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Sable wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Pretty sure they were both on exactly the same page. Nikki did not come across as blindsided in any way despite what the other attendees thought.

This was way different from the Brad and Emily ATFR where the couple were at loggerheads with the machine doing its best to prod and question (with the hopes of getting their hands on her as their future lead).
Here the couple were  facing the machine together.

If so, then Nikki came across much more diplomatically than Juan Pablo did.  I did not see it that way though.  To me, Nikki looked shell shocked sitting there while Juan Pablo was talking.  Her body language and facial expressions while she was talking and while Juan Pablo was talking did not line up to me to indicate that she was on the same page as he was.  I think Nikki also had a somewhat of a surprised expression on her face when Juan Pablo said he did not have a surprise.  Did she think he was going to propose to her or tell her I love you?  I don't know.  But, for a split second, she had a surprised and disappointed look on her face, IMO.  It sort of reminded me of the look she had when she realized at the FRC that Juan Pablo was not going to propose to her or tell her he loved her.  This is just the way I perceived it.  Maybe Nikki and Juan Pablo will beat the odds and make their relationship work and have a very happy life together, but from what I saw on the ATFR show did not make me feel that scenario is very likely.

jlccaz wrote:Apologies if this is a repeat post

Chris Harrison On the 'Bachelor' Finale: 'More Juan Pablo Spoke, the Worse He Looked'

Last night's episode was intense. Could you have predicted all that drama?

No. That was the weird part. Usually as the host and as a producer on the show we know exactly for the most part what we're going to get. The show has its beats: Sean sits down, and it'll be difficult with Lindsay but it's not a huge deal; and there's the coronation of he and Catherine. Last night, going into the show, I had no idea how it was going to go from start to finish. I really had no clue what I was going to get and it really started with the audience... not knowing what their reaction was going to be. It made for an exciting, fun night for me.

Let's start with Clare. For the most part, our readers applauded her for standing up for herself. Did you think she came across well?

I really liked Clare on the show and I found it surprising that she got such a negative rap during the show. That's something I didn't anticipate from our fans, so I was a little taken aback by that. But then last night she redeemed herself. I didn't think she needed to! People saw the real Clare -- a strong, confident, beautiful woman. She did a 180 with the audience. She definitely won everybody back and she stood up for herself and she felt like she did it too late, but I told her, "It's never too late. You did it when you needed to."

'Bachelor' Winner Nikki Ferrell to Haters: 'Be Ashamed of Yourselves'

There's really no other way to put this: Your conversation with Nikki and Juan Pablo was painful to watch. How awkward was it in person?

I wasn't harping on him so much to make him say "I love you," that's kind of irrelevant to me. It was just, things weren't adding up and it was just bizarre. Their body language was telling me one thing and his words were telling me another. It was him. She wasn't allowed or able to speak her mind. I almost felt sorry for her. She was uncomfortable. He was making her uncomfortable, and I assume, I'm hoping at least, it was just an orchestrated event by him to somehow and in some way, get back at me or the show, I don't know what his motivation was for what he pulled last night. That was the most puzzling thing. I really felt like I was sitting here, like Jerry Maguire, saying, "Help me help you. I'm trying to make you look better. Come up with an articulate thought about this woman next to you who has pledged her devotion to you." The more he spoke, the worse he looked. I felt bad for both of them.

Did you expect him to be that antagonistic toward you?

Sadly, I got exactly what I thought I was going to get last night. Some you saw and some you haven't seen [during the show. Things] were a little contentious but I never felt like I was at odds with him. I don't dislike him whatsoever. I wasn't mad at him last night. I was just trying to think, "How can I make this guy articulate his feelings and show his emotions?" ... This guy is not looking good and all he had to do was simply explain that even if he didn't want to say I love you, that's totally fine, but say something. Everybody's invested in this and you came into this with the understanding of what "The Bachelor" is. You can't get away with, "I've never seen the show." He knew exactly what he was getting into. He had trouble embracing being the Bachelor. People take that as an indictment on you and it's not. It doesn't make you a bad person. He had trouble getting into the process.

'The Bachelor' Finale Full Recap: Juan Pablo Chooses Between Nikki and Clare

Do you think Nikki really loves him?

I think she loves him because only a woman who loves a man would've sat there and endured that last night for him. She wanted to speak her mind. She wanted to say more. She was not comfortable and she sat by his side! Only a woman who loves a man would've done what she did. She was a trouper.

Do you think he really loves her?

Yes. I think he's told her but I don't think he wanted to say it [last night].

Your critics are accusing you of being a bully last night. What do you say to those people?

I can't disagree and I can only respect their opinions. That goes to show how great the show is and this is why I love it: I had people telling me how great I was last night and I handled him and he was a bad guy and then I had people telling me I was the worst person in the world and he's great. As usual, the truth lies somewhere in between. I love that it evokes that kind of emotion and that kind of debate. I totally respect that opinion and maybe I was! I have to go back and watch it to see. Maybe I was hard on him. I don't know. I went into that with the intention of being fair and letting him speak his mind, but after what Nikki said, I thought I was being fair in getting him to reciprocate some emotion.

