The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 9 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Oh, yea, the element that he doesn't realize he said it...the third ILY looks very relaxed (possibly after some wine)?? Hmmm...his one to Lauren during the day doesn't look like it just "slipped out".

tennischick80 wrote:Oh, yea, the element that he doesn't realize he said it...the third ILY looks very relaxed (possibly after some wine)?? Hmmm...his one to Lauren during the day doesn't look like it just "slipped out".

The day one could be where he explains how he let it slip. He says , it's been hard because I known I've loved you as well . Or something. He doesn't want to disrespect Jojo imo. The slip can't be taken back . If it's to Lauren , she still has to understand that Jojo is still there.

What CH would have told Ben before his slip.....

As for whether Ben got the go-ahead to profess his love for the women on camera, Harrison says, nope, he did not. "It was a caught on camera moment full of feeling and emotion. If he had asked my opinion, I would tell him it would create problems down the road," Harrison said.

http://abc13.com/entertainment/chris-harrison-reveals-new-details-about-bachelor-fantasy-suite-dates/1220978/

ForeverLove wrote:It wasn't confirmed at Jojo's from what I read. If it was, someone posted here today that on the bachsnap Ben was saying to watch Monday where he says ily to SOMEBODY, maybe twice. If it was Jojo, wouldn't it be kinda cruel ? Ok, I'll be patient but there are some of us here feeling it's a little trick and that it might be Caila as the other stoic ily.

When I read that today that he may have said it twice to somebody, it reminded me of when I watched the two ILY vid and what I noticed. If we look at the edit, when the announcer says TWO...DIFFERENT.... WOMEN, I noticed two shots of Ben saying ILY, then they showed two shots of Lauren during "DIFFERENT" before they showed one shot of JoJo when he says WOMEN.

avacaroline wrote:Two ILY's.

http://www.eonline.com/news/743278/perfect-no-more-ben-higgins-is-breaking-the-bachelor-s-biggest-rule-twice

So you think it's Jojo and Lauren? I just went off on a tangent.

It's all going to depend on what he says to Caila.
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Ok, if Jojo's date first then unguarded moment can be jojo,  then second is Ben explaining he loved Lauren too?

Sorry if I'm wrong about all this. Seemed right in my mind.

I have a hard time believing he said ILU to Caila by slipping in an romantic moment. He could have said it by sending her home though. I can imagen it being Jojo because with her I do see him loosing himself in their passion. BUT IMO its not Lauren. With Lauren they wouldnt have had to tell him he said it, I believe with Lairen it wasnt a slipp, not the one we have seen anyway. I believe his feelings for her was so obvious for him, and not just a result of an romantic moment. I believe he chose to say it to her.

He sounds drunk in the new ILY

Probably its Jojo and thats why they show her date last. Then they make him telling Lauren and her being F1 less obvious. If he tells Lauren showing us that and knowing he met her last few would have believed he would have chosen someone else bit with Jojo last and another ILY would make us doubt. Bit if it is Jojo I dont think they have shown us that ILY, then Im pretty sure all 3 ILY shown was to Lauren

Yeah, I was probably sleep deprived . It does say he expresses deep feelings for Jojo. . I think it's time to get back to my real life .

Are people doubting that he said ILU to 2 people. It's been done before and nothing earth shattering happened when the lead chose the F1. The contestants all know what they signed up for and just as they are in the bubble love, I believe the lead is much more if not more, beautiful women who in real life will dump a dude on suspicion of seeing another lady but in this format agree to be sister wives and swap spit should definitely not have any issues with their common bf loving more than one. The real relationship starts after the hall-pass for lead expires which is aftr.,JMHO.

No bachelor who has said ILY has said it this early .. Has been LCDs or at the FRC.....

Bachsnaps on SnapChat

I just took a video of Ben on bachsnaps. How do I allow you guys to see it? So not tech savvy.