Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Mar 5th FRC ATFR - #2 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

sanlee088 wrote:It’s kind of sad when everybody (on SM/her girly friends) BUT the broken hearted F1 is trashing Arie and calling him derogatory names. It makes you wonder if she isn’t being nasty towards him because she is just not that kind of girl OR if it’s because she is the next bachelorette. It’s refreshing not to see her bash him like her immature friends who will stop at nothing. JMO Becca is coming out as the best in all of this. IMO

KB_Mom wrote:

pbmax wrote:

SeekAny wrote:Slay Bekah M, slay! There is no need for him to joke with her. I’m sure Lauren is thrilled to see he’s sending “jokes” to Bekah M. He’s such a Slimeball.

She might have been the one that told him to do it. "Go ahead do it "

The stage five clinger who needs reassurance 24\7?? I doubt it.

stuckinsc wrote:

sanlee088 wrote:It’s kind of sad when everybody (on SM/her girly friends) BUT the broken hearted F1 is trashing Arie and calling him derogatory names. It makes you wonder if she isn’t being nasty towards him because she is just not that kind of girl OR if it’s because she is the next bachelorette. It’s refreshing not to see her bash him like her immature friends who will stop at nothing. JMO Becca is coming out as the best in all of this. IMO

JMO, but he deserves it. If Arie had been too in love with Lauren and stayed out of Bekah’s DM then she wouldn’t have anything to show.

Plus as I have said before, I am going to attack you worse for hurting someone I love than for hurting me.

Arie could have broken up in private and not gotten this. Instead he agreed to film it and stayed repeatedly after Becca asked him to leave. 

It will be even worse tomorrow when the general public shows him getting back with Lauren in less than a week.

Arie can enjoy this “fun” and put on his big boy panties. 

All IMO.

Aunties_Love wrote:

SeekAny wrote:The break up was two things, IMO. Arie trying to save face by saying he was honest to Becca and Arie trying to win Lauren back. And its disgusting to me that he used filming a breakup with Becca to do it. There is no way Arie was completely honest with her, or she wouldn’t have walked into a filming like this. She confronted him about the likes on Instagram and he said oh I better talk to her. Please. She handled herself wonderfully in a degrading situation. She held it together until she thought he left. He couldn’tbe respectful enough to just leave. He had to make it about himself. Can I have 2 minutes? Honestly no because you have nothing worthwhile to say.

She should be thankful he did what he did because she will be better off. And she’s right, she’s has a lot of questions but it’s not even worthwhile because he won’t be honest. It will all be another audition to save face and convince Lauren she’s not an idiot for taking him back.

The cheers of the crowd, overwhelming social media support, and most importantly her close friends and family should be all Becca needs to know she won out of all this.

What else was he supposed to do and how else could he of done it.  He was under contract and as the lead, that contract is FAR more binding than say Becca's, so was he supposed to string her along longer till they got to the ATFR then done it while on the couch??  Bottom line, Fleiss owned him and if Fleiss wanted it done one way, that's the way it's gonna be done.  Sorry but that's the game and  what they signed up for.

bleuberry wrote:Becca didn't see the filmed break up coming because she was obviously lied to about what to expect that day. JMO.

Diana wrote:JMHO I keep hearing Becca should of know and that’s definitely true but what does that to do with Arie and his choices?

Just curious because to me her not seeing red flags does not make what Arie did right.

stuckinsc wrote:

sanlee088 wrote:It’s kind of sad when everybody (on SM/her girly friends) BUT the broken hearted F1 is trashing Arie and calling him derogatory names. It makes you wonder if she isn’t being nasty towards him because she is just not that kind of girl OR if it’s because she is the next bachelorette. It’s refreshing not to see her bash him like her immature friends who will stop at nothing. JMO Becca is coming out as the best in all of this. IMO

JMO, but he deserves it. If Arie had been too in love with Lauren and stayed out of Bekah’s DM then she wouldn’t have anything to show.

Plus as I have said before, I am going to attack you worse for hurting someone I love than for hurting me.

Arie could have broken up in private and not gotten this. Instead he agreed to film it and stayed repeatedly after Becca asked him to leave. 

It will be even worse tomorrow when the general public shows him getting back with Lauren in less than a week.

Arie can enjoy this “fun” and put on his big boy panties. 

All IMO.