Re: Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #8

by hannah.e. Sat May 13, 2017 11:37 pm

Mommyof2 wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/BUBRt0hDHrg/?hl=en

Yep, she's single. Jmo.

It's posts like that, when she KNOWS people are talking..she makes it worse. I'd expect/hope these two have a kind?? breakup..but I find this insensitive IMO. Ben on the other hand I think has more respect. It's indirect shade IMO. I find Lauren to be very passive aggressive.

by Cocoasneeze Sat May 13, 2017 11:43 pm

simon1781 wrote:The most mind boggling and chitty thing that Ben did during that intense therapy session was the mind game he was playing . Let alone Lauren , most probably the viewers were confused too. He calls off the wedding because he believed they still didn't know each other well enough to walk down the aisle and he could have simply stopped there , but nope the perfect Ben had to give another of his false hope to Lauren about how he won't ever let her go and he will definitely be her husband blah blah blah. At one hand he is not ready because they still have a lot to learn about each other and on other hand he knows she was the one. Hello, dude , if you dont know Lauren well enough than how can you promise her and be sure that you will be her husband . That was the cruelest thing he could do . If it was me , I would have dumped his azz right there and then.

Ita. And he still is doing this, or was until a few weeks ago. He still kept talking about marriage and getting married to Lauren in interviews. How insulting, IMO. Imo he's unable to hold himself accountable for his own actions, and will do and say anything to keep him at the public's good graces. Imo the public announcement will be civil, but Ben will have the tppb program machine behind him, and he's Imo very passive aggressive (let's not forget how he used his Bach blog to drag Jubilee after dumping her) and it'll show.

I doubt Lauren will do bip or any other Bach shows, tppb will work hard to get Ben again as the lead, though. Unless he gets back with his ex, he might be persuaded, IMO.

by Mommyof2 Sat May 13, 2017 11:44 pm

Looks like she was out partying again. I had to laugh at one of the comments...I always dress like that when I go to Chick-fil-A! laugh out loud

by Ladybug82 Sat May 13, 2017 11:54 pm

IMO, these two both equally enjoy the spotlight and attention. So IMO, I don't think either would turn down an opportunity to do BIP.

I mean do you think she'd really turn down another paid beach vacation? Just tell her to pack her bikinis, play some music, hand her a drink and Lauren will be right in her comfort zone. As for him, tell him he'll be on camera again and he'll jump at the chance IMO.

JMO

by mindless Sat May 13, 2017 11:57 pm

I agree that they're both immature in their own ways, but then again maybe it's just being with the wrong person that's bringing out the worst in them. If they don't really understand each other or each other's needs then it's bound to be a mess. I still feel like Ben's issues are more deep-seated though. He needs to show up and be himself fully instead of hiding behind this perfect veneer. Lauren gets called fake, yet if she was she wouldn't be partying with her friends on a regular basis, she'd be sitting in that little house in Denver being the perfect little housewife while dying on the inside. JMO.

by Ash2214 Sat May 13, 2017 11:59 pm

My gosh, is this how Lauren was dancing in Diplo's Snapchat? Squatting on the ground, in a dress, with her legs open?

https://twitter.com/nathanielhoang/status/863545630781652992

You do you, Lauren laugh out loud

by Guest Sun May 14, 2017 12:01 am

@Ash2214 there is some problems, no, no and was she drinking? that is not healthy. sad

by sweeti810 Sun May 14, 2017 12:03 am

IMO, no way Ben would do BIP, but I could easily see Lauren doing it because she would have everything she needs...beach, booze, besties.

by Mommyof2 Sun May 14, 2017 12:07 am

Yep, that would be her. Ben must be cringing right about now. Rolling Eyes

by Guest Sun May 14, 2017 12:10 am

Mommyof2 wrote:https://www.instagram.com/p/BUBRt0hDHrg/?hl=en

Yep, she's single. Jmo.

Congrats to Lauren, if they really are done.
She can finally be herself now - city single party girl style!!

Ben has his issues, but I think part of the reasons of this imo failing relationship is that, Lauren has been hiding her true identity/color since Meet & Greet. IMO, if Ben knows this party cray side of her, she would be gone before F6.

by Cocoasneeze Sun May 14, 2017 12:22 am

Imo Lauren never hid herself on the show. She openly has said, that she drank a lot in the Bach mansion. Jmo

by Guest Sun May 14, 2017 12:29 am

But I guess she didn't mention she would dance in bikini on the street after she got drunk right? laugh out loud

And I think she never mention she seems to love that life style.

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