Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

But shirtless Ben tho, haven't seen that for a while 





http://m.etonline.com/news/186096_inside_ben_higgins_and_lauren_bushnell_sweet_life_denver/

sosleepy wrote:Yeah, that was my takeaway. Whatever it was about, they stayed in their car for 30 minutes and COMMUNICATED and talked it out and left the car full of PDA and obviously had reached a resolution. The "sources" ET came up with said they are the real deal and are gonna make it. So in the end, it's a positive story.

They honestly just need the third part of their triangle (aka JoJo) to start airing her journey, and by next July, Jo and new guy will come to their rescue and take a lot of this scrutiny off them.

Even when JoJo's season starts they will still get all this scrutiny. K&S are still dealing with it even with Ben's season long over. Don't be surprised if a source comes out like Leah being the new JJ

I can't imagine Lauren all excited to go back to her job of flight attendant....it going to be a nightmare with fans and the pap.

Ehhh--imo--it matters not. In almost 37 yrs of marriage I think I have told the man sharing those years with me to EFF off a few times, shed tears, laffed to tears and yelled a few hell yeses.
As I say to all of them: Let them be happy and healthy. Enjoy the ride.

Kashathediva wrote:Ehhh--imo--it matters not. In almost 37 yrs of marriage I think I have told the man sharing those years with me to EFF off a few times, shed tears, laffed to tears and yelled a few hell yeses.
As I say to all of them: Let them be happy and healthy. Enjoy the ride.

Sage advice

dyra wrote:But shirtless Ben tho, haven't seen that for a while 





http://m.etonline.com/news/186096_inside_ben_higgins_and_lauren_bushnell_sweet_life_denver/

I like Ben's bod. Not all steroid muscle massed out like some I saw in another thread.

Linds911 wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Yeah, that was my takeaway. Whatever it was about, they stayed in their car for 30 minutes and COMMUNICATED and talked it out and left the car full of PDA and obviously had reached a resolution. The "sources" ET came up with said they are the real deal and are gonna make it. So in the end, it's a positive story.

They honestly just need the third part of their triangle (aka JoJo) to start airing her journey, and by next July, Jo and new guy will come to their rescue and take a lot of this scrutiny off them.

Even when JoJo's season starts they will still get all this scrutiny. K&S are still dealing with it even with Ben's season long over. Don't be surprised if a source comes out like Leah being the new JJ

Linds, jinx!

It's interesting that it was that night that Ben tweeted about contrary to popular belief... I'm very happy sitting on a couch with Lauren. It seems like paps knew they were at the cooking school and then followed them after. That in itself could have very well upset Lauren. Seems like that is what bothered them the most.

Overall it's a positive message. Cracks me up that Ben took his shirt off to unload the car. Did Lauren tell him to give them what they want when they saw the photogs had followed them home too.

stuckinsc wrote:

Linds911 wrote:

sosleepy wrote:Yeah, that was my takeaway. Whatever it was about, they stayed in their car for 30 minutes and COMMUNICATED and talked it out and left the car full of PDA and obviously had reached a resolution. The "sources" ET came up with said they are the real deal and are gonna make it. So in the end, it's a positive story.

They honestly just need the third part of their triangle (aka JoJo) to start airing her journey, and by next July, Jo and new guy will come to their rescue and take a lot of this scrutiny off them.

Even when JoJo's season starts they will still get all this scrutiny. K&S are still dealing with it even with Ben's season long over. Don't be surprised if a source comes out like Leah being the new JJ

Linds, jinx!

I read your post after but you said it better then me!

The fandom making a big deal out of a mole hill. Of course it happens every season. Some fans that are stressing over every little fight because of this show's relationship success (or better yet failure) rate while some who didn't like the couple to come out of the show are fueling the paranoia. Happens every season!

But I love how normal they are going to Home Depot. I'm sure they are smart people and they know they are being watched every single time. But they can't live their lives thinking "oh let's not fight in the car because people might see us." That will drive them nuts.

As Lauren indicated, during the show, she was aware of her surroundings all the time but still stayed true to herself to make it work. Official cameras may be gone but everyone has a phone to take photos. They know they get photographed everywhere by random people so they have to stay the course and live their lives as normal as possible even when it's so abnormal that someone will take your pic while having a private fight or conversation.

They are a couple and if they are a reall couple, they will fight. It's how they deal with it that matters. They stayed in the car for half an hour and talked it out. The, they came out of the car with their arms around each other. That's a couple that works things out.

I remember Ben's mom saying he gets intense. He's an only child and he's been single for a while so he's used to just being independent and deciding for himself. Now, he has to adjust to Lauren being around. So is Lauren. She needs to adjust to her new life. She's the one experiencing a lot of adjustments because she is changing her life with a big move. Any big move is particularly hard in the first year. Ben, on the other hand, needs to adjust to another person being in his environment that he created for himself. They both have a lot of adjusting to do. But the best part is they have each other to lean on.

I'm still rooting for this couple that they will make it!

Idlemess wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:

bleuberry wrote:I mean, if you're gonna over share, at least do something interesting with your life .

You mean Nick ?

Is there a level on sharing SM. Who gets to decide what is too much or too little? I can only decide what is good for me. If I like a person/couple I will follow and periodically check them out on SM and or comment if I feel compel to do so. If for any reason that person or couple does something that's an irritance to me, I no longer follow. It's that simple! If I'm not a fan or interested in anyone I simply don't follow.

Can I have a point of view or an opinion? Of course! But I rather know details or have an inkling of the subject matter before stating an opinion.

Totally agree ! I am still a huge Nick fan and have no idea what is really going on with him. Till I get facts which there has been none I still will respect him. 

Lauren and Ben will have to deal with this but if their love is strong they will get through it. JMO

It just aired for me, lead off story. Some much was made out of nothing! , then they went arms around each into the Home Depot, looking at paint colors. Maybe Ben needed a big push to change his bachelor pad into different colors or who's knows what, but it ended with a source saying they are fine, etc.  

I'd love to know who took that video of them, and  that pic. of shirtless Ben. I wonder if BenLo knew they were being followed?

OR, maybe Lauren just got her period