The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 5 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Seabear wrote:I haven't watched the episode yet But I detest it when any parent on this show throws their EX under the bus.  Particularly when the other parent is still in the childs/childrens life/lives.  Rude, classless and just plain wrong.  Please keep your dirty laundry off my TV. No excuses.  Adults choose who they have children with.  

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Agreed. The daughters most likely will watch momma on "TV having a fairytale" someday. Great role model. Momma goes on a misogynist reality tv show. Screw the travel and the friendships and take care of your kids.

I'm WAY behind on Bachelor Live, but Leah.... RUN!

What the heck! Ben seems so obviously "into" Lauren B and now he is saying he loves 2 women and "we are left with that" like there is no choice at the end of the season?
Chris says it never happened before, but Jason made a switch-er-ooo and Charlie decided to date 2 women at the end of the season. So what else could happen that has never happened before!

Man oh man that preview was intense! Ben gave them exactly what they wanted a dramatic ending for something everyone thought was already a done deal.

Think it was always Lauren b but he allowed himself to really fall for Jojo too and was crushed to have to say goodbye and hurt her for no reason.

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That preview got me all upset BUT I have to remember that this is the bachelor and they try throwing is off as much as possible.

Maybe Ben lets Lauren go but then as she's leaving, he changes his mind because it just doesn't feel right and gets the limo to turn around. That's never happened before!

Julie81 wrote:That preview got me all upset BUT I have to remember that this is the bachelor and they try throwing is off as much as possible.

Maybe Ben lets Lauren go but then as she's leaving, he changes his mind because it just doesn't feel right and gets the limo to turn around. That's never happened before!

Well, that has never happened before: maybe that is it.....

I don't think it necessarily has to be anything other than him telling both that he is in love with them.

I just hope he and Lauren are at a good place now and she can get past all this.

I'm sure there's more if indeed there was a proposal and engagement. This show lasted for 20 seasons based on what they do best... Cliffhanging previews. Keep the audience interested.

Perfect Ben's dilemma In love with two women. Gasp!!!

I didn't see the promo but if it's something that's never happened before, maybe it's that Jojo leaves on her own, knowing that Ben's love for Lauren is stronger? Or Ben lets Jojo go before the RC?

Yeah I just hope Lauren already knew he told someone else he was in love with them. But did he say he was in love or that he just loved them? There's a difference but either way, that's gotta be hard to hear coming from your fiancé!

***edited** Of course he is going to say he fell he love with two girls and they show a bad preview. They always do that.