Some people noted that you walked away from him as the show went to commercial. What was that about?

Honestly, I had a short break and I was so parched, I ran over to get some water. I just walked five feet to get my water bottle and then I ran right back on stage.

What are the odds that Juan Pablo and Nikki make it down the aisle or even get engaged?

Stranger things have happened, right? That's the beauty of the show and what it's about. Who can predict? The silliest thing you can do is bet against them. Maybe they will last forever and honestly, I hope they do. I wish them nothing but the best. People took last night as I'm angry, but I'm not. I just wish he'd embraced us a little more.

C'mon. Seriously?

I was the guy that would've bet a million dollars that Ali and Roberto would get married and then they broke up. Who knows? It's a crazy world out there!

nd4reality wrote:

Sable wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Pretty sure they were both on exactly the same page. Nikki did not come across as blindsided in any way despite what the other attendees thought.

This was way different from the Brad and Emily ATFR where the couple were at loggerheads with the machine doing its best to prod and question (with the hopes of getting their hands on her as their future lead).
Here the couple were  facing the machine together.

If so, then Nikki came across much more diplomatically than Juan Pablo did.  I did not see it that way though.  To me, Nikki looked shell shocked sitting there while Juan Pablo was talking.  Her body language and facial expressions while she was talking and while Juan Pablo was talking did not line up to me to indicate that she was on the same page as he was.  I think Nikki also had a somewhat of a surprised expression on her face when Juan Pablo said he did not have a surprise.  Did she think he was going to propose to her or tell her I love you?  I don't know.  But, for a split second, she had a surprised and disappointed look on her face, IMO.  It sort of reminded me of the look she had when she realized at the FRC that Juan Pablo was not going to propose to her or tell her he loved her.  This is just the way I perceived it.  Maybe Nikki and Juan Pablo will beat the odds and make their relationship work and have a very happy life together, but from what I saw on the ATFR show did not make me feel that scenario is very likely.

I didn't find her shell shocked at the ATFR all but that's the beauty of these differing perceptions we all have.   
I do agree that look came into her face at the FRC though.

As for them making it, how many seasons have we watched this show ? How many of these have proposed and then fallen apart within couple of years if that ?
I see no difference with this couple except for kudos that they did not get engaged  and given public declarations IF they are not going to make it anyway. I see this less of a sham than usual.

dw_a_mom wrote:Lots of interesting information.  The DWTS drop timing, Neil Lane's comments ...

Time will tell.

I don't think JP did himself any favors, though, given what we've heard of his ambitions.  We saw it often during the show, too - this guy knows how to shoot himself in the foot, choosing the wrong way to get stubborn about things and stick up for himself.

Sable wrote:

dw_a_mom wrote:Lots of interesting information.  The DWTS drop timing, Neil Lane's comments ...

Time will tell.

I don't think JP did himself any favors, though, given what we've heard of his ambitions.  We saw it often during the show, too - this guy knows how to shoot himself in the foot, choosing the wrong way to get stubborn about things and stick up for himself.

Bolding by me...

Exactly!  If he wanted a career in Hollywood, then he really shot himself in the foot with his behavior/attitude on the ATFR show.  I think all he cared about in the moment was getting back at TPTB.  He didn't think of Nikki, he didn't think of any future potential career opportunities he could have had in Hollywood, etc.  I think it was very shortsighted of him.

jlccaz wrote:Apologies if this is a repeat post

Chris Harrison On the 'Bachelor' Finale: 'More Juan Pablo Spoke, the Worse He Looked'

Last night's episode was intense. Could you have predicted all that drama?

No. That was the weird part. Usually as the host and as a producer on the show we know exactly for the most part what we're going to get. The show has its beats: Sean sits down, and it'll be difficult with Lindsay but it's not a huge deal; and there's the coronation of he and Catherine. Last night, going into the show, I had no idea how it was going to go from start to finish. I really had no clue what I was going to get and it really started with the audience... not knowing what their reaction was going to be. It made for an exciting, fun night for me.

Let's start with Clare. For the most part, our readers applauded her for standing up for herself. Did you think she came across well?

I really liked Clare on the show and I found it surprising that she got such a negative rap during the show. That's something I didn't anticipate from our fans, so I was a little taken aback by that. But then last night she redeemed herself. I didn't think she needed to! People saw the real Clare -- a strong, confident, beautiful woman. She did a 180 with the audience. She definitely won everybody back and she stood up for herself and she felt like she did it too late, but I told her, "It's never too late. You did it when you needed to."

'Bachelor' Winner Nikki Ferrell to Haters: 'Be Ashamed of Yourselves'

There's really no other way to put this: Your conversation with Nikki and Juan Pablo was painful to watch. How awkward was it in person?

