The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 5 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

nothatgirl wrote:I didn't see the promo but if it's something that's never happened before, maybe it's that Jojo leaves on her own, knowing that Ben's love for Lauren is stronger? Or Ben lets Jojo go before the RC?

I think it's one of those two possibilities you posed.

And YES! They had to give Ben some drama because other than Olivia, this season seems to have no real drama. Lol

bachfan29 wrote:Please tell me you guys didn't buy that preview? Of course he is going to say he fell he love with two girls and they show a bad preview. They always do that.

I think the "being in love with two" is actually pretty rare. Usually, it's "I'm falling for two people at the same time". I think that Sean and Jason were the only two Bachelors that said the former (I think...CMIIW).

bachfan29 wrote:Please tell me you guys didn't buy that preview? Of course he is going to say he fell he love with two girls and they show a bad preview. They always do that.

Nah I didn't buy it really but this the first time the lead has said he loves both women. Who knows what really happens. They need viewers and ratings. They need us talking and speculating. It's generates publicity and that's what they want.

Whoever he choose, how do you put that situation away. Doubt his sincerity in that disclosure

I haven't watched the Live show yet..... Did it show him saying "I love you" to Jo Jo and Lauren B, or did he say he loved 2 women?

Alanna wrote:

nothatgirl wrote:Jojo gives me so many Andi vibes. She just comes across so calculated and fake to me.

Me too, but I didn't want to admit that because I might be 1 of 2 Andi fans on this board

Alanna, There are more Andi fans than you think  they just aren't posting anymore.

Didn't the preview say he told two girls he loved them? I can't remember that happening before the FRC.

Or I totally heard wrong since I'm too busy dealing with winter storm Kayla.

Julie81 wrote:

bachfan29 wrote:Please tell me you guys didn't buy that preview? Of course he is going to say he fell he love with two girls and they show a bad preview. They always do that.

Nah I didn't buy it really but this the first time the lead has said he loves both women. Who knows what really happens. They need viewers and ratings. They need us talking and speculating. It's generates publicity and that's what they want.

I don't buy it either. They don't even really fall in love with one person so spare me on the claims of being in love with two. My problem is even if it's fake I still would never ever go along with it if I was the F1. I don't care if it's just a storyline or not. I'm not getting engaged to a guy who's claiming days prior that he's in love with someone else too. I guess I'm just too picky.

nutty1 wrote:I haven't watched the Live show yet..... Did it show him saying "I love you" to Jo Jo and Lauren B, or did he say he loved 2 women?

He told one that he love them and the other, in love with her for a long time now. He did tell his parents that he's in love with two women.

umngirl wrote:Didn't the preview say he told two girls he loved them? I can't remember that happening before the FRC.

Or I totally heard wrong since I'm too busy dealing with winter storm Kayla.

Oh, thanks! I didn't see the promo. So, they actually showed him saying the words to two girls? So much for not blindsiding Jojo....

That would be a first! Although, technically, Kaitlyn did do that but they just never showed her saying ILY to Nick.

He even said on bachelor live LIVE that he "fell in love with two women"..

Are we sure Ben isn't a single man right now..?

He's only 26. He'll be fine either way.