The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - MTP -LCD - FRC - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

OMG I FEEL SO BAD FOR LAUREN, shes getting it hard

It sounds like his mom picks Jojo because she is more verbally reassuring to Ben. His mom doesn't want him to get hurt, so I can see how she'd pick the one most open with her feelings, especially if she knows how Ben has been the one who loved more so often in past relationships and gotten his heart broken because of it. So while I think it might be a little hurtful to Lauren, it's not the same as his mom preferring Jojo because she doesn't like Lauren. She just doesn't want her son hurt.

Crazylady29 wrote:So bens mom picked jojo. 

https://twitter.com/bachelorabc/status/708052143341576192

I think it is wrong to show this, his mom in this emotional state.  Especially if Lauren is his choice.  So many hurt feelings in all of this.  I just do not like it... :bigsigh:

Crazylady29 wrote:Yea if he does pick Lauren I can't imagine that would feel good to hear.

Yikes! I wonder if we hear her reasoning for preferring JoJo for Ben.

*Gasp* WtH.....

So the tabloid reports that bens mom picked the winner definitely WRONG

Crazylady29 wrote:Yea if he does pick Lauren I can't imagine that would feel good to hear.

At this point the parents already know who the F1 is. imo When they play the show back they don't want the runner up to feel bad and they can't make it obvious. One parent usually leans more towards one girl and the other parent towards the other girl . This happens every episode. (ieAndi's mother said Josh was this LOUD wired up guy & josh was F1) Chirs souls father said Becca was the one Chris loved more ect ) Ben's mother crying shouts more Lauren to me then anything., I think she's crying because she feels she isn't being honest and has to do this for show purposes but already knows Lauren is the one that will be her daughter in law. I think her crying proves how hard this really is on people who don't usually live their lives being untruthful. jmo

Cinn3 wrote:*Gasp* WtH.....

So the tabloid reports that bens mom picked the winner definitely WRONG

Unless he really does pick jojo

I think TPTB are throwing out every possible thing they can right now to shake people up and doubt the spoilers!  I still think that Lauren is F1, I just see something so special between them.

I really like Jojo a lot too and, if she is F1, then TPTB are REALLY GOOD AT THEIR JOBS AND DESERVE A RAISE and I feel really bad for Jojo.  She seems to be a really good person and deserves much better than this (if she is F1, which I don't think she is). This season has really (IMO) been showing us a Ben and Lauren love story. To me we had a back story of Ben and Jojo liking each other and being attracted to each other, but it just not measuring up to what Lauren and Ben have.

Crazy question. .. Was this based on what Ben told his parents .. Or after meeting both...

Crazylady29 wrote:So bens mom picked jojo. 

https://twitter.com/bachelorabc/status/708052143341576192

Oh no, I actually got an stomach ace from hearing this, as if Lauren hasn't enough with him having loved Jojo too, and now this. Its a sign though that Jojo is F2, otherwise they would never have shown it IMO...

Eviebloom wrote:

Crazylady29 wrote:So bens mom picked jojo. 

https://twitter.com/bachelorabc/status/708052143341576192

I think it is wrong to show this, his mom in this emotional state.  Especially if Lauren is his choice.  So many hurt feelings in all of this.  I just do not like it... :bigsigh:

I feel really bad for Lauren now if she is F1. She definitely has been through hell to be with Ben and now knowing his mom picked Jojo for him. I'm almost at the point where I just want Jojo to be F1 so I don't feel so bad for LAuren.

mindless wrote:I figured she'd say JoJo, since this is what the episode description says: "Lauren B. makes a lasting first impression with Ben’s parents, but she must win over his dad in particular. Jo Jo, although a little nervous, also leaves his folks equally impressed. Her vulnerability especially appeals to Ben’s mother. "

I believe Jojo had it easier from the beginning, I mean his father was with the crew during their baseball game. I am sure he was found of their connection…