Nick Viall - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #4

mindless wrote:I really don't see Kaitlyn leaving Nick in the dark about the outcome for over month, especially since they were friends before and had each others' phone numbers and email addresses and followed each other on SM. There's no reason for her to be so cruel as to leave him with false hope. Even if the producers told her to, she could've easily contacted him in private without them knowing. That's what friends do. She's not **edited**

GuardianAngel on Mon Jun 15, 2015 11:47 pm

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AllAboutLove wrote:Regarding why Nick is F2 and not F1. Will be interesting in seeing whether K marries her F1. Because if not, imo, it actually says a lot more about Nick and the person he is: that he is the marrying kind.  He is intense and fully committed. 100% in. For some leads/women that is just too much pressure. Rather a F1 they can be engaged to and not follow through on than someone who is 100% in and ready to set a date. jmo

remockered wrote:I am perplexed by the whole "poor F1" response.  Hey, he got the girl.  It was his decision and apparently they are still engaged in coitus without interuptus, except through their own mistake ( snapchatgate).  OTOH, nobody seems to feel sorry for Nick, who apparently fell for Kaitlyn, may have felt that sex was an indicator of deep feelings (if any occured), and proposed.  Nick was on the series to get the girl, same as f1.  IMO, it is hard to discern anything from the snippets that tptb CHOOSE to show the audience.  Nick is not one dimensional , yet the edit would have you believe so; same with any of the other guys..  Nick decided to go on the show, so I really cannot get enraged over his edit or any of the others. However, it is perplexing to me that That other guy is receiving sympathy for Kait dating( which often includes sex) a guy she eventually dumps on National television.    I can't think of many scenarios more humiliating than having an intimate relationship, proposing to the one you love, and getting rejected publicly; being the other guy would be fantastic.

DMBFan wrote:Just maybe he is taking it so well, because they are just friends (with benefits) and she asked him to come on the show as a back-up, in case she didn't fall for anyone.  He would've been her default F1 if there wasn't a Shawn...