The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 7 Jun 29th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Go Ben !
Look at how mature he is, take your time and talk to her like for real.
Tell her you're not stupid and you know what's going on.
He's the best.

Why would Ben wait all this time to bring it up though if it was that night of the SA cocktail party?

So I think she invited him back to HER suite after a group date, then spent 6 hours in HIS bed at a different time we don't know about yet, THEN this latest time Ben talks about AND those at least two late night visits where Shawn needs reassurance. And in all this time, the pre-fs tryst is Nick? wtf?

And yes, Ben rocks!!! What a grownup, like for real.

Loved Ben's approach to confronting Kailtyn.
He is not accusatory and is just, "you do you, but I don't want to be spinning my wheels here".

"Spinning his wheels" is such a great way for Ben to let us know he is someone who has his wits about him and doesn't want to waste his time.

If he is the next Bachelor then I can see him having this same approach: fair, to the point, and not wasting anyone's time or playing with their feelings.

My kind of guy

Alanna wrote:Why would Ben wait all this time to bring it up though if it was that night of the SA cocktail party?

So I think she  invited him back to HER suite after a group date, then spent 6 hours in HIS bed at a different time we don't know about yet, THEN this latest time Ben talks about AND those at least two late night visits where Shawn needs reassurance. And in all this time, the pre-fs tryst is Nick? wtf?

I don't think he's had much time alone with her since. I mean I would assume that conversation takes place before the RC in Dublin. Shawn also had his meltdown during the GD, which probably made Ben think about what happened again. But I'm sure he's talking about the night of the SA RC, since he mentioned they had a date that week and that they were going to the airport in the morning.

Love Ben! Also the MTA should be epic !

Again, Ben's confrontation could have been integrally producer prodded at this point.

Shawn said Kaitlyn came to his room and sat on his bed. I thought that was kinda weird at first because the guys have roommates. Makes sense that Ben was there for a good portion of those 6-7 hours. When he left the "You're the one" discussion happened IMO. I would hope Kaitlyn didn't risk having sex with Shawn when Ben could walk right back in.

BlackHalo wrote:Shawn said Kaitlyn came to his room and sat on his bed. I thought that was kinda weird at first because the guys have roommates. Makes sense that Ben was there for a good portion of those 6-7 hours. When he left the "You're the one" discussion happened IMO. I would hope Kaitlyn didn't risk having sex with Shawn when Ben could walk right back in.

Oh boy.
Why would it not surprise me if that is what happened and it was all the more exciting for these two to do.
Snapchatting in bed and sending it to the world was probably just how these two are.

This is like the worst season ever, and I feel bad for all of the great guys that got stuck with Kaitlyn as the bachelorette. Sorry, but that's jmho.

I wouldn't mind it so much if Ben became The Bachelor. Where does it show Ben having that discussion with Kaitlyn?

AllAboutLove wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:Shawn said Kaitlyn came to his room and sat on his bed. I thought that was kinda weird at first because the guys have roommates. Makes sense that Ben was there for a good portion of those 6-7 hours. When he left the "You're the one" discussion happened IMO. I would hope Kaitlyn didn't risk having sex with Shawn when Ben could walk right back in.

Oh boy.
Why would it not surprise me if that is what happened and it was all the more exciting for these two to do.
Snapchatting in bed and sending it to the world was probably just how these two are.

For Ben's sake I hope they would respect him enough no to go there in HIS room. However, her body language once she realizes what he is about to talk about says a lot. 

Nibbles22 wrote:This is like the worst season ever, and I feel bad for all of the great guys that got stuck with Kaitlyn as the bachelorette.  Sorry, but that's jmho.

IMO she got the best batch of guys, too! I usually only really like 6 or 7 out of the 25, but this season I like around 15 out of the 25! It's too bad she's kind of half-assing it. These guys deserve better.