Re: Tim Lopez - Ready For Love - Spoilers - Thread #4

by noobsleuth Tue May 28, 2013 10:26 pm

Beb wrote:
noobsleuth wrote:OH peoples please don't feel like I was trying to sensor anyone!! Sorry, that was more a personal thing for me as I know how I felt when it's happened before. I was mortified about the Chantal thing when it happened. Granted, we were discussing her breasts so.... LOL

Oh, I don't mind discussing body parts. Bring it on. Tim won't mind...he wrote a song about them...didn't he?
Now, who wants to talk about Ben's six pack?
Any thoughts on that Lopez tattoo?

Speaking of people with ridiculous abs I found this and thought it was the funniest thing ever. Perhaps this is how Ben gets his six pack of perfection. (?) Note, it does say recommended for, "pseudo athletes". LOL I wonder what they have to do when they want an 8 pack?

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by Beb Tue May 28, 2013 10:29 pm

Dying here. Stop.

by 2observe Tue May 28, 2013 10:45 pm

Iluvbachette wrote:Here's the thing with the editing all along. You have seasoned experienced producers from The Bachelor. I am sure they took good pointers from there into their own careers. Edit has been going back and forth from what people have found behind the scene that isn't even heard of. If Jenna is not the one he picks then they planted Jenna all along. Along with the feathers and anything else we see. There is one phrase there by Tim that makes you wonder. And yes alot of the things with Jenna were vo. When Jenna showed him where she wanted to get married. VO "I mean I'd be happy to get married there if that's where things go BUT". The other thing I find off is Jenna's timing to tell Tim she's falling in love with him. That should be a very private personal thing. Something you do without others around. She's had plenty of time to do that.

Now these are the words from the song when Tim was going up to Sara's.
There are mountains that reach to the sky, that i'd climb to find you. Because we're the best when we're together. I'll love you forever.

ITA with blue comment. Jenna stated that she might be going home if she didn't tell him how she felt, so to me she only told him so he wouldn't send her home. Jenna could have easily told Tim while they where in the park with the peacocks. It was where she wanted to get married, so that who have been so romantic. jmo.

by 2observe Tue May 28, 2013 10:55 pm

noobsleuth wrote:
tigertiz wrote:
Typically, I would be all over this, but now that I know they all read here, I'm hesitant to say much about them! haha Reminds me of that season we went on for pages and pages discussing whether or not Chanal O'brien's boobs were real, come to find out she was reading the whole thing!
NOO Noobs. This should be your safe place to say what is on your mind. We should not have to be PC here - "oh they are all lovely people, etc."

I feel like this is MY place to post and say what I want. These are folks who chose to appear on reality tv. No one forced them.
They knew that they would elicit commentary and some of it would not be what they wish to hear. If they voluntarily come to "our place", that exists solely to discuss and dissect these shows , then they ought to be prepared not to be as coddled as they are in their real lives. I'm not their friend or family , after all. If they don't wish to read criticism, then they really ought not be here. period. I dont feel sorry for my opinions or critiques in the least.

OK fine tiz, but only because you convinced me. Docnash will probably totally go, "SMH" on me, but here goes!:

I don't think Tim was over what happened with Whitney which makes me wonder if he really did seek counseling. I'm sooo glad it wasn't brought up on the show alot, but I think that there is a part of him that resents himself for not giving up his music career. I don't want to say that he should have never gone looking for love, but in the video they showed on FB of him, he's one melancholy dude. *Sitting at the bar, alone, drinking by himself* makes me think, he still thinks about it... and alot... and it makes him really sad! Sometimes I wonder if there was never any closure with that relationship because I could see as really beneficial for him if Whitney could somehow make him realize it was all for the best and that both will come out better for it. At the beginning of the season I didn't see him feeling that way at all, he gave no indication he would be better off without that relationship. Even though his relationship ended a few years ago, I see him as far in the healing process as Sara. I hope both benefited from this personal journey.

I hate to go too judgmental because he is still with his choice and in love and his mom keeps saying how happy he is. If anything, this relationship will be a good beginning to finding something permanent again. This is probably the first real relationship he has had since his divorce and I hope they don't rush into marriage.

I AM glad though, that he found someone he connected with and in such a strong way that the relationship continues to flourish. He seems like a really good guy (to me anyway).

Great post Noobs, and ITA. You said it much better than I did.

by mrsgrover Tue May 28, 2013 11:09 pm

2observe wrote:
Iluvbachette wrote:Here's the thing with the editing all along. You have seasoned experienced producers from The Bachelor. I am sure they took good pointers from there into their own careers. Edit has been going back and forth from what people have found behind the scene that isn't even heard of. If Jenna is not the one he picks then they planted Jenna all along. Along with the feathers and anything else we see. There is one phrase there by Tim that makes you wonder. And yes alot of the things with Jenna were vo. When Jenna showed him where she wanted to get married. VO "I mean I'd be happy to get married there if that's where things go BUT". The other thing I find off is Jenna's timing to tell Tim she's falling in love with him. That should be a very private personal thing. Something you do without others around. She's had plenty of time to do that.

