Re: Sean & Catherine - The Bachelor 17 - Thread #1

[charriotoffire]

Forgive me for asking because I honestly don't know, but how does one tell someone has pushed the exclamation point (report button) on one's post? I genuinely thought only the mods could tell you was reporting what posts.

If you are just talking about the fact that there are two exclamation point buttons on your posts, well those are on every post.

One of chariot's posts is red and on the previous page, one of beeleevers is red.

Thanks for the response nv. I never knew those could change colors. Guess you learn something new every day even if you've been here awhile.

And I just want to say to chariot, that although you probably put me in the fan girl category, I've never once thought about reporting a single one of your posts and I never would. I hope you know that not all SeanCat fans are the ones doing this.

Umngirl, you are one of the nicest fans I ever had the privilege to encounter. In my book you will never fall in that category.

I've never seen you insult someone's intelligence, demean someone and become abrasive just because you encountered a post that berates your favorites.

Problem is these fanatics give the fans a bad rep. Fangirls are mean beasts and fans are delightful positive people.

You are a fan and a delightful fan at that.

[Peppermom]

Umngirl, I think that is the point. Not all people who are genuinely fans of a contestant or couple would bother to report a post they didn't like. Most would just ignore it. Only someone who is not able to separate the opinion of a poster about a contestant, from a rule breaking post, would report something they just didn't agree with or particularly like. That is the type of behaviour we need to get a handle on and figure out a way to co-exist.

[Kashathediva]

For me this board has been a fun escape and, in the past, a place to catch a laugh or two. But I've stopped myself from posting 100 times because it just hasn't felt worth it. Need an example? That peck on the lips that Seancat exchanged at the airport....where were Sean's arms...hands? That's the kiss you get when your wife of 10 years picks you up from the commuter train! I wanted to comment on the photo then and there and then thought...nah....totally not worth the aggravation!

Anyway, Loveme and San are the best mods ever and I give you enormous credit for trying to make this site work for everyone.

The man cannot even let go of his stuff and phone to give the woman who volunteered to be his driver a proper kiss. His idea of passion is
to shove his lizard tongue to someone's face and suffocate her with it. He doesn't do anything with his hands, his body language doesn't say
"I really want you" but, "Im so happy we are both in love with myself"

The woman must have been really enjoying the perks of being his kept woman, as she is the cheerleader, dogwalker, driver, sometimes cook rolled into one.
This is what bugs me, why is he such a catch for this woman? He didnt pay for her engagement ring, he didnt get the elephants as animal props
he surely WILL NOT pay for her wedding gown, wedding ring, or the wedding. And his kissing is like that of a petowner kissing a dog. You do not
kiss a dog with a passion but with tenderness cause he is being a good dog. That's how the man kisses the woman.

He has no real invesment for this woman, except let go of his single blessedness and since he is not sleeping around or having
relationships with any women, its not a huge thing to sacrifice anyway. I'm sure he is relieved to be married finally as nobody would badger
him with 'why do you not want to have sex with any women' questions. If a playboy finally wants to get married, and wants finally
to be a devoted husband and father to only one woman, that is romantic... but a frigid man who barely knows how to kiss wants to get married
for all the WORLD to see, forgive me but it doesn't look romantic, it looks questionable.

This makes me wish Des finds someone who is not phony and fame hungry as the man we are describing above. Nate should ask
her suitors, if they are willing to join contests like DWTS after the engagement, the least interested of them of lingering in the limelight should be the F1.



PS: Hello ceebeedeedum, Want to share my banana split?

After a harrowing day at work--I have to admit not only did I enjoy your post and agree with many of it's finer points, but I found it most entertaining. A real bang for my buck. Thank you!! (no snark intended!)

[Iam4UGA]

I can't see anyone's posts in a different color? I did not know what the exclamation point meant either.

so, does it mean you are a fan girl or a fanatic if you prefer not to read people bashing the couple you like? When I see that, I just scroll right on past....

[Kashathediva]

Forgive me for asking because I honestly don't know, but how does one tell someone has pushed the exclamation point (report button) on one's post? I genuinely thought only the mods could tell you was reporting what posts.

If you are just talking about the fact that there are two exclamation point buttons on your posts, well those are on every post.

One of chariot's posts is red and on the previous page, one of beeleevers is red.

I don't know what this means, either. You mean the entire post shows up red--the writing?

[Kashathediva]

I can't see anyone's posts in a different color? I did not know what the exclamation point meant either.

so, does it mean you are a fan girl or a fanatic if you prefer not to read people bashing the couple you like? When I see that, I just scroll right on past....

JMHO--I think scrolling past something you know will upset you in any way, shape or form is quite wise and good for your health. (again no snark--serious)

[Peppermom]

Forgive me for asking because I honestly don't know, but how does one tell someone has pushed the exclamation point (report button) on one's post? I genuinely thought only the mods could tell you was reporting what posts.

If you are just talking about the fact that there are two exclamation point buttons on your posts, well those are on every post.

One of chariot's posts is red and on the previous page, one of beeleevers is red.

I don't know what this means, either. You mean the entire post shows up red--the writing?

No, just the exclamation point is a bright red. I could mark yours and you'll see.

[Kashathediva]

All of the exclamation points on all of the posts on my page are red. Always have been...all posts.

Bad Pepper!!

[umngirl]

Forgive me for asking because I honestly don't know, but how does one tell someone has pushed the exclamation point (report button) on one's post? I genuinely thought only the mods could tell you was reporting what posts.

If you are just talking about the fact that there are two exclamation point buttons on your posts, well those are on every post.

One of chariot's posts is red and on the previous page, one of beeleevers is red.

Thanks for the response nv. I never knew those could change colors. Guess you learn something new every day even if you've been here awhile.

And I just want to say to chariot, that although you probably put me in the fan girl category, I've never once thought about reporting a single one of your posts and I never would. I hope you know that not all SeanCat fans are the ones doing this.

Umngirl, you are one of the nicest fans I ever had the privilege to encounter. In my book you will never fall in that category.

I've never seen you insult someone's intelligence, demean someone and become abrasive just because you encountered a post that berates your favorites.

Problem is these fanatics give the fans a bad rep. Fangirls are mean beasts and fans are delightful positive people.

You are a fan and a delightful fan at that.

Thank you for your kind words. And although I may not agree with all your opinions, I can appreciate your snark. You a-okay in my book.

[northernviewer]

not just the exclamation point is red... the whole triangle is red (exclamation point is white) for just those 2 posts that I mentioned before.

[Peppermom]

not just the exclamation point is red... the whole triangle is red (exclamation point is white) for just those 2 posts that I mentioned before.

OOOPPPPSSS. I had it wrong. See I said I didn't know what it was for. Thanks NV for keeping me in line.

[northernviewer]

not just the exclamation point is red... the whole triangle is red (exclamation point is white) for just those 2 posts that I mentioned before.

OOOPPPPSSS. I had it wrong. See I said I didn't know what it was for. Thanks NV for keeping me in line.

:fishing:

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