JoJo Fletcher - Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - Discussion

I refuse to change my mind about dancing with the stars! I don't personally feel like Jordan is good enough for Jojo, although how she feels is more important, and I want her to get something out of all of this and Jordan feels like the gag gift he brought her family. Cheap, goofy and disposable. As to this Instagram post it is nothing she didn't already inform us of although this time she added some proof. Those that think he cheated didn't need this proof those that don't also don't need this proof. She's not going to change anyone's mind in my opinion. I feel badly for her because she is still hurting all these years later. I feel badly for Jojojo because they deserve some honeymoon time. Did she really need to hurt him like this? I find no happiness in this situation. Someone just message me when she's announced her dance partner please?

^^Yes, IA. She even stated she was including text messages from while they were together, as well as text messages after they had broken up.m

If she does end up doing it (yay more fashion!), who would you all want her partner to be? Lets try this againnnn

Let her tell her story since he told his. Peple can bash her now because it is norm to bash the girl and give the man a pass. The truth always comes out and karma sure is a b! Time will tell and show the world what kind of person Joedan really is.

MHO

JoJo was at a live DWTS show before the bachelorette started airing. Have any other female leads gone to a live DWTS show before their season 2?

Well the harsh comments were perpetrated by Britt.
Cause and effect. Kabala . No sympathy here. 

see2love wrote:Let her tell her story since he told his. Peple can bash her now because it is norm to bash the girl and give the man a pass. The truth always comes out and karma sure is a b! Time will tell and show the world what kind of person Joedan really is.

MHO

I do not know this for a fact... I still think she must have gotten paid to post this on Instagram. Why else would she do this? If she was paid I hope it was a lot of money. I agree women get to tell their side. She did that earlier, but this looks like an unwell woman, not a emotionally healthy woman. We want our daughters to pick themselves up and go on. The ability to pick yourself up from a toxic relationship is an important skill. A toxic relationship does not mean that both or one or the other are unhealthy, but that the time of life or mix of personalities is not a good fit. I want good things for her in the future but this is not a path a strong woman with good self esteem takes.

I lied. The best comment I've seen so far on the picture is one that tells Brittany she should read Andi's book to get advice on how to let someone go.

Eviebloom wrote:

see2love wrote:Let her tell her story since he told his. Peple can bash her now because it is norm to bash the girl and give the man a pass. The truth always comes out and karma sure is a b! Time will tell and show the world what kind of person Joedan really is.

MHO

I do not know this for a fact... I still think she must have gotten paid to post this on Instagram.  Why else would she do this?  If she was paid I hope it was a lot of money.  I agree women get to tell their side.  She did that earlier, but this looks like an unwell woman, not a emotionally healthy woman.  We want our daughters to pick themselves up and go on.  The ability to pick yourself up from a toxic relationship is an important skill.  A toxic relationship does not mean that both or one or the other are unhealthy, but that the time of life or mix of personalities is not a good fit.  I want good things for her in the future but this is not a path a strong woman with good self esteem takes.  

How is she unwell? Her post explained to me why she did it. Jordan made her to be a liar and it was affecting how people were treating her and her family members so she came out with her story.
Jordan seems to be the sick one in my books.
I would tell my daughter to tell her truth when she feels like it is the right time. As long as she is speaking the truth, my daughter would have my support. MHO

Aside from Jordan and Brittany's circle, no one would have known who he was referring to when he said football made it tough for him to have a good relationship (something to that effect) and that he wasn't as good a bf as he should've been. Brittany wanted everyone to know who she was, so she put out that first sm post, including in it some demeaning things about him.

Now this. I haven't read every word of their post show interviews, but from what I've seen he and Jojo have commented on how hard it was dealing with all the lies, but didn't refer to her, just made it a general thing about the media and sm h8ters. Which means, imo, that B's new post shows her to be either seeking attention or bitter that he found someone new and they are high profile.

She is looking very MeAndi-ish.

From People Magazine...

Jordan Rodgers' Ex-Girlfriend Slams Bachelorette Winner as 'Prolific Liar and Cheater,' Shares 'Receipts' of Alleged Infidelity

Jordan Rodgers' reported ex-girlfriend Brittany Farrar has once again accused the Bachelorette winner of cheating.

Farrar, a trainer based in Nashville, previously alleged Rodgers had on cheated on her when JoJo Fletcher's season of the reality show premiered in May. Rodgers has repeatedly denied the allegations.

