The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 9 - Discussion - #2 *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I believe Jojo will be healed and will have moved on but being back, seeing Ben...will sting, for sure - When Chris asks, are you still in love with Ben? (you know he'll ask that!) She'll say no, but...you'll see a wistful/ tortured look on her face (so common with a lot of F2's). Same thing for when Chris asks Ben are you still in love with Jojo? He'll say no, I'm only in love with Lauren and can't wait to marry her...

I suspect when Chris asks, "Any wedding plans?"...they'll both say, "We're just taking it slow, just want to be a normal couple, go to the movies, out in public..." (different happy couple, same AFTR script). What will be interesting is if one of them says that they want to move to be with the other (that's a huge indicator that they are serious about making a go of it).

tennischick80 wrote:I believe Jojo will be healed and will have moved on but being back, seeing Ben...will sting, for sure - When Chris asks, are you still in love with Ben? (you know he'll ask that!) She'll say no, but...you'll see a wistful/ tortured look on her face (so common with a lot of F2's). Same thing for when Chris asks Ben are you still in love with Jojo? He'll say no, I'm only in love with Lauren and can't wait to marry her...

I suspect when Chris asks, "Any wedding plans?"...they'll both say, "We're just taking it slow, just want to be a normal couple, go to the movies, out in public..." (different happy couple, same AFTR script). What will be interesting is if one of them says that they want to move to be with the other (that's a huge indicator that they are serious about making a go of it).

Ben has always made it clear he'd move for his love. Even with his ex. I like that about him . Lauren's job allows for that too but I guess her hub is in LA? I can see them doing that for each other .

Sorry if this was posted already

http://www.people.com/people/mobile/article/0,,20981907_20990891,00.html

Crazylady29 wrote:Sorry if this was posted already

http://www.people.com/people/mobile/article/0,,20981907_20990891,00.html

Luckily, his fiancée is understanding. Says Higgins: "She has been supporting and loving, just like a good partner would!"

mizzoufan wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:Can't you just tell Jojo has been around the block a few times. She's the vixen for sure

I don't think that's fair

I'm commenting here not having watched the end but the I love you with JoJo seemed more genuine. The relationship with Lauren seems like a school girl crush (enthralled by) and her saying she loves him doesn't seem real but what she's supposed to say. Something to me is off with Lauren. I know my view is not popular here. Ben's talks with JoJo just seem deeper. I know there is a lot we don't see with both Lauren and JoJo. He must have lost count with how many I love you's came out of his mouth.

If Ben says good bye to JoJo she should be the bachelorette.... if she wants it.

ForeverLove wrote:

Crazylady29 wrote:Sorry if this was posted already

http://www.people.com/people/mobile/article/0,,20981907_20990891,00.html

Luckily, his fiancée is understanding. Says Higgins: "She has been supporting and loving, just like a good partner would!"

I chuckled at the comment to the article.

ForeverLove wrote:

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Jojo looks like Khloe Kardashian. Imo

I think she is gorgeous. By far the prettiest of the three. JMO.

It's funny how we all differ. I think she is a plain Jane.

Ariela wrote:
Astrology-wise: He's an Aries. JoJo is a SAG, LoLo is an Aquarius, so the better choice for Ben should be JoJo for the long haul. Ben didn't know WHY he was feeling things with JoJo....well it's natural for 2 fire signs to not understand why they are so attracted to each other, other than it's USUALLY meant to be....without trying.

Just a correction: Jojo said she's a Scorpio (on her Twitter). This totally changes things... on the astrological perspective, anyway.

Rolly wrote:

mizzoufan wrote:

ForeverLove wrote:Can't you just tell Jojo has been around the block a few times. She's the vixen for sure

I don't think that's fair

I'm commenting here not having watched the end but the I love you with JoJo seemed more genuine. The relationship with Lauren seems like a school girl crush (enthralled by) and her saying she loves him doesn't seem real but what she's supposed to say. Something to me is off with Lauren. I know my view is not popular here. Ben's talks with JoJo just seem deeper. I know there is a lot we don't see with both Lauren and JoJo. He must have lost count with how many I love you's came out of his mouth.

If Ben says good bye to JoJo she should be the bachelorette.... if she wants it.

I agree.
Jojo seemed so genuine in her reactions.
On the contrary I got a bad vibe from Lauren. It didn't feel right IMO. It looks like she's missing an "excitement" chip. Honestly, I found she was more excited to handle the turtles than say/being told ILY...

I honestly, I think Lauren already realizes Ben is love with her and it's going to be her. Could explain her lack of reaction.

Cinn3 wrote:"I am more myself with jojo than with anyone in my LIFE" THATS A HUUUUUUUUGE STATEMENT. Ohh Ben....literally what the post above me said... his blog of Bens plus episode 9 plus the previews has jojo front runner.

I am just #shocked what is going on

But then again... Ben, after last night, do you really want to be MORE YOURSELF in the future? Or do you want to be a BETTER VERSION of yourself with Lauren? I'm seriously pissed, but I want to channel my #InnerLauren and be forgiving... because I still believe that BenLo triumphed in the end. Ben looked so happy in the GMA interview. So much light in his eyes, and after watching all the episodes with BenLo, only Lauren brings that out in his eyes. ;) [I'm being biased, right, but I don't care right now haha]