I wasn't harping on him so much to make him say "I love you," that's kind of irrelevant to me. It was just, things weren't adding up and it was just bizarre. Their body language was telling me one thing and his words were telling me another. It was him. She wasn't allowed or able to speak her mind. I almost felt sorry for her. She was uncomfortable. He was making her uncomfortable, and I assume, I'm hoping at least, it was just an orchestrated event by him to somehow and in some way, get back at me or the show, I don't know what his motivation was for what he pulled last night. That was the most puzzling thing. I really felt like I was sitting here, like Jerry Maguire, saying, "Help me help you. I'm trying to make you look better. Come up with an articulate thought about this woman next to you who has pledged her devotion to you." The more he spoke, the worse he looked. I felt bad for both of them.

Did you expect him to be that antagonistic toward you?

Sadly, I got exactly what I thought I was going to get last night. Some you saw and some you haven't seen [during the show. Things] were a little contentious but I never felt like I was at odds with him. I don't dislike him whatsoever. I wasn't mad at him last night. I was just trying to think, "How can I make this guy articulate his feelings and show his emotions?" ... This guy is not looking good and all he had to do was simply explain that even if he didn't want to say I love you, that's totally fine, but say something. Everybody's invested in this and you came into this with the understanding of what "The Bachelor" is. You can't get away with, "I've never seen the show." He knew exactly what he was getting into. He had trouble embracing being the Bachelor. People take that as an indictment on you and it's not. It doesn't make you a bad person. He had trouble getting into the process.

'The Bachelor' Finale Full Recap: Juan Pablo Chooses Between Nikki and Clare

Do you think Nikki really loves him?

I think she loves him because only a woman who loves a man would've sat there and endured that last night for him. She wanted to speak her mind. She wanted to say more. She was not comfortable and she sat by his side! Only a woman who loves a man would've done what she did. She was a trouper.

Do you think he really loves her?

Yes. I think he's told her but I don't think he wanted to say it [last night].

Your critics are accusing you of being a bully last night. What do you say to those people?

I can't disagree and I can only respect their opinions. That goes to show how great the show is and this is why I love it: I had people telling me how great I was last night and I handled him and he was a bad guy and then I had people telling me I was the worst person in the world and he's great. As usual, the truth lies somewhere in between. I love that it evokes that kind of emotion and that kind of debate. I totally respect that opinion and maybe I was! I have to go back and watch it to see. Maybe I was hard on him. I don't know. I went into that with the intention of being fair and letting him speak his mind, but after what Nikki said, I thought I was being fair in getting him to reciprocate some emotion.

Some people noted that you walked away from him as the show went to commercial. What was that about?

Honestly, I had a short break and I was so parched, I ran over to get some water. I just walked five feet to get my water bottle and then I ran right back on stage.

What are the odds that Juan Pablo and Nikki make it down the aisle or even get engaged?

Stranger things have happened, right? That's the beauty of the show and what it's about. Who can predict? The silliest thing you can do is bet against them. Maybe they will last forever and honestly, I hope they do. I wish them nothing but the best. People took last night as I'm angry, but I'm not. I just wish he'd embraced us a little more.

C'mon. Seriously?

I was the guy that would've bet a million dollars that Ali and Roberto would get married and then they broke up. Who knows? It's a crazy world out there!

atem wrote:

Sable wrote:

dw_a_mom wrote:Lots of interesting information.  The DWTS drop timing, Neil Lane's comments ...

Time will tell.

I don't think JP did himself any favors, though, given what we've heard of his ambitions.  We saw it often during the show, too - this guy knows how to shoot himself in the foot, choosing the wrong way to get stubborn about things and stick up for himself.

Bolding by me...

Exactly!  If he wanted a career in Hollywood, then he really shot himself in the foot with his behavior/attitude on the ATFR show.  I think all he cared about in the moment was getting back at TPTB.  He didn't think of Nikki, he didn't think of any future potential career opportunities he could have had in Hollywood, etc.  I think it was very shortsighted of him.

I say that's his problem now!  So much more fun looking at Andi's guys.    

jlccaz wrote:Two weeks ago they finally told him he was dumped from Dancing with the Stars, which I believe was the basis for their joint plan to do a Sean and Catherine and live in LA for a while, on ABC's dime.  ABC was obviously furious at his loss of filter (frankly they should be pissed at the handlers who should have been with JP during that interview managing the conversation better), and ready to disconnect his name from their brand.

My sense is that JP was probably told he had the DWTS gig in the bag, and so it particularly hurt when the offer was pulled over remarks that probably don't even reflect his own views about gay relationships.

His Mom mentioned his hyperactivity.  His profile fits an ADHD/impulsive type diagnosis pretty well from my armchair.  That can be a hard diagnosis to be married to ... or work with.

I agree with those who see this as JP's revenge -- to just shut down the TV show.  He's locked in an emotional fight with producers and the network, though, without factoring the toll it takes on his own reputation and career prospects.

Also, Wetpaint has the story (that seems correct to me) of what he said to Clare in the helicopter, which was unfiltered to say the least, also consistent with the sort of blurting the first thought in your mind behavior associated with ADHD.

Amberish wrote:Unless TPTB lied to JP, there is absolutely no way ABC offered Juan Pablo DWTS in the first place. Juan Pablo clearly checked out and stopped playing ball while filming midseason.