Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #8

Sorry but I don't see them getting back together. JMO.

Linds911 wrote:Sorry but I don't see them getting back together. JMO.

I don't think anyone has even brought that up as a possibility?

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I was a huuuuuge Ben fan. He was my fave Bachelor of them all.  But how he treated Lauren with the public, cancelled wedding kind of killed it for me. HEA really showcased his indecisiveness, his selfishness, his public persona to whitewash it all for interviews. I think it's totally naive to think that public cancelation of the wedding didn't affect Lauren. It's clear as day how devastating that was for her. That was probably the begininning of the end - way back in September. Then watching it play back - just before the Holidays was the nail in the coffin. Truly devastating for her.

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Nobody knows the full story. Even their mess of a show was manufactured to great lengths I'm sure. Neither of them are bad people and will find the right person in time. If it makes people feel better, Ben is being bashed by the weirdos on instagram just as much as Lauren right now. Neither of them deserve it. People can't just wish them luck and go on about their business I guess.  

JMO.

sosleepy wrote:

Linds911 wrote:Sorry but I don't see them getting back together. JMO.

I don't think anyone has even brought that up as a possibility?

The poster above mine mentioned it.

Kind of sad for these two and their fans but yeah, it was a long time coming. I just don't see a friendship between these two and they both seem unable to compromise. When I think of the other Bach couples who are still together (married or not), I can see that they seem bestfriends and that they like to have fun together. I just don't see that with Lauren and Ben.

Hopefully, they both find someone when they're both ready to settle down.

All these are just my opinion.

I think Ben and Lauren are both flawed individuals who deserve  support and a little grace. We are free to say what we please, I understand that, but we don't know anything about these people or their relationship. All we know is what they allow us to see on SM and sometimes what they post can be deceiving. Obviously!

Ben seems like an amazing person IMO. His philanthropy and faith are his winning attributes to me and I don't know, they seem pretty genuine. He could have handled the wedding situation differently but I also think the editing of that God awful show was to blame for that! I honestly do!! I also think lauren is a sweet girl who comes from a good wholesome family, but I think she has some issues for sure. She needs to grow up some and figure out what kind of life she's looking for. If it's lounging on the beach with a mai tai all day then ok but I don't know how far that is gonna get her. That kind of life isn't for me and obviously it wasn't for Ben either.

I'm not judging either one. Like I said, I like them both. They both are good people who just need to work out some stuff, but don't we all? I'm just thankful I don't have to work my stuff out on national television or in front of millions of social media followers! Lol

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I wonder if she took her new vehicle with her or if she left it behind.

Something tells me they never mixed money. One paid or the other for groceries or eating out. The whole Disney wedding thing was just for the money obviously and I bet they both got a paycheck. It appears they have not been together since before Christmas. They might have had some good times and tried to make it work at times, but most of the positive IG posts and being together at Easter were for image reasons imo.

Ben retweeted his own tweet today of that Bible passage he posted on May 1Oth. I can't help but laugh when people retweet their own freaking tweets.

  You can't host a Disney special and be all lovey dove, in love, happy and engaged and be taken seriously when your fans know you haven't been in the same place at the same time in days or months.
JMo