The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 7 Jun 29th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

The preview also showed Shawn lashing out and cursing at someone. I wonder if they are going to start editing Shawn as someone with uncontrollable jealousy issues?

rosesrREd wrote:The preview also showed Shawn lashing out and cursing at someone. I wonder if they are going to start editing Shawn as someone with uncontrollable jealousy issues?

Re the bold, TPTB will edit him as someone with jealousy issue brought on by lack of trust due to parent's divorce IMO. Shawn mentioned his parent's divorce when he was talking to the producer on the show last night. Shawn would have benefited from watching UNREAL before going on this show, he gave given TPTB personal material to work with in their portrayal of him IMO.

mercieme wrote:

rosesrREd wrote:The preview also showed Shawn lashing out and cursing at someone. I wonder if they are going to start editing Shawn as someone with uncontrollable jealousy issues?

Re the bold, TPTB will edit him as someone with jealousy issue brought on by lack of trust due to parent's divorce IMO. Shawn mentioned his parent's divorce when he was talking to the producer on the show last night. Shawn would have benefited from watching UNREAL before going on this show, he gave given TPTB personal material to work with in their portrayal of him IMO.

I love how he told the producer "you're the only one I can trust." He seems a bit naive also.

OMG, his parents got divorced and that makes him act like this?  Grow up!  People get divorced, if that is seriously the worst thing ever, you have had a blessed life.  My dislike for this guy grows more and more every week.  So glad that Kaitlyn picks him, I won't have to have a season of him on my tv.  Chris Soules was hard to watch, Shawn could do me in.

ETA, he survived almost dying in a car accident and still acts like this?

stuckinsc wrote:OMG, his parents got divorced and that makes him act like this?  Grow up!  People get divorced, if that is seriously the worst thing ever, you have had a blessed life.  My dislike for this guy grows more and more every week.  So glad that Kaitlyn picks him, I won't have to have a season of him on my tv.  Chris Soules was hard to watch, Shawn could do me in.

ETA, he survived almost dying in a car accident and still acts like this?  

I actually was fine with him until last night. His jealous rant was too much for me, and I thought he is this mad over hypothetical sex, how is he going handle the real deal?

rosesrREd wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:OMG, his parents got divorced and that makes him act like this?  Grow up!  People get divorced, if that is seriously the worst thing ever, you have had a blessed life.  My dislike for this guy grows more and more every week.  So glad that Kaitlyn picks him, I won't have to have a season of him on my tv.  Chris Soules was hard to watch, Shawn could do me in.

ETA, he survived almost dying in a car accident and still acts like this?  

I actually was fine with him until last night. His jealous rant was too much for me, and I thought he is this mad over hypothetical sex, how is he going handle the real deal?

I haven't been impressed with him at all. Of the dwarves he is grumpy to me and not hot enough to make up for it. So tired of him questioning Nick's motives, yes shock, Nick has gone on this show one more time then they all have. Nick did not pursue fame from this show after his last season, so far he seems to really like Kaitlyn. Oh yeah, how many of your other cast mates are going to be on BiP this summer? How genuine are they?

Just getting tired of his act.

stuckinsc wrote:

I haven't been impressed with him at all.  Of the dwarves he is grumpy to me and not hot enough to make up for it.  So tired of him questioning Nick's motives, yes shock, Nick has gone on this show one more time then they all have.  Nick did not pursue fame from this show after his last season, so far he seems to really like Kaitlyn.  Oh yeah, how many of your other cast mates are going to be on BiP this summer?  How genuine are they?

Just getting tired of his act.  

And Shawn said to Jared that he didnt care to talk to Nick because he HEARD what others have said about Nick last season.
This guy is crazily immature, really. He thinks he is above Nick (kept calling him the other guy, not care to talk to him, etc), and he didnt even try to form his opinion about someone?

I used to like Shawn, I think at least he is there for the girl (so far).
But the way he acted since Nick joined the season was a big turn off.

stuckinsc wrote:

rosesrREd wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:OMG, his parents got divorced and that makes him act like this?  Grow up!  People get divorced, if that is seriously the worst thing ever, you have had a blessed life.  My dislike for this guy grows more and more every week.  So glad that Kaitlyn picks him, I won't have to have a season of him on my tv.  Chris Soules was hard to watch, Shawn could do me in.

ETA, he survived almost dying in a car accident and still acts like this?  

I actually was fine with him until last night. His jealous rant was too much for me, and I thought he is this mad over hypothetical sex, how is he going handle the real deal?

I haven't been impressed with him at all.  Of the dwarves he is grumpy to me and not hot enough to make up for it.  So tired of him questioning Nick's motives, yes shock, Nick has gone on this show one more time then they all have.  Nick did not pursue fame from this show after his last season, so far he seems to really like Kaitlyn.  Oh yeah, how many of your other cast mates are going to be on BiP this summer?  How genuine are they?

Just getting tired of his act.  

I think the guy just has really bad instincts. He trusts the producers more than anything (BIG mistake) and they are probably telling him about how awful Nick is and how he's just in it for fame and how Kaitlyn is falling for his game and all that. Shawn even said that he hasn't had ONE conversation with Nick, so it's really disappointing/stupid to me that he's so entirely convinced that Nick is "full of sh*t".

I have these moments where I really do like Shawn and think that he's great for Kaitlyn, but then he'll do something where signs of possessiveness and anger and jealousy come out that honestly scare me. Kaitlyn seems really happy right now and I guess that's all that matters. Most of the ex-alumni are saying that they understand how Shawn feels because of what a mindf*ck the show is, so I hope that they are right.

I think Nick made a very good assessment of what the producers are going to make of the drama -- the two storylines -- The bachelorette & the guys and the Shawn hates Nick show

stuckinsc wrote:OMG, his parents got divorced and that makes him act like this?  Grow up!  People get divorced, if that is seriously the worst thing ever, you have had a blessed life.  My dislike for this guy grows more and more every week.  So glad that Kaitlyn picks him, I won't have to have a season of him on my tv.  Chris Soules was hard to watch, Shawn could do me in.

ETA, he survived almost dying in a car accident and still acts like this?   

JMO: ITA with everything you said.
Bottom line for me is the guy needs to grow up.
Diaper duty is still in effect if this guy is snapchatting that the reason for his behavior is due to alcohol.
At least own your own behavior.
Complete lack of self-awareness and lack of taking responsibility for his own actions.

AllAboutLove wrote:

JMO: ITA with everything you said.
Bottom line for me is the guy needs to grow up.
Diaper duty is still in effect if this guy is snapchatting that the reason for his behavior is due to alcohol.
At least own your own behavior.
Complete lack of self-awareness and lack of taking responsibility for his own actions.

AllAboutLove -- No way to "like" your post as we've lost our capability, so I'll just say it the old fashioned way.
Shawn, as well as Nick and Kaitlyn, need to own their behavior. Alcohol is not an excuse IMHO.

Hear Hear ! So often (and even by one of my faves Sharleen), alcohol is used as an excuse. They should all have enough life experience by now to know what responsible drinking is and that they need to take responsibility for their actions.

^^ This goes for ALL bachelor contestants