Re: Sean & Catherine - The Bachelor 17 - Thread #1

[pavalygurl]

In Emily's season, while I was not a big fan, I hoped she would let down her guard and choose a real match. However, there were fans so blinded to anything which disturbed the Disney view of the "Couple", especially after the show ended, that I felt I was in an alternate universe. The onslaught of bullying, fighting and meanness in general, especially by some newbies was so over the top. I have seen some of this in Sean's season as well and IMHO, sometimes the biggest offenders are not always the ones who are banned or have posts deleted.

This board started as many have said as an alternative to the real tight controls of the FORT. I appreciated the freedom of speech and fun we had. We have veteran sleuthers who belong here but never post because they are frankly fed up with the disrespect and general mean spiritedness they see from, at times, a lot of folks on here. The board is missing out on the skills of folks who frankly INVENTED show sleuthing and who taught it to many others.

I hope like so many on here we can come to a way that we all can have our say but do it without loss of respect, censorship, having posts deleted for reasons we are never told, and enjoy this crazy show once again.

[charriotoffire]

Holy freakin moly! I just gotten back from the dead! I thought I'll be dead for good. I'm gonna celebrate with a heap of banana split
from Sonic yum yum.

Anyways, I really do not mind fangirls as long as they are not mean or want to pick fights all the time. Ninety nine percent of the time,
they are the ones who attack, they are the ones who want people banned and they are the ones who become cliquish.
I can't accept their premise of respecting these people who wanted attention anyway, negative or positive by joining these silly reality tv shows.

You cannot even respect the people you talk to in the forum and you want me to respect people who are getting paid a bunch of money for
having a very public relationship on tv, selling questionable products and showing off cheesy PDA's through twitter, instagram etc.
Not to mention getting preferential treatment in a dance contest even if he looks like a heifer in heels that is ready to give birth to a calf?

Why the hell would I respect these people? They wanted fame through their relationship. They wanted attention so bad that every kiss,
every pose with the dogs, every french braid needed to be instagrammed and twitted for the masses.
They are going to get a free million dollar wedding even if the woman doesn't know if the man's machinery is working and if it
wants to work for its intended purpose. They are not actors, they have no talents, they have no athletic skills good enough for olympics.
Sorry being engaged in a stupid show doesn't warrant admiration from me.

And why the hell would I respect these people if the only good they can motivate their fans to do is to be their attack dogs and
get innocent people like me get banned in forums?

Show me a fanatic who was inspired to behave in a chistian manner (as what the man preaches) just by admiring them, instead
of bullying people to respect them and shush their thoughts and opinions in a forum.. and I'll treat you with a mean heap of banana
split delivered straight to your house.

.And Im soooo tired of that couple. Really, they are so over exposed not even funny but I have a feeling they will milk every financial
opportunity there is, even selling a sack of rice and beans if they have to, before the onslaught of their wedding which will be over the top expensive
and probably enough to pay to feed hungry children in a small third world country.

Just to clarify I didnt attack anyone just didnt follow a rule that wasnt there in the first place. So I didnt know why I was treated shabbily.

[ceebeedeedum]

Holy freakin moly! I just gotten back from the dead! I thought I'll be dead for good. I'm gonna celebrate with a heap of banana split
from Sonic yum yum.

Anyways, I really do not mind fangirls as long as they are not mean or want to pick fights all the time. Ninety nine percent of the time,
they are the ones who attack, they are the ones who want people banned and they are the ones who become cliquish.
I can't accept their premise of respecting these people who wanted attention anyway, negative or positive by joining these silly reality tv shows.

You cannot even respect the people you talk to in the forum and you want me to respect people who are getting paid a bunch of money for
having a very public relationship on tv, selling questionable products and showing off cheesy PDA's through twitter, instagram etc.
Not to mention getting preferential treatment in a dance contest even if he looks like a heifer in heels that is ready to give birth to a calf?

Why the hell would I respect these people? They wanted fame through their relationship. They wanted attention so bad that every kiss,
every pose with the dogs, every french braid needed to be instagrammed and twitted for the masses.
They are going to get a free million dollar wedding even if the woman doesn't know if the man's machinery is working and if it
wants to work for its intended purpose. They are not actors, they have no talents, they have no athletic skills good enough for olympics.
Sorry being engaged in a stupid show doesn't warrant admiration from me.

And why the hell would I respect these people if the only good they can motivate their fans to do is to be their attack dogs and
get innocent people like me get banned in forums?

Show me a fanatic who was inspired to behave in a chistian manner (as what the man preaches) just by admiring them, instead
of bullying people to respect them and shush their thoughts and opinions in a forum.. and I'll treat you with a mean heap of banana
split delivered straight to your house.

.And Im soooo tired of that couple. Really, they are so over exposed not even funny but I have a feeling they will milk every financial
opportunity there is, even selling a sack of rice and beans if they have to, before the onslaught of their wedding which will be over the top expensive
and probably enough to pay to feed hungry children in a small third world country.

Just to clarify I didnt attack anyone just didnt follow a rule that wasnt there in the first place. So I didnt know why I was treated shabbily.


I am very happy to see you again Charriot! Welcome back!

