Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #9

OK. Thanks. I haven't read it all and I don't rely on RS' word, so if there's your contact RJ then i guess there's more to the rumor. Well, this might get interesting, but it kinda "kills" the romance... Then again, who am I kiddin, The Bach-world is the last romantic resort for that.

I doubt that Ben will pick Becca in the end from what I have been told. For those that don't want them to end up together, I don't think you have much to worry about.

I hope we see a different side to her than last season. She was too wishy-washy with Chris. I think Ben is serious about finding someone. Not convinced Becca is ready.

BlackHalo wrote:I hope we see a different side to her than last season. She was too wishy-washy with Chris. I think Ben is serious about finding someone. Not convinced Becca is ready.

Becca does want to find a husband and have a family, but she isn't ready right now. That not a knock against her. There are plenty of people who are about to turn 27 that aren't ready to get engaged, get married, and have a family, and Becca is one of those people.

RammerJammer91 wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I hope we see a different side to her than last season. She was too wishy-washy with Chris. I think Ben is serious about finding someone. Not convinced Becca is ready.

Becca does want to find a husband and have a family, but she isn't ready right now. That not a knock against her. There are plenty of people who are about to turn 27 that aren't ready to get engaged, get married, and have a family, and Becca is one of those people.

Then why go one the show?? Guess it is all for exposure. I know Ben is serious about finding someone on this show. Someone willing to move if necessary, to get engaged, and hopefully to marry and have kids with. And I don't see him wanting to wait for a few years for that. I hate seeing Becca even show up if she really is not ready for all the above.

RammerJammer91 wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I hope we see a different side to her than last season. She was too wishy-washy with Chris. I think Ben is serious about finding someone. Not convinced Becca is ready.

Becca does want to find a husband and have a family, but she isn't ready right now. That not a knock against her. There are plenty of people who are about to turn 27 that aren't ready to get engaged, get married, and have a family, and Becca is one of those people.

Despite what she said to the contrary, it was clear that she wasn't ready, last year. Maybe, it was Chris....

She could be ready, now. I mean , a lot can happen in a year.

Seems silly for her to go on then considering a proposal is almost required at the end of the show. I'm surprised anyone would want to go on a second time after what happened the last season.

ICU wrote:

RammerJammer91 wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I hope we see a different side to her than last season. She was too wishy-washy with Chris. I think Ben is serious about finding someone. Not convinced Becca is ready.

Becca does want to find a husband and have a family, but she isn't ready right now. That not a knock against her. There are plenty of people who are about to turn 27 that aren't ready to get engaged, get married, and have a family, and Becca is one of those people.

Then why go one the show??  Guess it is all for exposure.  I know Ben is serious about finding someone on this show.  Someone willing to move if necessary, to get engaged, and hopefully to marry and have kids with.  And I don't see him wanting to wait for a few years for that.  I hate seeing Becca even show up if she really is not ready for all the above.

She wants to be with Ben, but that doesn't mean a proposal. I doubt she will fall victim to the pressure from the producers and declare her love for him on the show and beg for a proposal. Could she mean it if she tells him she loves him? Sure. If she is F1, I feel that she will want to date him, and that she will be dedicated to making that relationship her top priority. In fact, if she is F1 and there is no proposal, I have no doubt she will make the relationship her top priority. With her, that would be another realistic ending. She didn't fall victim to being in the bubble last season, and I doubt she will this time around, if she lasts long enough.

It's also possible that she didn't want to take the chance of Ben getting engaged to someone girl on the show and it working out. She would be wondering "what if."

Well if Ben picks her and there's no proposal then I hope she has a really thick skin. Just ask Brad 1.0 and Juan Pablo what happens when there's no engagement.

Ben has been favoriting and liking posts about finding a "wifey" so I think he has every intention on proposing. If Becca isn't ready for that, she should not be pursuing him. Jmo.

bluwavz wrote:Well if Ben picks her and there's no proposal then I hope she has a really thick skin. Just ask Brad 1.0 and Juan Pablo what happens when there's no engagement.

She does let some things get to her, other things she doesn't. It would be interesting to see. Ben will have more "freedom" (I guess that's the best word??) since the previous Bachelor proposed. With Chris, he didn't really have that "freedom" to just date. Producers were pushing him to pick Whitney because he didn't let one go early and she was the only one ready to say "yes" to a proposal. It would've been interesting to see what would've happened had he let Whitney go early and wanted to just date Becca...the producers would've had a heart attack because Becca wouldn't budge, and I give her credit for that. Oh boy, did they ever try to get her to say she was ready to accept a proposal, even just for the suspense of it being the first time she was ever in love.

They expect a proposal at the end. She knows that, she knows she's not ready for that. We knew that. I better not hear her say she wants to get married and have kids.