Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

Georgia Lindsay wrote:It just aired for me, lead off story. Some much was made out of nothing! , then they went arms around each into the Home Depot, looking at paint colors. Maybe Ben needed a big push to change his bachelor pad into different colors or who's knows what, but it ended with a source saying they are fine, etc.  

I'd love to know who took that video of them, and  that pic. of shirtless Ben. I wonder if BenLo knew they were being followed?

OR, maybe Lauren just got her period

Also when they were in the car Lauren put her hand on the side of his face or shoulder. Ben's mom did say he can get intense at times and Lauren would need to be patient. I am just glad all is well like we all thought anyway. I hope someone can video it for us and bring it over.

If any one finds a link to the piece could you put up a link? I missed the segment

nannymargie wrote:

Georgia Lindsay wrote:It just aired for me, lead off story. Some much was made out of nothing! , then they went arms around each into the Home Depot, looking at paint colors. Maybe Ben needed a big push to change his bachelor pad into different colors or who's knows what, but it ended with a source saying they are fine, etc.  

I'd love to know who took that video of them, and  that pic. of shirtless Ben. I wonder if BenLo knew they were being followed?

OR, maybe Lauren just got her period

Also when they were in the car Lauren put her hand on the side of his face or shoulder.  Ben's mom did say he can get intense at times and Lauren would need to be patient.  I am just glad all is well like we all thought anyway.    I hope someone can video it for us and bring it over.

Seeing as Lauren is carrying a sander, they may have quibbled over that, in that Lauren knew the furniture needed to be sanded first and then painted ~ perhaps Ben just wanted to 'save money' and said let's just paint over it, so they both were frustrated. Lauren is right, if they just painted over it, it will bubble up and look cheap. JMO, I have no idea, just a thought, it had to be something to do with them going to Home Depot to get stuff for the house.

Ben's tweet that night about being happy with Lauren makes sooooooo much more sense now. Just being pictured and followed like that is enough stress for anyone.

I just watched the ET bit with my husband.  As someone pretty detached from this couple, he was  the whole time about the mountain they made out of a molehill. Ohhhhh... They fought and made up. What a news story.

They've had an intense 5-7 months. Lots of life changes, lots of excitement and happy things, but with that comes life stressors too. On top of that, they've been together non stop for over three weeks, much of that time with in laws and family. That's also stressful. Ben said he didn't know how life would look like with Lauren through hard times and he didn't know how they would fight. I'm sure he knows now. Fighting- as long as you communicate and work through it, can actually be very healthy for a couple. Obviously whatever they are dealing with can't be that serious, or they wouldn't be with family for round #2. Still together. Watching basketball and giving back rubs or whatever.

^^^^We have no idea how they are communicating. Maybe they are dealing with it maybe not. Just being realistic. They fight just like any other couple and like I said earlier, they have a long way to go. jmho I have hope they will figure it out but this is the true test...real life. I wish them the best.

Georgia Lindsay wrote:It just aired for me, lead off story. Some much was made out of nothing! , then they went arms around each into the Home Depot, looking at paint colors. Maybe Ben needed a big push to change his bachelor pad into different colors or who's knows what, but it ended with a source saying they are fine, etc.  

I'd love to know who took that video of them, and  that pic. of shirtless Ben. I wonder if BenLo knew they were being followed?

OR, maybe Lauren just got her period

The bold one   But Menstrual cycle sometimes did becomes emotional ordeal for some women. Maybe Lauren's much more sensitive or cry easily

stuckinsc wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Yeah, that was my takeaway. Whatever it was about, they stayed in their car for 30 minutes and COMMUNICATED and talked it out and left the car full of PDA and obviously had reached a resolution. The "sources" ET came up with said they are the real deal and are gonna make it. So in the end, it's a positive story.

They honestly just need the third part of their triangle (aka JoJo) to start airing her journey, and by next July, Jo and new guy will come to their rescue and take a lot of this scrutiny off them.

As long as they have lots of SM followers and actively post, things will keep happening. Just like K&S. And just like K&S most of it won't mean much.

Agree.

Well, the biggest fight my dear hubby and I ever had was at Home Depot, with him wanting a riding lawnmower for less than an acre of grass. We were yelling so loud at each other, the customer service guy asked if he could help, . If we didn't divorce after than one, I think we are good.  

soccermom333 wrote:^^^^We have no idea how they are communicating.  Maybe they are dealing with it maybe not.  Just being realistic.  They fight just like any other couple and like I said earlier, they have a long way to go.  jmho  I have hope they will figure it out but this is the true test...real life.  I wish them the best.  

I agree with you. You don't really know unless you are in the relationship. That goes for all of these couples, even the married ones. Doesn't just apply to B&L.

It's worth to fight Georgia.. The strongest relationship are thick wit arguments. It means your love and relationship can survive from anything. On another note, There's nothing to worry about BenLo as far as my concern.

dyra wrote:It's worth to fight Georgia.. The strongest relationship are thick wit arguments. It means your love and relationship can survive from anything. On another note, There's nothing to worry about BenLo as far as my concern.

Agree, Dyra. Well, I won by telling him that he could get a riding lawnmower when he turns 50, , since he's only 35, we'll deal with that again at a later date. He just wanted a toy to ride around the yard, I mean, he has a power lawnmower for 3/4 acre.

I agree about Lauren and Ben, I expect a marriage and I usually don't with this show!!

Who said they were fighting? or are we speculating that they were fighting?