Now these are the words from the song when Tim was going up to Sara's.
There are mountains that reach to the sky, that i'd climb to find you. Because we're the best when we're together. I'll love you forever.

ITA with blue comment. Jenna stated that she might be going home if she didn't tell him how she felt, so to me she only told him so he wouldn't send her home. Jenna could have easily told Tim while they where in the park with the peacocks. It was where she wanted to get married, so that who have been so romantic. jmo.

Agree. She had the perfect moment while they were gazing in each other's eyes. Why not tell him then? Why only work up the courage to tell him when she is standing there thinking she might be eliminated? The others took that leap of faith with the knowledge they could get their heart broken. It didn't take the threat of elimination to get them to communicate their feelings. Makes me wonder how well Jenna will be able to communicate during the trying times.

by iamreal2u Tue May 28, 2013 11:14 pm

You can't live with what if's. Jenna decided to say it, since she could have been the one going home. If she did not then she would've question herself. What if I had told him....

by realitylovefan Tue May 28, 2013 11:19 pm

mrsgrover wrote:
2observe wrote:
Iluvbachette wrote:Here's the thing with the editing all along. You have seasoned experienced producers from The Bachelor. I am sure they took good pointers from there into their own careers. Edit has been going back and forth from what people have found behind the scene that isn't even heard of. If Jenna is not the one he picks then they planted Jenna all along. Along with the feathers and anything else we see. There is one phrase there by Tim that makes you wonder. And yes alot of the things with Jenna were vo. When Jenna showed him where she wanted to get married. VO "I mean I'd be happy to get married there if that's where things go BUT". The other thing I find off is Jenna's timing to tell Tim she's falling in love with him. That should be a very private personal thing. Something you do without others around. She's had plenty of time to do that.

Now these are the words from the song when Tim was going up to Sara's.
There are mountains that reach to the sky, that i'd climb to find you. Because we're the best when we're together. I'll love you forever.

ITA with blue comment. Jenna stated that she might be going home if she didn't tell him how she felt, so to me she only told him so he wouldn't send her home. Jenna could have easily told Tim while they where in the park with the peacocks. It was where she wanted to get married, so that who have been so romantic. jmo.

Agree. She had the perfect moment while they were gazing in each other's eyes. Why not tell him then? Why only work up the courage to tell him when she is standing there thinking she might be eliminated? The others took that leap of faith with the knowledge they could get their heart broken. It didn't take the threat of elimination to get them to communicate their feelings. Makes me wonder how well Jenna will be able to communicate during the trying times.

I think it goes back to Jenna being relatively young, she may not know what love really is at this point in her life. Tim's dad had expressed concern that with Jenna being quite young, she may think the love is a feeling, but it is more than that. Tim also says it's difficult to say that she may not even know she's not ready for love.

Btw, Tim wore a white feather in episode one and a peacock feather in episode two (I would say waaaaay before Jenna's hometown date). Great chance that the feathers are just part of his style.

by realitylovefan Tue May 28, 2013 11:20 pm

iamreal2u wrote:You can't live with what if's. Jenna decided to say it, since she could have been the one going home. If she did not then she would've question herself. What if I had told him....

Just seemed really unnatural/forced. I think she wanted to save herself from a possible elimination. Just saying...

by perdita Tue May 28, 2013 11:22 pm

realitylovefan wrote:Btw, Tim wore a white feather in episode one and a peacock feather in episode two (I would say waaaaay before Jenna's hometown date). Great chance that the feathers are just part of his style.

SERIOUSLY??!!! This gives me hope that it still could be Sara!!! I

by Love_Me Tue May 28, 2013 11:44 pm

beetims wrote:Well I don't know Tim so I try not to pass harsh judgement. I don't have to understand why he chose who he chooses. They are happy, so what is our opinion of any of these people worth? Nothing if you ask me. Especially negative ones.

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Just my opinion, but I think Tim chooses someone (IMO Jenna) because he is madly in love with her. I think Tim is genuine and he took this whole process seriously. He went on a journey to find someone special and he ended up doing just that.

by realitylovefan Tue May 28, 2013 11:55 pm

perdita wrote:
realitylovefan wrote:Btw, Tim wore a white feather in episode one and a peacock feather in episode two (I would say waaaaay before Jenna's hometown date). Great chance that the feathers are just part of his style.

SERIOUSLY??!!! This gives me hope that it still could be Sara!!! I

Correction, Tim wore a peacock feather in episode three, not episode two. Episode two was only Ben and Ernesto.

by realitylovefan Wed May 29, 2013 12:00 am

When I saw this picture on Tim's instagram with the caption "King of the Mountain" two weeks ago, I didn't get it because where the heck are the darn mountains. On Tim's date with Sara in the mountains, he shouts "I'm the king of the world...!". It could may very well be a shout-out to Sara! He just replaced "world" with "mountain".

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