Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #9

BowenAnderson wrote:I am really hopeful that she will go on.  From the time we first met Ben, I thought he was a good match for Becca.  
RJ, do we know if there has been communication between the two?

She is such a sweet person, I don't think she has to worry about people not liking her. I do think it will be interesting to see if she gets a totally different edit.  She referenced "her edit" from last season in her post here, maybe she will make an effort to show other facets of her personality - as we have seen on SM?
Becca and CS were not suited for one another - hope we see her fall in deep like/ or maybe love.

One of my little birdies told me that to her knowledge, they haven't talked, although there's no way of knowing for sure unless we had their phone records. They haven't met or hung out.

I'm surprised she is going back on. It's kind of crazy to do this thing a second time. It seems like it is exhausting enough the first time around, to put yourself through it again..I hope for her sake that she HAS talked to him at least a little. Nick at least knew that there was some sort of connection. I hope Becca is not going in blind..

Does Becca have a job? If so what is it? How old is she? I'm just not sure of anybody going on this show that has never been in love or really dated that much.

Nope, I hope they HAVE NOT TALKED. We dont need the drama that comes with that. If Becca wants to go into this blind....well, she's done this before.

From what I have heard they haven't talked. And I still say Becca is not the right one for Ben. She is way to into herself I believe, and honestly if you haven't been in love before you shouldn't be looking for it on a "reality" TV show.

Rolly wrote:

Does Becca have a job? If so what is it? How old is she? I'm just not sure of anybody going on this show that hads never been in love or really dated that much.

Yes, she does have a job. However, it's pretty flexible for the time she can get off. She works as a chiropractic assistant and has been at that office for at least 2 years. She is 26, turns 27 next month. She really has never been in love.

Can we get some examples as to Becca showing she likes Ben?? What has she done?

eversotrue wrote:Can we get some examples as to Becca showing she likes Ben?? What has she done?

Besides her posts on SM, she has told a bunch of her friends that she really, really likes him.

I had no plans watching Ben season but if Becca is a contestant I surely will watch.

Bring on the sleuthing.

Some Twitter accounts to keep an eye on that might try and misdirect Becca being on:

@laurabwalt (best friend)-Although she has started following RS
@CMTilley (sister)

ICU wrote:From what I have heard they haven't talked.  And I still say Becca is not the right one for Ben.  She is way to into herself I believe, and honestly if you haven't been in love before you shouldn't be looking for it on a "reality" TV show.

Did you see that interview with Ben's ex? Someone who is super into herself is totally Ben's type, haha.

Honestly, I do think that they make a lot of sense on paper. They are both very religious but don't push it on others, they both seem to come from good families, they both seem to enjoy the outdoors, they seem to have similar lifestyles (things like drinking), and they are both very well-liked. Of course, making sense on paper means nothing if there isn't chemistry and a connection. It reminds of Emily's husband, Tyler, and Sean, who are actually super similar (personality, religious, athletic background), yet one connected with her, the other didn't. I also don't think that Becca is going to be any more self-absorbed than any of the other contestants they have.

The thing about paper is it is basically 2 dimensional. 
There have been so many couples in the history of the show that are the definition and have been major fails.