Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

GuardianAngel wrote:Who said they were fighting? or are we speculating that they were fighting?

I did not see any fighting or crying in the short video? Was there a video that had crying. I saw some serious talking, but that is normal.

GuardianAngel wrote:Who said they were fighting? or are we speculating that they were fighting?

IMO it's pretty much speculation on what it was that they were talking about in the car. For me though - in retrospect - I think that little ... whatever it was ... was one of the most positive things I've seen from the two of them since filming ended.

Relationships are full of bumps in the road; life is full of bumps in the road. It's not how smooth a road you travel - it's how you deal with the inevitable bumps that counts. So - maybe they had a bump - and took the time right then and there to work through it. I say hooray for them to deal with whatever they felt they needed to deal with then and there. Unfortunate they got photographed doing it, but very fortunate that they dealt with it. That's what makes a couple strong.

Eviebloom wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:Who said they were fighting? or are we speculating that they were fighting?

I did not see any fighting or crying in the short video?  Was there a video that had crying.  I saw some serious talking, but that is normal.  

All I saw was they sat in Home Depot parking lot for about 30 mins having a serious discussion with some eye covering. Lauren touched Bens shoulder once. Once they were done talking they went in store looking happy.

GuardianAngel wrote:Who said they were fighting? or are we speculating that they were fighting?

Just speculating. Have you seen the video, GA? I'd love to know what your take is on it.  To me it looks like they had a little difference of opinion in the car, and then were fine in HD. Again, JMO, from seeing the video.

Sorry for the confusion, I was relating about my hubby and I having a big fight in Home Depot, didn't mean to imply that they were having a big fight.

Here is a video from ET but it's a different from what they showed tonight

http://www.etonline.com/media/video/inside_bachelor_ben_higgins_new_life_with_lauren_bushnell_denver_they_are_both_so_in_love-186104/?viewFull=true

AmoreBella wrote:Here is a video from ET but it's a different from what they showed tonight

http://www.etonline.com/media/video/inside_bachelor_ben_higgins_new_life_with_lauren_bushnell_denver_they_are_both_so_in_love-186104/?viewFull=true

Thank you Amore. Tense maybe but not necessarily a fight IMO.

I think the person narrating the vid saying "visibly upset" which I don't think they were makes it sound worse than it is.

My initial instinct, they are trying to have a conversation and they know they are being watched. He has his back to the window, and she keeps trying to pull the cap down. Again when they are getting out of the car, Ben is frowning, Lauren is looking down. IMO it's a look of frustration because they are out and about doing normal things and they still are being watched.

Whether they can't agree on paint colour, or pap's bugging them, they are walking arm in arm into Home Depot. They have posted some lovey dovey SM since then. I went back to her "Whattt??" tweet and I can't find it. I wanted to read what the poster said to her. I think the first person that asked her about the ET preview made a bigger deal that what the ET preview actual was all about and it snowballed from there. JMHO.

Truth is we will never know what the conversation was about. IMO it could even be social media related. I don't know if the look at all the comments, which some are so rude and disrespectful and on every picture. Also, people still tag them in pictures of Jojo. I think even the strongest people would at some point be affected by all this, especially when it is done often. Again, this is all my opinion. But overall they have been gracious and very happy.

This was the original tweet to Lauren in which she replied "say whattttt?"

Kim Gilman
Apr 4
Kim Gilman ‏@KimGilman2
@LaurenBushnell3 please tell me it isn't true what ET is saying about the two of you splitting up.

ForeverLove wrote:

AmoreBella wrote:Here is a video from ET but it's a different from what they showed tonight

http://www.etonline.com/media/video/inside_bachelor_ben_higgins_new_life_with_lauren_bushnell_denver_they_are_both_so_in_love-186104/?viewFull=true

Thank you Amore. Tense maybe but not necessarily a fight IMO.

Well that is different from what they showed on ET tonight. Thanks. Wonder why they changed it, or was it just shortened?? They didn't show about the elevator or Ben jogging or Lauren shopping alone, or some other things, they showed them in the car talking animated longer.

A little bit harassment they still followed them around probably seeking for some "hot" topic (mostly break up) to write about. True they signed up for this but they still deserve personal space. Being followed around can be tough for both of them And puts a lot of pressure In people nobody should Have to deal with that. Lauren and Ben might stressed out because of that so they communicated or having sort of intense convo beyond what us could handle.

Jmho

Georgia Lindsay wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:

AmoreBella wrote:Here is a video from ET but it's a different from what they showed tonight

http://www.etonline.com/media/video/inside_bachelor_ben_higgins_new_life_with_lauren_bushnell_denver_they_are_both_so_in_love-186104/?viewFull=true

Thank you Amore. Tense maybe but not necessarily a fight IMO.

Well that is different from what they showed on ET tonight. Thanks. Wonder why they changed it, or was it just shortened?? They didn't show about the elevator or Ben jogging or Lauren shopping alone, or some other things, they showed them in the car talking animated longer.

Where can i see the full video