Re: Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #6

by Cila51290 Wed Feb 15, 2017 12:49 pm

@Simon21 Ben is very well capable of showing PDA captions he just chooses not to now. Here are some

"She glows with beauty inside out"
https://www.instagram.com/p/BF7k4AUmy2a/?taken-by=higgins.ben

"How can anyone not love her"
https://www.instagram.com/p/BGPUjUXmy1I/?taken-by=higgins.ben

If this wall could talk it would say "dang that girl is beautiful"
https://www.instagram.com/p/BFLErKzGy8f/?taken-by=higgins.ben

by Alanna Wed Feb 15, 2017 12:51 pm

Every man is capable with the right woman IMO. Even the seemingly coldest, most unromantic dude ever can be inspired when the right one walks into his life, and IMO that's not the case with these two individuals.

by Guest Wed Feb 15, 2017 1:00 pm

Cila51290 wrote:@Simon21 Ben is very well capable of showing PDA captions he just chooses not to now. Here are some

"She glows with beauty inside out"
https://www.instagram.com/p/BF7k4AUmy2a/?taken-by=higgins.ben

"How can anyone not love her"
https://www.instagram.com/p/BGPUjUXmy1I/?taken-by=higgins.ben

If this wall could talk it would say "dang that girl is beautiful"
https://www.instagram.com/p/BFLErKzGy8f/?taken-by=higgins.ben

as we can see those are all one liners. IMO He has never been the one to go over board with lengthy paragraph caption declaring his love . He always choose to stick with one liner most of the time , even when they were on the peak of their relationship IMO. Now when they are not at the best phase of their relationship , I don't see any harm in choosing not go to over sappy. And in all those instagram post you kindly tagged here, they always get negative feedback of either disagreeing with him or calling them fake , maybe they got tired of it so just stopped posting it ??After all they are humans and at some point you are bound to get frustrated .JMHO

by bleuberry Wed Feb 15, 2017 1:19 pm

I agree, Ben's captions have been like this for as long as I can remember. 'How can anyone not love her' or any of those examples aren't really romantic either IMO laugh out loud

. I think this is just him.

by aviej Wed Feb 15, 2017 1:22 pm

I think the issue is more so the content of the post rather than its length, IMO.

by Cila51290 Wed Feb 15, 2017 1:25 pm

At least he used some verbs and adjectives back then. Now it's just all too politically correct. JMO

by bleuberry Wed Feb 15, 2017 1:28 pm

I agree. I just don't think he's ever been good with words or SM captions. It does sound forced, meh, blah. No real emotion.

by AllAboutLove Wed Feb 15, 2017 2:02 pm

Meh. I think romance is the least indicator of a healthy relationship, IMO. I'd take loyalty over romance any day.

by Ash2214 Wed Feb 15, 2017 2:23 pm

Yeah, I would take loyalty over romance too, but as a woman, I like the occasional public display of affection. It's nice to have both in a relationship IMO.

In terms of being loyal, Ben wasn't that loyal to her in both of their reality television shows since he threw her under the bus for the shows, so hopefully he's working on that behind closed doors. JMO

by ReneeM Wed Feb 15, 2017 2:30 pm

Ash2214 wrote:Yeah, I would take loyalty over romance too, but as a woman, I like the occasional public display of affection. It's nice to have both in a relationship IMO.

In terms of being loyal, Ben wasn't that loyal to her in both of their reality television shows since he threw her under the bus for the shows, so hopefully he's working on that behind closed doors. JMO

by AllAboutLove Wed Feb 15, 2017 2:38 pm

I dunno. I've seen plenty of PDA couples that crash and burn and and guys that wax poetic and lyrical can be total players.

Also, I hardly think that finding "the one" means that a guy will become romantic and if he doesn't then it means the woman he is with is not the one. That to me is just romantic fiction.

With Ben and Lauren, outside of "reality" tv shows, they seem to be doing their own thing and while they certainly like all couples will have their ups and down, they seem to be okay, IMO, and doing things on their terms which is what matters most, IMO. Again, whatever works for them.

JMO

by Lennoxcolinrolland Wed Feb 15, 2017 2:40 pm

Ben didn't throw her UNDER the bus, he threw her IN FRONT of the bus. Continously. I'm surprised she's "alive" TBH.

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