[charriotoffire]

For me this board has been a fun escape and, in the past, a place to catch a laugh or two. But I've stopped myself from posting 100 times because it just hasn't felt worth it. Need an example? That peck on the lips that Seancat exchanged at the airport....where were Sean's arms...hands? That's the kiss you get when your wife of 10 years picks you up from the commuter train! I wanted to comment on the photo then and there and then thought...nah....totally not worth the aggravation!

Anyway, Loveme and San are the best mods ever and I give you enormous credit for trying to make this site work for everyone.

The man cannot even let go of his stuff and phone to give the woman who volunteered to be his driver a proper kiss. His idea of passion is
to shove his lizard tongue to someone's face and suffocate her with it. He doesn't do anything with his hands, his body language doesn't say
"I really want you" but, "Im so happy we are both in love with myself"

The woman must have been really enjoying the perks of being his kept woman, as she is the cheerleader, dogwalker, driver, sometimes cook rolled into one.
This is what bugs me, why is he such a catch for this woman? He didnt pay for her engagement ring, he didnt get the elephants as animal props
he surely WILL NOT pay for her wedding gown, wedding ring, or the wedding. And his kissing is like that of a petowner kissing a dog. You do not
kiss a dog with a passion but with tenderness cause he is being a good dog. That's how the man kisses the woman.

He has no real invesment for this woman, except let go of his single blessedness and since he is not sleeping around or having
relationships with any women, its not a huge thing to sacrifice anyway. I'm sure he is relieved to be married finally as nobody would badger
him with 'why do you not want to have sex with any women' questions. If a playboy finally wants to get married, and wants finally
to be a devoted husband and father to only one woman, that is romantic... but a frigid man who barely knows how to kiss wants to get married
for all the WORLD to see, forgive me but it doesn't look romantic, it looks questionable.

This makes me wish Des finds someone who is not phony and fame hungry as the man we are describing above. Nate should ask
her suitors, if they are willing to join contests like DWTS after the engagement, the least interested of them of lingering in the limelight should be the F1.



PS: Hello ceebeedeedum, Want to share my banana split?

[charriotoffire]

I noticed that some fangirl(s) ALREADY pushed the exclamation point, in my post upthread.

Meaning they want me to be banned again. Isnt that very predictable?

You are just proving my point.

I didn't talk about any particular member. Im talking about the fangirls as a whole, generally speaking.


See what I mean, very quick in policing every post here.

I hope whoever you are, you are very proud of what you accomplished today. God bless you.

[charriotoffire]

That's pathetic chariot.... and proves that there is a fangirl problem on this site. :puke:

Beelever's post in this thread, also has exclamation point. I dont know why its offensive to other people. The rules say do not attack any indv. "poster".

If people are talking about "fangirls" and its not you, why would you alert the mods and ask them to ban these posters??

That means you are just proving that what is posted here about the mean behavior of fangirls are correct.


The mods know that I sufferred enough in the hands of these fangirls, and I hope they consider that I am not the problem. They could ban me
but the fangirls will have another pet poster to terrorize and the problem will not stop.

[umngirl]

Forgive me for asking because I honestly don't know, but how does one tell someone has pushed the exclamation point (report button) on one's post? I genuinely thought only the mods could tell you was reporting what posts.

If you are just talking about the fact that there are two exclamation point buttons on your posts, well those are on every post.

[northernviewer]

This feels sooo highschool.... and we're being ostracized for saying bad things about Justin Bieber

[northernviewer]

Forgive me for asking because I honestly don't know, but how does one tell someone has pushed the exclamation point (report button) on one's post? I genuinely thought only the mods could tell you was reporting what posts.

If you are just talking about the fact that there are two exclamation point buttons on your posts, well those are on every post.

One of chariot's posts is red and on the previous page, one of beeleevers is red.

[Peppermom]

That's pathetic chariot.... and proves that there is a fangirl problem on this site. :puke:

Beelever's post in this thread, also has exclamation point. I dont know why its offensive to other people. The rules say do not attack any indv. "poster".

If people are talking about "fangirls" and its not you, why would you alert the mods and ask them to ban these posters??

That means you are just proving that what is posted here about the mean behavior of fangirls are correct.


The mods know that I sufferred enough in the hands of these fangirls, and I hope they consider that I am not the problem. They could ban me
but the fangirls will have another pet poster to terrorize and the problem will not stop.

I've been posting here since the beginning and this is the first time I heard what the exclamation point was for. I didn't push the button. I like to hear what people think. I think the bolded is very telling in this. I read nothing that would indicate any one poster was pointed out. SeanCat, however, :hidingchair They should DUCK! Carry on!

[umngirl]

Forgive me for asking because I honestly don't know, but how does one tell someone has pushed the exclamation point (report button) on one's post? I genuinely thought only the mods could tell you was reporting what posts.

If you are just talking about the fact that there are two exclamation point buttons on your posts, well those are on every post.

One of chariot's posts is red and on the previous page, one of beeleevers is red.

Thanks for the response nv. I never knew those could change colors. Guess you learn something new every day even if you've been here awhile.

And I just want to say to chariot, that although you probably put me in the fan girl category, I've never once thought about reporting a single one of your posts and I never would. I hope you know that not all SeanCat fans are the ones doing this.

[northernviewer]

Like I mentioned earlier umngirl.... there's fans (and we all fall into that category at one time or anther) and then there's fangirls. Polar opposites IMO and painting everybody with the same brush is just as wrong as what some of us are discussing is happening to the board.

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