The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - F1-F4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Jojo is so much likeable than Kaitlyn IMO!

I couldn't agree with you more!

Jordan being the F1 thats if he even is, is so predictable. Out of all those men JoJo just had to choose the semi famous guy.  It just screams agenda and a predictable boring finale. I guess Jordan will fit right in with Eva Longoria at their dinner table.  

Don't know if this should be posted here or not but...........Chad, JoJo's ex, posted a picture of IG with a group of people and his new gf. She looks like JoJo.

IMO JoJo said what most past leads and f1's have said in regards to settling down. She said she didn't want a super long engagement but that she wanted that next year to spend normal life with her f1 because this experience is so crazy (Aka: rushed.) She also said she wasn't in a rush to have kids because she's only 25 and wants to spend a couple of years with her f1 to enjoy life. But that if kids happened soon, they happened soon. She said she was just going to take it one step at a time.

^ Sounds like what most of these folk say every season IMO, minus the only being 25 part  

I don't think expectations should ever be wanting the lead to grow old with someone, because when does that ever happen? When has that happened in the first place? All of the married couples are still considered newly married in my mind, not even 10 years. Minus Trista and Ryan of course. If they're still married 20 years from now....then okay. But a lot of marriages are dropping like flies now a days. A lot of people can't even make it past the 5 year mark, let alone the 10 year mark. It's mind boggling. IMO.

babs wrote:Don't know if this should be posted here or not but...........Chad, JoJo's ex, posted a picture of IG with a group of people and his new gf.  She looks like JoJo.

Not allowed. His IG is private, last I checked at least.

Nonina430 wrote:

julychild wrote:I didn't get the impression that she wants  A Ben, but a good guy, who will respect her, Like Ben.

If memory serves, Des said the same thing about Sean and her experience with him. She talked about now "knowing what she deserves."

Please, she would die of boredom, esp now that she's been with Jordan and Robby. Can't wait
to see this trio on my screen. 

Yeah, Ben bored the crap out of me. Even Lauren hasn't managed to make it two weeks in a row in Denver with Ben and he is the love of her life. JoJo wanting a little excitement at 25 is okay with me.

Cila51290 wrote:Jordan being the F1 thats if he even is, is so predictable. Out of all those men JoJo just had to choose the semi famous guy.  It just screams agenda and a predictable boring finale. I guess Jordan will fit right in with Eva Longoria at their dinner table.  

Eva did not date Ben, she was with Ernesto from the show. She was her producer, but I don't think she hangs out at Sunday dinner. JMO.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

babs wrote:Don't know if this should be posted here or not but...........Chad, JoJo's ex, posted a picture of IG with a group of people and his new gf.  She looks like JoJo.

Not allowed. His IG is private, last I checked at least.

Unless it just recently was set to private then it's public. I know I never requested to follow him.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:IMO JoJo said what most past leads and f1's have said in regards to settling down. She said she didn't want a super long engagement but that she wanted that next year to spend normal life with her f1 because this experience is so crazy (Aka: rushed.) She also said she wasn't in a rush to have kids because she's only 25 and wants to spend a couple of years with her f1 to enjoy life. But that if kids happened soon, they happened soon. She said she was just going to take it one step at a time.

^ Sounds like what most of these folk say every season IMO, minus the only being 25 part  

I don't think expectations should ever be wanting the lead to grow old with someone, because when does that ever happen? When has that happened in the first place? All of the married couples are still considered newly married in my mind, not even 10 years. Minus Trista and Ryan of course. If they're still married 20 years from now....then okay. But a lot of marriages are dropping like flies now a days. A lot of people can't even make it past the 5 year mark, let alone the 10 year mark. It's mind boggling. IMO.

Yes, it's not like she said she still wants to play the field. She simply said she's not looking to get married and start popping out offspring in the next year or two. That doesn't mean she doesn't want to find the guy she eventually hopes to do that with. I think most people start looking long before they're ready to get married. You don't usually marry your spouse within months of meeting them, not in this day and age anyway. You meet, you date a year or two or several, get engaged and marry a year or two after that. This isn't some mail order groom situation just because there's an engagement involved.

Fans always expect the couple to get married soon after the ATFR and if they don't the rumors start that they aren't going to last. I think it's smart, in most cases, for the couple to take their time and build a good solid relationship before marriage.

I take it from the article that Jojo is smart, real and is serious about it..
Rushing into marriage after a speedy engagement on reality TV would be foolish.
So taking time is the best way to go IMO, and I am relieved to hear that Jojo has this smart approach.

sde1041 wrote:I take it from the article that Jojo is smart, real and is serious about it..
Rushing into marriage after a speedy engagement on reality TV would be foolish.
So taking time is the best way to go IMO, and I am relieved to hear that Jojo has this smart approach.

Yes!

I'm sorry... I haven't really been following JoJo's interviews yet. Reading here I'm getting the impression she's actually telling people she has a F1? That's different. Usually at this point the lead is still "wait and see what happens."