The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 7 Jun 29th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

That preview makes me realize now why Ben H liked the IG pic that said "Girls we like you for your brains not your bodies".

BlackHalo wrote:Shawn said Kaitlyn came to his room and sat on his bed. I thought that was kinda weird at first because the guys have roommates. Makes sense that Ben was there for a good portion of those 6-7 hours. When he left the "You're the one" discussion happened IMO. I would hope Kaitlyn didn't risk having sex with Shawn when Ben could walk right back in.

Yeah...I thought that was just Shawn misspeaking in the heat of the moment, but this scenario makes sense.

It's still very strange that it seemed like Kaitlyn spent 6-7 hours in a room with just Ben and Shawn off-camera? Like, didn't the other guys notice? And, from the way he said "Shawn seemed happier, I don't want details, Shawn and I haven't talked since", it did seem like he was implying some type of sexual activity happened...although I can't see Kaitlyn admitting to that on-camera.

I imagine Shawn was happier because Kaitlyn told him he was "the one". I doubt anything else happened with the potential of Ben coming back in.

albean99 wrote:I imagine Shawn was happier because Kaitlyn told him he was "the one". I doubt anything else happened with the potential of Ben coming back in.

I agree. The other option is too sleazy for me to entertain.

Oh I can see no holds Kaitlyn including something with you're the one.

IMO... I think that sex must have happened between Shawn and Kaitlyn  early on for Shawn to be so sure that he is the "one."  He is far to agitated seeing her with Jared ala GDR and Nick (anytime) to just be hanging onto "words."  Think of Nicks instagram the other night about sex bringing an emotional connection for both Men and Women.  I think the Ben H video is very clear in its implication.  Sex definitely complicates things when one is in multiple relationships.  Considering Shawn said in his "freak out session, that Trust is his most important thing in a relationship,"  I am going to be "amazed" to see how this all worked out in the end.  IMO... The only reason Ben H stayed is because TPB want him as a potential candidate as the Bachelor.

Seabear wrote:IMO... I think that sex must have happened between Shawn and Kaitlyn  early on for Shawn to be so sure that he is the "one."  He is far to agitated seeing her with Jared ala GDR and Nick (anytime) to just be hanging onto "words."  Think of Nicks instagram the other night about sex bringing an emotional connection for both Men and Women.  I think the Ben H video is very clear in its implication.  Sex definitely complicates things when one is in multiple relationships.  Considering Shawn said in his "freak out session, that Trust is his most important thing in a relationship,"  I am going to be "amazed" to see how this all worked out in the end.  IMO... The only reason Ben H stayed is because TPB want him as a potential candidate as the Bachelor.

Your post makes me think I went into a fugue state and made a new username. 
Love your post! 

It sounds like K needed an appointment book. Ok this night I'm here, this night I'm there. WTheck!?

I agree with you, Shawn is too invested too early to not have had that intimacy. I don't know if we'll find out. If they are only showing Nick's intimacy with her, you'd think that is because she chooses him in the end. I don't know, the editing of the show is sure confusing. I hope that she is truly happy now, she looks to be.

Seabear wrote:IMO... I think that sex must have happened between Shawn and Kaitlyn  early on for Shawn to be so sure that he is the "one."  He is far to agitated seeing her with Jared ala GDR and Nick (anytime) to just be hanging onto "words."  Think of Nicks instagram the other night about sex bringing an emotional connection for both Men and Women.  I think the Ben H video is very clear in its implication.  Sex definitely complicates things when one is in multiple relationships.  Considering Shawn said in his "freak out session, that Trust is his most important thing in a relationship,"  I am going to be "amazed" to see how this all worked out in the end.  IMO... The only reason Ben H stayed is because TPB want him as a potential candidate as the Bachelor.

IA. IIRC, it was speculated awhile back that Shawn and K may have had sex early on (and before Nick). 

IMO, this makes the most sense why Kaitlyn felt like she was "cheating" (her words). I doubt she would have felt like she was cheating just by her telling some words to Shawn but doing the deed with Nick. Actions speak louder than words after all. And it is doubtful TPTB would show us any of these earlier moments with Shawn and K even if caught "off-camera" because it would give away the ending and let us know that Nick is NOT the first guy to do the deed. 

It also makes a little more sense then that Shawn would feel this possessive so early on and so confident that he was giving hints to the other guys that he and K had "off camera" time. Further... if the deed was done with Shawn first then I could see him seeing this as some sort of "leg up" on Nick even if he finds out K slept with Nick too and thus perhaps is why he is okay with proposing at the end. Because the Shawn that is losing his mind over some words alone and a GDR to Jared? I don't see him getting over sexgate with Nick unless he has some other secrets with Kaitlyn that trump anything we saw/heard (help us all) between Nick and Kailtyn.

GuardianAngel wrote:It sounds like K needed an appointment book. Ok this night I'm here, this night I'm there. WTheck!?

I was wondering why Shawn only got one 1on 1 before HTD/FSD, he didn't need to, he was having 1 on 1's behind close doors. Kaitlyn is like a kid in a candy store this season. :shocked!:

GuardianAngel wrote:It sounds like K needed an appointment book. Ok this night I'm here, this night I'm there. WTheck!?

The appointment book labelled 'following my heart'