Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #8

Even after they got engaged and all these stupid ben proposing twice in front of the audience and asking "Mr. Bushnell approval wtf! . Ben is full of himself . Yeah he is perfect ben . I still remember how everyone saying here that benlau are the most real couple coming out on the show that they are so different from the others. They are matured and definitely different class that this franchise produced.But at the end they are just not compromising what is good with them . Jmo

Mgrissom wrote:Something tells me they never mixed money.  One paid or the other for groceries or eating out.  The whole Disney wedding thing was just for the money obviously and I bet they both got a paycheck.  It appears they have not been together since before Christmas.  They might have had some good times and tried to make it work at times, but most of the positive IG posts and being together at Easter were for image reasons imo.

I think they were still trying until recently. Things seemed to be better in March-April and they seemed pretty happy in Portland during Easter judging by Lauren's snaps. Well happy as in not totally miserable and faking it. IMO. I guess Lauren just finally decided it's not worth it and I think it's a good decision. If it's that hard in the beginning, it's not never gonna be the kind of relationship they both deserve. JMO.

I think I will like Lauren better as a single lady. I was pretty judgy of her these past few months, but now that the engagement isn't hanging over her head she can finally be herself. Have fun I say. Anyone see this? Check out @KateCasey's Tweet: https://twitter.com/KateCasey/status/864225008939171841?s=09

LOL ^ that was pretty funny. She should have known then.

Looking back that ATFR has got to be the most OTT lovey dovey stunt TPTB has ever done. Ben really knew how to play his cards right.( besides the 2 ILYs which was pretty mellow even during ATFR)

Has this been posted?
Lauren's side & it's what a lot of people speculated.... Lauren not being truly happy about having to Change everything about her life to please Ben

https://www.google.com/amp/m.eonline.com/amp/news/852240/the-bachelor-s-ben-higgins-and-lauren-bushnell-split-what-went-wrong

Ben, just follow your gut next time when you meet a new girl.
If your gut tells you that girl seems to be too good to be true, that girl probably isn't too good at all.

I wish Ben would meet a genuine sweet girl next time, who really is what she claims to be but not just trying to be perfect in order to win.

Looks like Lauren's camp is talking to E! and Ben's camp is talking to ET. Ben didn't like her partying ways apparently:

http://www.etonline.com/news/217518_ben_higgins_and_lauren_bushnell_break_up_what_went_wrong/

Either we were spot on about what was wrong with these two or E! and ET are just stealing all of our discussions

FMG2015 wrote:Has this been posted?
Lauren's side & it's what a lot of people speculated.... Lauren not being truly happy about having to Change everything about her life to please Ben

https://www.google.com/amp/m.eonline.com/amp/news/852240/the-bachelor-s-ben-higgins-and-lauren-bushnell-split-what-went-wrong

I don't blame her. Ben was coasting along IMO. He was living his old life apart from a hot girl sleeping in his bed.

The most important question: who gets custody of all the comped furniture and home decor they received? How awkward that the comped backyard was just released last week.

Well speaking of that Lauren partying side . I also question why in hell ben is okay with his girl partying so much while being engaged with him ? but again what can she do about it, she is not happy and not loving living in Denver and all these craziness he just did in public to himiliate her .

Ash2214 wrote:Looks like Lauren's camp is talking to E! and Ben's camp is talking to ET. Ben didn't like her partying ways apparently:

http://www.etonline.com/news/217518_ben_higgins_and_lauren_bushnell_break_up_what_went_wrong/

Either we were spot on about what was wrong with these two or E! and ET are just stealing all of our discussions

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Haha! Yeah, these quotes that claim to be from sources close to the couple aren't really revealing anything that hasn't already been speculated here or even in Instagram comments. I don't think either have specifically spoken to E! or ET (yet).