On Thursday night, almost three weeks after Rodgers, 27, and Fletcher, 25, went public with their engagement after the season finale aired, Farrar took to Instagram to slam Rodgers in a two-part post, the second of which has since been deleted.

In her first post, Farrar shared a lengthy open letter about Rodgers, slamming the former professional football player for going on "one of the most popular reality shows on TV" and allegedly lying about their relationship.

"That's when I wrote my first post about him. I was hoping that would be the first and the last, but then the show ends (Hey, you're finally a winner!) and he starts calling me a liar," she wrote. "With the power of a press tour, his lies reached our hometown and my family and friends are now constantly approached by mutual acquaintances. After weeks of this, I started wondering why I feel like I'm the one who should be silent when he was the one who jumped on a reality show hoping to catch fame as a last ditch attempt to make something of himself."

Farrar went on to claim that since the show ended, Rodgers has "been busy trying to push out new headlines casting himself in the role of the victim."

"In every interview, he's talked about cheating rumors being 'really harsh and very untrue' and how 'hurtful' it's been to talk about his family drama, completely ignoring the fact that the world was oblivious to these issues until he put it out there," she wrote.

She continued: "You're wondering why there isn't a flood of positivity around your engagement? Maybe it's because your recent fame is built on you tearing down people and rewriting the truth to fit your storyline."

"I'm laying it all out there because I don't want to do this again," she added. "Unlike Jordan, I'm not desperate to stay in the spotlight."

Farrar also fired shots at Rodgers in her caption to the post: "After our breakup, I was surprised to find out what a prolific liar and cheater #JordanRodgers was during our entire 3 1/2 year-relationship. But what has surprised me even more is how he has carelessly bashed and lied about me in public. I guess he thought I wouldn't stand up for myself. #HeWasWrong."

In a second post that has since been deleted, Farrar shared a video slideshow which included a receipt for a bouquet of flowers allegedly purchased by Rodgers for another woman, as well as screenshots of alleged texts between Farrar and Rodgers from the same time.

Screenshots of Farrar's post were obtained by fans on Twitter.

In the screenshots, the receipt appears to include a message which was to be delivered with the flowers that reads: "Happy Birthday To My Favorite Bella. Miss You. Can't Wait To See That Beautiful Smile Again. From, Your Favorite Football Player Wanna Be Actor."

Though Farrar didn't name the woman she alleges Rodgers was involved with, she claimed he met her while filming Pitch Perfect 2. The Barden Bellas are the female a cappella group featured in the Pitch Perfect franchise.

"The Original Rose: The receipt for a giant bouquet of roses Jordan bought for the girl he cheated on me with in Louisiana. (The first of many I would later find out about,)" Farrar wrote. "He met her while shooting Pitch Perfect 2 (he was deep in the background pretending to be one of the Green Bay Packers – the closest he's ever been to making an NFL team)."

"I've included screenshots of texts with dates to show we were a couple when he bought his favorite Bella some very special roses," she added. "And also one of the many, many texts he sent after we broke up."

"Jordan, you dragged our relationship into the spotlight, and then challenged my honesty and character," Farrar continued. "If you weren't ready to be truthful about your life then you shouldn't have gone on a reality show. And if you don't like having your integrity questioned, you shouldn't have lied about someone who's parents always taught her to stand up for herself."

In his recent exclusive PEOPLE cover interview with his fiancée Fletcher, Rodgers said the rumors that plagued him throughout the season were "awful."

"It hurts because judgment and integrity are things that you build and try to maintain over a lifetime, and it just takes one person [saying something] out of malice that makes news," Rodgers told PEOPLE.

Rodgers, who played football professionally himself and whose older brother is Green Pay Backers quarterback Aaron Rodgers, said "everyone likes to categorize professional athletes."

"For someone who plays quarterback, let alone has the name recognition, it's something I'm always fighting every step of the way," he continued. "My entire life and career has been an uphill battle. I lived in 13 houses growing up. We never owned a house; we didn't have money. So when people say I'm entitled, that's not at all true. It's tough when people who don't know me assume that they do."

Still Rodgers' focus is on "just being myself," he said. "I definitely wasn't on the show for fame. My goal every step of the way was to be open and honest with JoJo and let myself fall in love."

As for Fletcher, she's doing her best to distance herself from the rumors as well.

"As far as what exes say, I have learned to take that with a grain of salt from personal experience," she told reporters during a press call earlier this month. "Jordan has never given me a reason to not trust him."

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"Jordan has never given me a reason to not trust him." I'm sure he never gave Brittany one either until you know... he cheated.