what he would do if Desiree disappeared from of his life and was gone ~~how far would he go to get her back ?? He never had a chance to answer.. But, I guess now we will see on Monday just how far he goes to get her back . I really like Brooks..he was always my very favorite of all the guys. My heart broke for both Des and Brooks as they cried together . I know there's people who will hold a grudge against him which is up to them. I will stand by him as always. I can't imagine wanting to see her settle for Chris or Drew ..that's just unfair to everybody..What a low blow to them. Settling for second best is not right ...I want her to be with the man she loves and that's Brooks .. :cheerpom:
What if Des decides that two months and all the emotional stress of the season is too much for her to make an intelligent decision and wants to be on her own for a while to sort her feelings and may move on with a man not associated with the show or perhaps just focus on her career? Do you trust her enough to make her own decision even if it is not Brooks? What if it is Brooks and they split in a month? I just hope the "fans" will be forgiving and understanding. I think the girl has been through enough w/o all the cheerleaders voicing their displeasure if things don't go great for their "favorite". JMHO
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
Don't you all wish that we were spending this pre-FRC week sleuthing screencaps of shoes, dress color, sun shadows?????
The sleuthing is my favorite part and we got little of it this season.
The sleuthing is my favorite part and we got little of it this season.
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
WOW!latergator wrote:Aunties_Love wrote:Ouch, that wasn't nice..latergator wrote:
yup, have fun, hope it doesn't rain or that the mosquito's carry you off.
Aunties love, stick to the stuff you think you know. the comment was totally meant as it is read, I am hoping that nd has a great time and the mosquito's are few. not sure where you live, but where I do camping this time of year can be a harrowing experience.
tell you what, how about putting me on your foe list
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
luvstx wrote:Don't you all wish that we were spending this pre-FRC week sleuthing screencaps of shoes, dress color, sun shadows?????
The sleuthing is my favorite part and we got little of it this season.
Absolutely I miss those days.
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Re: Episode 11 (Finale Part 2) - 8/05 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1
Iluvbachette wrote:luvstx wrote:Don't you all wish that we were spending this pre-FRC week sleuthing screencaps of shoes, dress color, sun shadows?????
The sleuthing is my favorite part and we got little of it this season.
Absolutely I miss those days.
There has been less and less every season. It's sad, that was my favorite part. I guess that's why I was hoping against hope for a RS blunder, so that at least for next season, people might think he could be wrong again. I doubt those days come back now because there are too many sources now. Fleiss and ABC need to clean house or something. I have friends that watch Survivor and Amazing Race and they're amazed at the spoilers that come out of the Bach shows vs those shows.
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