The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 9 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

GuardianAngel wrote:IA Kasha, IMO this whole he said ILY to two different women is all about the ratings.

My unspoiled friend last night told me she thought F1 is either Caila, or Lauren, and has no idea how JoJo is still there. I didn't tell her she's the spoiled F2, but I'm with her. I have no idea how JoJo got to that position. IMO she certainly doesn't warrant an ILY but hey it's not my show.

I agree, JoJo is an interesting woman, but in no way does she seem like a long term fit for Ben. I also agree both Caila and Lauren and their families seem much more what Ben is into. I love the affection that he shows to Lauren. He is also really kind to Caila, but he seems to be a bit annoyed with JoJo. There does seem to be some physical attraction with JoJo, but I just do not see a love match. I am annoyed with TPTB that they encourage these relationships that just cause heartache. It would seem more real to me if Lauren and Caila were the final two. But Lauren is my pick for him! Ha of course that matters to no one!

I think one of his ILY's is to Elan.

Oh wait, Elan isn't a woman. Nevermind.

Funny I have the opposite opinion.
I see a Ben totally into Jojo and more and more so !

Imo Ben has never looked at Jojo the way he looks at Lauren he may attracted to Jojo but when he looks at Lauren it is a look of love

Have we seen any evidence of JoJo's LCD? If not, why? I'm still not convinced that we have a traditional FRC.

timfan wrote:Imo Ben has never looked at Jojo the way he looks at Lauren he may attracted to Jojo but when he looks at Lauren it is a look of love

Question of perception, because IMO, I see love in his eyes when he looks at Jojo and he's always grabbing her so tight.
I know I may be going against the trend here, but I can totally see Ben picking Jojo at the end and I would have seen why during this season. I rewatched their time together and I found him to be into Jojo big time!

sde1041 wrote:

timfan wrote:Imo Ben has never looked at Jojo the way he looks at Lauren he may attracted to Jojo but when he looks at Lauren it is a look of love

Question of perception, because IMO, I see love in his eyes when he looks at Jojo and he's always grabbing her so tight.
I know I may be going against the trend here, but I can totally see Ben picking Jojo at the end and I would have seen why during this season. I rewatched their time together and I found him to be into Jojo big time!

I keep going back to Becca's tweet last week on 2/22...she even noticed how Ben looks at Lauren. She said that he looked at Lauren like she (Becca) looks at pizza, Dr. Pepper, donuts and taco bell. @beccatilley5

harts05 wrote:

sde1041 wrote:

timfan wrote:Imo Ben has never looked at Jojo the way he looks at Lauren he may attracted to Jojo but when he looks at Lauren it is a look of love

Question of perception, because IMO, I see love in his eyes when he looks at Jojo and he's always grabbing her so tight.
I know I may be going against the trend here, but I can totally see Ben picking Jojo at the end and I would have seen why during this season. I rewatched their time together and I found him to be into Jojo big time!

I keep going back to Becca's tweet last week on 2/22...she even noticed how Ben looks at Lauren.  She said that he looked at Lauren like she (Becca) looks at pizza, Dr. Pepper, donuts and taco bell. @beccatilley5

Not sure it's a good sign... :giggling

Doubt Becca would be tweeting that if he was engaged to her new bestie instead.

sde1041 wrote:

timfan wrote:Imo Ben has never looked at Jojo the way he looks at Lauren he may attracted to Jojo but when he looks at Lauren it is a look of love

Question of perception, because IMO, I see love in his eyes when he looks at Jojo and he's always grabbing her so tight.
I know I may be going against the trend here, but I can totally see Ben picking Jojo at the end and I would have seen why during this season. I rewatched their time together and I found him to be into Jojo big time!

Me too sde. I think that by the time, they were in Jamaica, he came to the realization that he was in love with both. He had to dig deep and reevaluate everything. I would even venture and say that his deep feeling for Jojo took him by surprise and he wasn't ready to let her go. We'll soon find out.

Sneak peek of Ben and jojos date https://twitter.com/bachelorabc/status/703603044869517313

Hmmm interesting. Poor Jojo, she did not deserve to have her brothers go crazy like that. It does seem to me though that this might be resolved just as quickly as the Leah nonsense was. Ben seems very forgiving of these two, or at least willing to not let outside forces change his opinion too much. Hmmm. My opinion, naturally.