Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #9

I'm just surprised she came on here to defend herself knowing she was going back for round II. We should be the least of her worries .

The thing is the lead will propose whether they like it or not. If they do not want to propose, they better be prepared for a Brad 1.0 or JPG and being shunned by TPTB and SM hate.

To say the lead has the option, they may be true, to a point. They want a ring, (Neil Lane) and a proposal, and they could care less what happens after that. If it works out great, they'll take the credit, if it doesn't, no big deal. They'll use the break up to their advantage, example CH sit downs.

Someone who's never been in love, and is going on a RTS to find love, is certainly not prepared for marriage. She admitted herself, the process is too quick. Unless Ben falls in love with her, she'll be IMO used as far as possible. If there's no chance of a proposal with Becca, they'll use her in other ways.

Rolly wrote:Does Becca have a job? If so what is it? How old is she? I'm just not sure of anybody going on this show that has never been in love or really dated that much.

Becca will be 27 in a few weeks and yeah, we get it - she's never been in love.  

She earned a high school diploma and her bio says she is an assistant in a chiropractor's office. 

She promotes products for more than 13 different companies on SM.  I could list them, but I don't get paid to promote them.

Kashathediva wrote:The thing about paper is it is basically 2 dimensional. 
There have been so many couples in the history of the show that are the definition and have been major fails.

LOL. I can think of one in particular since we heard it repeated over and over again.

This all reminds me of how many here thought Sean and Kacie B were so perfect for each other. Turned out he had zero interest in her despite how similar their backgrounds were. He ended up picking and marrying a woman most didn't expect him to at the time even though the other three women in the F4 were seen as "better" matches on paper. Ben could surprise us all.

I HOPE Ben surprises us!

Btw did Sean ever meet Kacie before filming? My memory is not serving me well right now

FLChica wrote:

Rolly wrote:Does Becca have a job? If so what is it? How old is she? I'm just not sure of anybody going on this show that has never been in love or really dated that much.

Becca will be 27 in a few weeks and yeah, we get it - she's never been in love.  

She earned a high school diploma and her bio says she is an assistant in a chiropractor's office. 

She promotes products for more than 13 different companies on SM.  I could list them, but I don't get paid to promote them.

Yeah, and a little birdie gave me on-the-ground coverage yesterday that she was nowhere to be found at her work. She is also not in her building this morning and her phone is still on.

For me, the tried and true and getting tired ;) I wish they would come up with new ideas instead of shoving the likes of old contestants like Becca at us.

loveactually9 wrote:I HOPE Ben surprises us!

Btw did Sean ever meet Kacie before filming? My memory is not serving me well right now

Yeah they met at some RealBeanz event if I'm remembering correctly.

I feel like Becca has something to prove by going on the show again. She has seemed mad that she was portrayed as "boring" or "shy" , and like others here have said, like she tries really hard on snapchat to be "outgoing" and obnoxious. Even on here, if that was really her posting, she said "sorry I'm more outgoing and obnoxious in person" I think her edit this time will be completely different, and all about her trying to change everyone's boring opinion. Hopefully she realizes, that might not end well for her.

I definitely see her as one of the contestants that wants a career out of this for sure, doing appearances at iheart radio and photoshoots for different companies. She's also friends with quite a few actors and stuff. That's fine and everything, but don't think anyone wants to see Ben engaged to someone who wants to stay in La and pursue a hollywood career.

KatCAli90 wrote:I feel like Becca has something to prove by going on the show again. She has seemed mad that she was portrayed as "boring" or "shy" , and like others here have said, like she tries really hard on snapchat to be "outgoing" and obnoxious. Even on here, if that was really her posting, she said "sorry I'm more outgoing and obnoxious in person" I think her edit this time will be completely different, and all about her trying to change everyone's boring opinion. Hopefully she realizes, that might not end well for her.

I definitely see her as one of the contestants that wants a career out of this for sure, doing appearances at iheart radio and photoshoots for different companies. She's also friends with quite a few actors and stuff. That's fine and everything, but don't think anyone wants to see Ben engaged to someone who wants to stay in La and pursue a hollywood career.

Ideally, she would like to live in the south when she gets married and raises a Family. You didn't hear this from me, but there's a decent chance she moves back to Louisiana in the next year or two.

Could you tell her to be wise in what she says and does when she is back on camera? I know she is friends with Elan but don't want this lovely soul to be misrepresented because she gave ammunition they couldn't resist using I mentioned early in kaytlins season that I wished Ben had met Becca. So we will see if sparks fly or not..

KatCAli90 wrote:snipped..

That's fine and everything, but don't think anyone wants to see Ben engaged to someone who wants to stay in La and pursue a hollywood career.

That's exactly what I think too. She won't move out of L.A to Denver of all places, where there are no actor's and important people like the ones she seems to surround herself with. Reading RJ's post upthread, about Becca would like to move to Louisiana to get married a raise a family should be replaced by I'd move anywhere with my man if I was in love. JMHO