The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - MTP -LCD - FRC - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

sophienette wrote:

peggy0221 wrote:Does all the posts above mean one should not post when in minority?? I'm seriously offended, and this is not even the Lauren Bushnell's thread.

you are free to post what you think. But you did ask if you were the only one, and I guess people are answering your question as far as they can see.
I am sure there are some who agree with you.

I happen to not, but this is the beauty of the world.

But implying to add people with different opinions to the foe list is the answer to my question??? This is a discussion thread, we should DISCUSS what we see differently in a respectful manner, but not questioning why someone think differently. At least this is how I see a discussion thread should be.

honestly this interview sounds like it was done after the final episode was aired   love it

Thank you for the article. It's been posted here a few times that he had told her she was the one ages ago and on various episodes. Plus, it was suggested that he told her family off camera that she was it.. in several threads.  To me, it was done in sort of the same vein as all the negative stuff that has been said about JoJo's family.. as if it is fact when it's really supposition but sometimes it's hard to tell if it's just an opinion or factual.

peggy0221 wrote:

sophienette wrote:

peggy0221 wrote:Does all the posts above mean one should not post when in minority?? I'm seriously offended, and this is not even the Lauren Bushnell's thread.

you are free to post what you think. But you did ask if you were the only one, and I guess people are answering your question as far as they can see.
I am sure there are some who agree with you.

I happen to not, but this is the beauty of the world.

But implying to add people with different opinions to the foe list is the answer to my question??? This is a discussion thread, we should DISCUSS what we see differently in a respectful manner, but not questioning why someone think differently. At least this is how I see a discussion thread should be.

I agree and the what I love about this board is (while I stopped having a horse in the race a long time ago and just enjoy the sleuthing and this board). People who love JoJo or Lauren this season will be on different "teams" next season and may love the same contestant.

I for one like both the F2. I do see more with Lauren but did see feelings for JoJo as well. I am hoping JoJo is the Bachette as I think she has the personality to carry a season. As for BenLo I wish them the best and IMHO the next 6 months will be telling if they will make it or not.

I thought my warning above would be enough. Sadly it was not. 
In fact, things got worse as evidenced by the half dozen or so deleted comments following it.
*****************************************************************This is a discussion thread. 
It saddens me to have to say this repetitively. 
When you read a post, pretend the person you are responding to is sitting next to you. 
Would you tell this person you are going to ignore or foe them? No, you wouldn't you just do it.
 Hopefully, you can politely change the subject and turn to the neighbor you enjoy talking to and share with him/her.

Thank you and I hope this settles the subject.

MVMom39forever wrote:"It is just a tv show!"

Mazel tov to you for posting that....life still goes on & the cycle repeats next season, JMO.

mercieme wrote:

MVMom39forever wrote:"It is just a tv show!"

Mazel tov to you for posting that....life still goes on & the cycle repeats next season, JMO.

^^^ Agreed! Let's all try to remember that

7 more hours till the craziness starts!!!

Crazylady29 wrote:7 more hours till the craziness starts!!!

not that we're counting or anything...

Ha yea not counting down or anything!!! 

I'll be posting by the hour

Do you think tonight will break a record regarding ratings? Who had the largest viewership thus far ?

Jason's FRC had almost 15 million per WIki so not sure what e! was using. The ATFR had 17 million. Scandal sells! The last two haven't been the best, Chris S was 9.5 million - lowest ever. I think if Ben hits 11 million they'd be thrilled in this era.

Brad Womack, season 15: 14 million
Jake Pavelka, season 14: 13.9 million
Brad Womack, season 11: 11.6 million
Jason Mesnick, season 13: 10.9 million
Sean Lowe, season 17: 10 million viewers
Ben Flajnik, season 16: 9.9 million

http://www.eonline.com/news/396772/bachelor-finale-ratings-how-did-sean-rank-against-past-bachelors